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Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by cococandy(f): 3:30pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
descarado: That family member has one opportunity ONCE to explain why they don’t like her. If their reason is not sufficient, they enter the blocked list. Effective immediately. There are people who are experts in driving wedges between relationships and married people by being obnoxiously critical of other people’s choices in life partners. Even when they can’t say exactly what that person did wrong. Just be going off vibes and nothing. By the time you examine their own lives, you find out that they didn’t even make a better choice than the person they are so critical of. But they want your partner walking on eggshells around them. We shouldn’t have time to entertain them. Blocked |
Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
cococandy:Couldn't it be said that, in their deluded mentality, they too perceive that person as having hurt their person too? ![]() |
Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by cococandy(f): 4:10pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Yep. deluded is the right word! |
Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by descarado: 4:12pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
cococandy:I wouldn't block anybody. I wouldn't block my mum for not liking my spouse rather, I will be a mediator no matter how long it takes. It gives immense joy when your patience and perseverance pays off. I am not good with malice. Drains all my energy. |
Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by cococandy(f): 4:21pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
descarado: When we are talking about parents, that’s a different story sha. Edit: However I’m still siding with my person. Everyone had a chance during the engagement and the wedding to “speak now or forever hold their peace”. Entertaining them or staying neutral when they project unwarranted hatred towards your spouse leaves the spouse feeling unprotected. I may not block them if they are that close as in my parents. But we are not kikiing until the issue is resolved. The spouse will feel especially betrayed if people hate them for no reason and the person who swore to love them is too avoidant of confrontation to stand up for them. That’s how I see it. But if my person did something to deserve the hurt or the hate, then it’s different. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Inherit Your Partner’s Beef by kkins25(m): 6:31pm On Sep 08, 2023 |
If it's outside my family? A big yes. If within my family, it depends on circumstances, it could easily turn to yes too. |
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