No

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

I wouldn't recommend you do that as a person since you remain an individual — your own mind, brain, and body — even in a relationship.

No carry woman matter for head too much.

APC does that

No,
reasons being that i use to have this "we-are-all-in-this-together" mentality untill, i started seeing this life in "black and white".
The last time i bought a very close collegues' beef didnt end well.
I was ready to give my life for that nigga tiat day,only for him to later on make peace with his aggresor thesame day, and i was left the "vallian".
That event that day fliped a switch in me.
(I have since then vowed never to carry nobodys cross except mine)
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#codedgalaxy

YeyeGbami:
Yes laa, will you be doing mr nice guy to person wey hurt your partner. I’ll make sure they never reconcile

I sight you...

Mr Vawulenciaga .....

Someone as lazy as I am wan go dey inherit beef?

Dem go jhus beat us quench...

Depends on the who....

No man disrespects any woman close to this ancestor. Even if I be lazy pesin, I still have boys I can call to fvck anybody up... I can even ladle accusations and lock someone like that up . You wey get mond dey follow woman throw blow, you don ready to die be dat.

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

depends nau...what if na she wrong?

So many immature responses here

Yes you should and it depends. In friendship, you may not but in marriage, you should

The only exception here is if your spouse was the one at fault or a troublesome. Barring that, you can't be my wife's enemy and expect me not to inherit the beef

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

You have to, if you don't, she will tell you that you don't love her. Women are funny gender

tosyne2much:
You should!

In friendship, you may not but in marriage you should

You can't be my wife's enemy and expect me not to inherit the beef

Even if she's at fault

Kingluqman:
How I go inherit beef? I no like Wahala abeg, if anyone hurt her, I go try calm her make she move on. But for me to hate that person, lailai.

see lies from the pit of hell, you love wahala, Lagos people cannot do without violence

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

First it was my mum then, my wife always hoodwink me into doing it but as a full grown mature man, u can't be found doing that. It is her problem not mine. I don't keep malice nor nurse animosity against anyone on this earth. Women are so petty.

phemmyfour:
Even if she's at fault

Yes you have to inherit your partner's enemy unless you end up with a spouse who goes around making troubles

If you disrespect any of my family members and I realize you're the problem, then why not? It's about loyalty but I don't support blindly.

No, my partner may be the one at fault I only trend with caution not to cause or allow it bring issu between us....

For me, it's childish

Normally I don't inherit my close relatives and friends beef... I've never done such a thing before because it's none of my business.

But when it comes to my man, I don't know.

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

Chingyyy878:
I mean if someone hurts your partner , will you see the person as your enemy ?

Why should you? If the person is someone you know or close to both of you, then your first move is to try and reconcile them.
If you cannot resolve the issue, then put some distance between you and the person for the sake of your partner. But you do not have inherit any hate, malice or aggression if it exists.

If its someone you have no dealings with, then good for you, as there really shouldn't be a need to inherit whatever issue your partner have with them.

tosyne2much:
So many immature responses here

Yes you should and it depends

In friendship, you may not but in marriage, you should

You can't be my wife's enemy and expect me not to inherit the beef

Boss,
Longtime, I miss your topics

My late father did this and he eventually lost his life in cold blood by the bitch sadly, am still battling to clear the mess.

Life experience, let's be guided by truth and logic. Be quick to sense manipulation, isolation and finishing.

My2cents

id4sho:


Boss,
Longtime, I miss your topics

Omo e don tey bro

It depends on the nature of the abuse .....

If very deep, yes I'll gladly inherit it....

No cap

meum:
I don’t inherit anyone’s enemy. E no mean say I no get people wey no just like me. I focus on those ones so I can treat their f. up😂

I notice everybody here get peaceful women. Who come get the ones wey dey find trouble up & down? Abi dem no get man for their live?

That table you dey shake make e no break on top your head oh 😂😂😂

Automatically..! You touch one, you touch all. That's how we roll. But I'll still try to mediate sha.

My partner know me say I go judge how the matter be,if to say na she get fault I will tell her the truth and she will be like are you behind dem or me... women can make you offend who you no suppose offend if you listen to them always,if she and someone fight today and the person greet me tomorrow I'll answer that person not minding what transpired between both...

Nyanabo:


That table you dey shake make e no break on top your head oh 😂😂😂

Which table? The one wey I don break since? Just carry wetin you fit carry go do firewood. I don Dey go😂😂😂

Pansophism:
Depends.

If she is a troublesome woman, then I will be indifferent to all her fights. But again, how will I end up with a troublesome woman in the first place?

But by default, my woman is very peaceful. And if she has a legitimate fight with anyone, then it is most likely that the person really is the aggressor.

pansophist!

advanceDNA:


U are still asking....?? Which kind partner u be?

.....if anybody dey tackle my paddii seff, the person don automatically enter my tackle list .....let alone my partner.... we die there ooo

Go and watch the treading video of 2 men that foght their way to h€ll because of their wives quarrel during COVID-19.

The 2 women are living their lives now and their two husband are receiving a well deserved punishment at the other side.

masterflowx:


Go and watch the treading video of 2 men that foght their way to h€ll because of their wives quarrel during COVID-19.

The 2 women are living their lives now and their two husband are receiving a well deserved punishment at the other side.

Yawn...!! U take life too serious....
Nairaland is for cruise