South Africans has always been sex addicts.

All videos from their schools is people dancing and cheering. It is in their DNA. They just want to take their cloths off and dance around fire like their ancestors did.

STEWpid:
Chai..



It's men, internet, and television that is spoiling those girls.

What they see and who toast them.


In my time, we don't really have access to those things - so morality was top notched.

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Nigercity:
Sex among secondary school children is often motivated by what the see In Hollywood movies

Pornography which most of them are now exposed to.

What you gave as remedies are far from solving the menace!

This is a no brainer.
The exposure to social media, and phones is an attributes to this.
Moreover, the music industry has made s3x fashionable.
Our celebrities who walk almost nude has flashed this into our teens.
We must come back to Jesus Christ now.

We are in age that everyone is doing whatever pleases her ooo.

Often times, wen I'm going out in the street and see girls, who are still in their pre-teens stage of life, the kind of revealing leggings they usually wear ehn.

Even though the curve not yet comming out, the cloth would shoot it out by fire by force, yet these girls of 11-12 are leaving with parents.

Few weeks back I overheard 3 teenage girls discussing about sex openly, infact, me that is adult. I'm ashamed/shy with the way these tiny girls discussing it raw.

Still not know how Marriages would worthless in few years to come .

It is what it is today. It is left for every parent to their part and leave the rest

It's not surprising,considering the fact that all we have are a new breed called "gen-z".
Then there comes digital parents and a technologically advanced kids in a morally bankrupt generation.

Marry early

when i was younger, we always hear of secondary students getting pregnant in school. i think the case has changed alot now. truth is they dont know how to be secretive about things cos the consequences has dropped unlike those days where people understood the consequences..

bassdow:
Sheybi those of the old practiced Female genital mutilation to prevent/reduce this. Those who advocated for a STOP, failed to get a replacement

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NowAdays, especially with advent of internet, and social media, it's more difficult lying to kids as most 
understand use of internet, and social media much more than their elders.

How else do you think youngsters are able to be somewhat smarter & well informed than their elderly ones ?

This is why I said preaching the gospel to the children is no longer the solution.

Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXm0DoIz_Gk?si=2oLJP3AT2FseFhzg

Let's start with some heartbreaking stats:

A. 90,000 Schoolgirls Aged 10 To 19 Fall Pregnant In 2023 - South African Minister of Social Development, Lindiwe Zulu

B. 3 in 10 teen American girls will get pregnant at least once before age 20. That's nearly 750,000 teen pregnancies every year. Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school.

C. According to the World Health Organization, nearly 12 million girls aged 15–19 years and at least 777,000 girls under 15 years give birth each year, with at least 10 million unintended pregnancies occurring each year among adolescent girls aged 15–19 years in the developing world.

Let's stop here.

We know immorality has been around even many years before now, but we have to admit that it is currently on the increase. Also, various factors could be held responsible, including media, peer pressure, failed parenting, the rise in perverted adults who are taking advantage of the unmastered hormones of these young ones, etc.

One of the things we should always remember is that the devil is always interested in young people (of course, for evil purposes) and he targets places where there is a reasonable amount of young people, like schools. This is one of the reasons darkness is strong in many secondary schools today, and one of the implications is a high rate of immorality among young students.

However, the solution is God's Word. We must teach these young folks the truth of God's word. Inherent in the word of God is the fear of God. Once a young chap can have and keep the fear of God, like Joseph, they will easily be constrained to live righteously irrespective of where they find themselves.

Kingdom-minded Christians, who are ordained as light by the Lord Jesus, must rise and be proactive in tutoring the world and the people on the pathway of God's perfect Will. Believers, who are light and salt of the earth, should teach the parents of this world proper parenting; they should have direct interactions with the young folks of the society and disciple them unto righteousness; we should become major stakeholders in the media space and ensure the media won't corrupt youngsters again; we should infiltrate influential societal positions and enact laws and policies that protect these young ones from sexual predators; etc.

