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Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by FRANCISTOWN: 11:52am On Dec 15, 2023 |
ogawisdom:I'm talking about my wife, not your wife. Your wife can say whatever she likes to you, or your relatives. That's your cup of tea and it has nothing to do with me. What I know is, ain't no wife of mine gon' speak to my relative disrespectfully. That's not my world. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by azidomedogo: 1:27pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
What some of us married men face daily. Some wife’s no dey apologize at all 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by 4ward4: 2:30pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Don’t make apologizing a common affair in marriage , rebuke her and move on like nothing happened. Making apology mandatory is setting your marriage on an official level, which isn’t health for a marriage as you know you can’t err without apologizing . Married here and only on serious offenses are sorry used in my house, the rest like what your wife said is rebuked and we are good like nothing happened. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by ogawisdom(m): 2:41pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: Lol Boss man It's well but if you already know what to do what is the point in bringing the matter to a public forum since you cant tolerate a different perspective. It seems you are newly married certainly below 1 year and the initial gra gra must happen before you calm down to reality. The less empowered esp financially the more likely she may give you 100% submission to your wishes. Money is power, is she 100% dependent on you? He who pays the Piper ............. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by omoredia: 3:10pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Oga u no get work? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by drerocker: 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: Bros your cup Don full Men do wrong most times but find it hard to apologise because of pride Bros pride kill faster.so better settle your home n stop embarrassing your self by coming her to post this rubbish ok |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by bigpicture001: 3:14pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
1TrippleCee: my ex gf is like dat..always trying to outdo u...and never apologises...sh chases fter high professional guyz who sh equally flaunts her own success and is fast to mk them realise sh will not b a liability...yet, doctors, bankers , oil workers and FG staffs sh has all orchestrated systematically and dated, have dumped her... most citing nothing..just dt thry cant matry her..babe is now 32 nd was the first at shiloh last month..dou time still dey to amend... marriage is simply live and sacrifice no b about money or achievement.... ladies just wont learn 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by madridguy(m): 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
My heart aches reading stories like this and I begin to ask myself who exactly is raising weak men like this? Nigeria men are fast lossing their right as an Africa man and very soon, our women will be chasing men out of their house just like the whites. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Kokomaster69: 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
I am sorry to say , a responsible man doesn't bring his family issues to the public to solve for him. Please go and fix your home responsibly. SMH 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Akinpresident: 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a: Guy wetin be this 😂😂😂 |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by bigpicture001: 3:15pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: sh has been like dat even at dating stage...u were blinded by her personal career achievement and went on to marry her...ok... welcome to the world of marrying a certificate... enjoi it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by santaclaws: 3:16pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: Technically, she didn't insult your mom. It just happens that you think your wife shouldn't mention ur mom like that, but it happens, women have 'sharp mouths' and you need to find a way to just playfully caution her when she says such things. Fighting your wife or keeping malice with her is a very childish thing. She doesn't need to apologize, you both should end it in the other room and move on. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by bigpicture001: 3:16pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Kokomaster69: mumu spotted |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by 1TrippleCee: 3:16pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
bigpicture001: It takes old age to reset their brain. For a man, once a woman starts to show competitiveness, it's time to run. Marriage is consolidation and collaboration not bring workplace competitiveness to the homefront 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by jimmyvic(m): 3:16pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Sit with your wife and iron out issues and stop troubling us with your matrimonial problems. We are facing "Nigeria". Signed Nairaland Mgt. |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by lawalmovichhhh: 3:17pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
ORIRE TI BÛRÛ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by femi4: 3:17pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:Don't worry, she will apologise in so many ways especially in the other room. As a married person, you should get used to non verbal apology from your spouse. That's why marriage is all about forgiving and not whose right or wrong 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by bigman001(m): 3:18pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: She is too proud and full of herself. Her apologizing will not remove any hair string from her body, maybe you have said something annoying to her in the past and you didn't apologize, now she wants to take her revenge without bringing the past issue into it. Anyway just be patient in handling things with her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by bigpicture001: 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
santaclaws: another mumu spoted...marriage is mot anout who is right or wrong...its supposed to b if ur patner is offended by ur actions...dont drag it..simply apologize, den if u want to vlear it out..later on her good happy day..u joking mke its clearer u were right afterall.. no b competition ooo 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Emmanuel30a: 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
[quote author=Akinpresident post=127498845] Guy wetin be this |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by TheGift: 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
If you are offended , it is your fault and not that of your wife, especially if she did not say something to deliberately offend you. But you want her to take responsibility for something she did not do, which is to deliberately offend Or insult you. You need to ask yourself why you feel offended and take responsibility for your feelings as a Man, rather than blame how your feel on someone else. Especially a woman. Are you sure you are not feeling that way because she spoke an uncomfortable truth? Ego is not very good in relationships , you need to learn to put your ego aside. If you and your wife are not communicating well it is because you are relating with her as an offender based on your feelings. You need to start relating with her as normal. You need to snap out of it. Leave tantrums for Kids. If you Must tell her anything, Just tell her that you felt offended that’s why you were not communicating normally with her but you have decided to take responsibility for how you feel rather than blame it on her. Then move on. Don’t let a small issue fester and become a big deal. Good luck . 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by israelmao(m): 3:19pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
It's unfortunate that many women do say things they don't think through or process well mentally or mean,sometimes they do some things to test out your reaction.That analogy she drew was really bad and you have to make her realise that you're really hurted and demand her unreserved apology.Four words that most people neglect but yet work magic:sorry,please,excuse and thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by santaclaws: 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
bigpicture001: It is well with you... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by SayNo2SmallPrik: 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Beremx:See rubbish wey you Dey type 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by id4sho(m): 3:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: Issues are treated immediately, she will still want to gas light you further. |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Jackipapa: 3:21pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
My Brother, continue keeping your cool and maintain your home. Relate to her as if she has never offended you. Do this and thank me later. |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by grandstar(m): 3:21pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you It will be best you ignore it. Maya Angelou said, "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you look at it" 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by yemmit90: 3:21pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: You take life too serious, which one be she must apologise. Just warn her not to say that again and move on. My wife don't even know the relationship between me and my family because I hardly discuss anything about them with her. She don't know if I give anyone something or not, so stop discussing your family issue with your wife to avoid a situation like this. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by drehdinho(m): 3:23pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
People explaining didn’t hear from the other side of the story. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by rickleye: 3:23pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you: Means her love for you is similar to a cup half empty. Not half full. If a person is in love they take the high road - I’m sorry dear if I offended you ! But her stance shows her love is waning . I have a terrible anger- I can be in the house and not talk to you for 3-7 days all depending on when my anger wanes off. What I would advice is a sit down and discuss how to resolve issues. Either she is wrong or right , the other person ought to say I am sorry it was not my intention. However, you should also prepare to expect bit to get your way all the time |
Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by FOODCOACH: 3:23pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
ogawisdom:I tire ooo |
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