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Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Thermodynamics(m): 9:36am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: It's possible that the lady is just playing him so she won't loose her job, since she is divorce she probably have children with hungry mouths to feed. Maybe she is just playing the man in other for her not to loose her job |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by TheBillyonaire: 9:41am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: Paragraphing is not your strong point. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 9:42am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:She won't lose her job because her cousin won't allow that, she's just with one child and the man wouldn't have done anything harsh if she rejected him. She was carried away by the small small assistance and chose the path of evil |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 9:43am On Jul 17, 2023 |
TheBillyonaire:Sorry, I no sabi write |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by SenatePresdo(m): 10:07am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: That man isn't the only man hitting on her, women always have men around trying to get under their panties. In as much as you are concerned, you don't meddle into people's privacy. Allow the wife to catch them herself, simple. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by SenatePresdo(m): 10:09am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: If you are so concerned about catching cheats, break into your sisters, brothers or Relatives phones, you must surely catch one person cheating, report the person as well. As na relationship and cheating police you don turn into. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Womanizer(m): 10:13am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: There is nothing bad in being a womanizer |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 10:15am On Jul 17, 2023 |
SenatePresdo:Why is nobody talking about the innocent wife who doesn't deserve all these devilish thing? Is the society this bad? One thing is I'll surely make sure this stupid affair ends. I'm just trying to get more suggestions on how to go about it. A useless man will not come and sow the seed of discord in that family, I'll not allow that |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by juri: 10:16am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: Before you make any decision, pls consider/answer the following questions/facts: 1. It must be stated clearly that regardless of your motives, you have violated your Aunt's privacy. It would have been fine if you mistakenly read the message, but the extra mile you took, and even intend to take when you mentioned somewhere, (if I am not mistaking) that you intend to stylishly check her phone again, is completely wrong. This must be stated clearly and you should not proceed further on this. 2. You said he is a womanizer. What makes you think the wife is not aware of this fact about here husband. As a mater of fact, what makes you think the wife is not even aware of the situation right now. Don't say is not possible. Because even what you have just found out, you would have argued and probably State it as an impossibility. You said it yourself that you were shocked when you found out. You may be shocked further. Everything is not always as it seems. When it comes to marriage, you would be shocked to know what happens behind doors. 3. What do you think would come out of the revelation. That the man will change or what?. 4. What makes you feel obliged or compelled to 'do something' or not to mind your business?. Don't you think the wife who chose to marry whatever she chose to marry should be allowed to carry her cross. Consider this together with paragraph 2 above. 4. Is it possible that with your revelation, people will be more compelled to dwell on your indiscretion than even on the evil you are trying to address? An ability to keep things to yourself sometimes is maturity. Remember these are not intending couples, these are all matured adults who know right from wrong and know what they want and don't want. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Womanizer:see this proud one. It'll surely catch up with you if you don't repent |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 17, 2023 |
juri:I understand you but I can also tell you that marriage will break if the man's wife gets to find out and it will cause enmity in the family which is what I'm trying to prevent. Don't you also think it was God that made me see that message for a purpose? I can smell danger ahead and for the fact that I'm feeling so uneasy about it means God wants me to do something, I always know when God is talking to me. 1 Like |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by almarthins(m): 10:21am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: Omo stay out of it. Mind Ur business if u no wan die untimely death. I say again, mind Ur business. They only thing u go fit do know na to ensure u no get involve any of this messy situation. If na me I go dey pray make the wife by chance discover the hidden things about the husband, na where casala go burst be that. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by SenatePresdo(m): 10:26am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: I'm not saying you are wrong for being against cheating. My concern is how you went about it, why break into someones privacy without their permission? If you don't find any problem with that, make sure you continue breaking into the phones of peoples that are close to you, you will catch many cheating. Endeavor to expose them. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by SenatePresdo(m): 10:27am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: Assuming you caught me in Hotel cheating with someone, and then decide to cast me, no problem. But breaking into my phone to transfer data? Com on! |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by juri: 10:40am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: So, can you do something without revealing your level of awareness and involvement in the matter. And this should be done carefully. Again, To conceal your level of awareness by all means. Say for example, you tell your Aunt and the the man's wife together that you heard some people talking with surgestive comments about a relationship between your Aunt the this woman's husband, but before you could come around to see who they were, they were gone, and then advise that your Aunt put a transfer out of the husbands office to stop these 'unfounded rumours'. You are the only one that can come up with a perfect scenerio for this kind of approach because you know them well. In my opinion, it has to be communicated to the both of them and possibly same time so the wife can be on her toes and the Aunt to take more decisive steps. But pls remember, it it critical that you consider all the possible questions that may arise from your narrative so as to conceal your level of knowledge and awareness. NEVER EVER mentione the message you saw and what you did with it. If after this the relationship still continues and the wife is not wise and smart enough to her responsibility, you hands off. By the way, I thought you mentioned that they were all in the same organization. You mean that rumours or body language haven't given the wife a hint all these while?. 1 Like |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 10:43am On Jul 17, 2023 |
juri:The wife will be the last person to ever suspect such thing from her big cousin. I like your suggestion and I'll go with it. Thanks |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by lomprico(m): 10:47am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: It is not! Or were you conceive out of abomination ? |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 10:52am On Jul 17, 2023 |
lomprico:Dont you see anything wrong with it? Na WA oooooo |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by NonsenseRubbish: 11:00am On Jul 17, 2023 |
Nonsense plus rubbish story The tales people come up with just for likes and views on nairaland of all places is just disappointing |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by lomprico(m): 11:01am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: Sex is not an abominable act period! |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 17, 2023 |
NonsenseRubbish:How you came up with this is worrisome. Writing is not even my thing so take your rubbish away. I don't know if a faceless likes can be converted to money |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Nobody: 11:31am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: It is good you see the high level of wickedness. Very soon, both of them go start to fork. Constant forking. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Delightsome2023: 11:32am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR:get a life you jobless troll |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Thermodynamics(m): 11:51am On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: You think? You don't know how wicked some men can be when they want to sleep with a particular woman. He might find a way to sack her without his wife getting angry. Don't just get involved in something you know nothing about, the fact that the lady refuse to sleep with him should let you know that she might be playing him. I suggest you confront the lady and ask her what is really going on to know if she is just scared of loosing her job. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by ComputerOperato: 12:33pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: You may know the beginning of a war. You can never tell how it will turn out. You're saying nobody is considering the innocent wife, but somebody already told you that if it blows up, it may eventually lead to divorce and the children will suffer. Isn't that considerate enough? I doubt you are married. Marriage is all than this lovey-dovey you see on social media. Somebody told you to send anonymous message but you don't want to listen. Don't worry. Go ahead and confront her. You hear? She can't do you anything abi? F.u.kc around and find out. I'm not going to tell you to stop. Just go ahead. Do it today please. The come back here and tell us the result. Peace. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Reinamaria(f): 2:30pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
IconicR: You are so dramatic with equally dramatic people in your life. |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by ChocolateWine(f): 2:31pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Dating or fornicating? |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Kendo93: 2:31pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
Fear Woman |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by olaadenigeria(m): 2:33pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
You too if possible chop and clean mouth. Who iif your cousin husband too dry flog another man babe. I bind every monitoring spirit from you |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by OBTOREPA(m): 2:33pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
EXPOSE THEM! |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Meteng: 2:35pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
But dem never do the do naw, why you dey para? Allow dem do the do fess |
Re: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Warlord2014(m): 2:41pm On Jul 17, 2023 |
It will shock you that the cousin won't even care....and you will end up looking stupid |
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