Finally, the so-called sex education being taught at many climes (where the young ones are given the option of using contraceptives for sexual acts) should be revamped. Rather, we should teach them abstinence sexual education, where they are granted wisdom to practice sexual purity and avoid all kinds of sexual immorality.

We have to inculcate the fear of God in these youngsters, which is possible via vehement exposure to God's word. So, for instance, they will see from God's Word that all forms of sexual pleasure must only be shared between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved. They will also be tutored to create the right structures where it will be difficult to go beyond boundaries, and we will disciple them to learn how to control their healthy sexual urges.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C2WAAXXIo9V/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Pastors don't preach holiness nor repentance anymore, all they preach today is money. That is one of the primary causes.
Because parents are chasing money that pastors are preaching, they fail to raise their kids properly.
Another primary cause is social media. S lot of porn everywhere on social media. And kids as young as 8 now have and use smart phones.

Poverty

crossfm:
The children are not to blame, the society and parents have failed them.

The contents they watch and the people they make their role models too has a lot to do with their actions.

From movies, music and dance steps,all have been sexualized.
Parents are at home shaking bom bom to even gospel music,while the children watch.

Our celebrities now release sex tapes in batches,yet too companies instead of canceling them,they reward them with endorsements.

True.

Sunday Akanni and sex ehn

Those kids are underage and saints!

They don't know anything kongi!

Little wonder the country is the capital of HIV I the world, they all start having unprotected sex right from small.

You see when some of us talk about the word 'Chastity' many would frown at us and shift on their chairs because it's old schooled and archaic but then it importance can't be downplayed.

And again, the buck is on the building and basic block of every human society and getting it right start from there, if the families are conscious and take deliberate steps to righting the wrongs about the quality of children been shipped out to the world, we might not be having this conversation in this first place.

Let me end my comments with this lines from Scarface,

If momma and daddy took the time to raise their son
Then the sister wouldn't be the mom before she twenty-one huh

So, let's start sexual education with the same tempo

I think young girls have always been this way.

Nothing new.

STEWpid:
Chai..



It's men, internet, and television that is spoiling those girls.

What they see and who toast them.


In my time, we don't really have access to those things - so morality was top notched.

Something must be wrong with you
A girl or woman seeking excitement when bored will see candy/adventure, disobey her parents & prefer to taste it rather than stay disciplined in Bible school
Then you say it’s men to blame.
That’s just ridiculous
Put your hands in fire and blame men for your foolishness like they were raped or don’t have the free will to decline
That’s transferring blame to others for your actions when we all know it comes with consequences
Everything is men’s fault.
I don’t blame you
There’s consequences to everything you do.
Man, woman or teenager
Especially when they are not babies that need their hands held everywhere
If they like they should get pregnant and then blame a guy

It can't get any better.. it'll always get worse

This is more prevalent in countries that embraced liberalism to the fullest.

As it was in the past...

Olachase:
I don't think there's anything we can do about it, that's part of the disadvantages of social media 😔😔


Imagine make 16 years old girl day talk say 5 Rounds no satisfy her 🤭🤭

3sum or even geng bang. Less than 16years will run it and you will not even suspect. Some of these girls are pushed by their mothers too..

Interesting15:
Finally, we shouldn't only complain about the corruption, but should stand up to proffer solution.

Personally, rather than just complaining, we are storming these secondary schools via the Purity Empowerment Projects to give free books on sexual purity to them.

you wey dey talk sexual purity u fit do am? Virginia

Olachase:
I don't think there's anything we can do about it, that's part of the disadvantages of social media 😔😔


Imagine make 16 years old girl day talk say 5 Rounds no satisfy her 🤭🤭

To be sincere children of this days are far better than children of 1990s and early 2000s, children of those 2 period are the worst in the history of human kind when it comes to sex and scoring zero,then they use to get pregnant at will,have sex in public, you will Hardly see them passing WAEC or Neco