crossfm:
The children are not to blame, the society and parents have failed them.

The contents they watch and the people they make their role models too has a lot to do with their actions.

From movies, music and dance steps,all have been sexualized.
Parents are at home shaking bom bom to even gospel music,while the children watch.

Our celebrities now release sex tapes in batches,yet top companies instead of canceling them,they reward them with endorsements.

You said it all.

Draslo:
It's only going to get worse


The digital age makes it easier. When I was in secondary school, the only social media was hi5. Only a few of us had it. It certainly made me more confident in approaching my mate for discreet nacks. Nowadays SM is totally and completely sexualized, so what do you want expect from a generation that has normalised twerking breasts and yansh in front of a camera

Just hearing about hi5 for the first time.

Sex is part of life,God knows why he gave us the urge

JealousCobra:
Social medias and porn sites !

And no hope at sight, it was not really like this in 80s and 90s 😎

Even In the early 2000s. Things started nosediving from 2010.

yinkeys:

Something must be wrong with you
A girl or woman seeking excitement when bored will see candy/adventure, disobey her parents & prefer to taste it rather than stay disciplined in Bible school
Then you say it’s men to blame.
That’s just ridiculous
Put your hands in fire and blame men for your foolishness like they were raped or don’t have the free will to decline
That’s transferring blame to others for your actions when we all know it comes with consequences
Everything is men’s fault.
I don’t blame you
There’s consequences to everything you do.
Man, woman or teenager
Especially when they are not babies that need their hands held everywhere
If they like they should get pregnant and then blame a guy

Her moniker already shows who she is.

femi4:
fixed

You no see her username?

immortalcrown:
Not the solution in this age.

Before condom was introduced in Nigeria, young boys and young girls abstained from sex not for religious reasons but because of fear. Girls were afraid because their parents told them they would become pregnant once they are touched by a man. Boys abstained from sex because their parents told them that once they touch a girl she would be pregnant. The fear of contracting sexually-transmitted diseases was another thing that kept children away from sexual activities then. But immediately condom came and children discovered that they can get away with underage sex, sexual activities began to thrive among children in Nigeria.

It is also wrong to blame social media and movies. Social media platforms don't supply themselves contents and movies don't create themselves. Adults create and release those contents. If social media should be blamed, why are you using the same social media to preach the gospel and tackle societal problems?

Keeping the tools away from them is more effective than trying to change their minds when they have the tools.

Actually boys were told if you looked at a naked woman you would turn to stone and it was true

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Even In the early 2000s. Things started nosediving from 2010.

The invention of android

nigerianart:
South Africans has always been sex addicts.

All videos from their schools is people dancing and cheering. It is in their DNA. They just want to take their cloths off and dance around fire like their ancestors did.

Their girls too like preeq

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Just hearing about hi5 for the first time.

E still dey but now dem don turn am to hookup site

twosquare:
The invention of android

Exactly

Exposure to irrelevant things.

NkanuSon:
Sex is part of life,God knows why he gave us the urge

Because God give u nose to smell, I guess you will start smell anyhow!

because God give u mouth to eat and people must hungry, because of that, a day old baby u will give him rice to eat!


I think God also gives u brain to think logically and rationally.

But you hear some nonsense about child marriage when a man legally and honorably marries an 18 years woman. At the same time such girls are busy prostituting theirselves to older men as "hookup".

The reality is that girls are already having sex at younger ages and it is hypocritical and naive to suggest that such women should not have same sex within an honorable context of marriage and committed relationships.

It's not new,
I did it back then In the 90s when I was in high school....
Point of correction, I no go secondary school, na high school I go, it was no big deal, it was not alarming as of today, guys must explore

The social media,celebrities, company management, endorsements,adults,products,sex teachings and everything in the society today is responsible for this. That's why those who live in the village and has no access to all this things do live longer than those who live in the city cos its polluted with things not fit for a good life at peace

STEWpid:
Chai..



It's men, internet, and television that is spoiling those girls.

What they see and who toast them.


In my time, we don't really have access to those things - so morality was top notched.

Yes, because you can't compare 1976 to 2024.. their must be growth and development. Even the weather then is different from the weather of today.

The Gospel is not for sunday morning alone

Human beings are naturally brainwashed.

What exactly is wrong with a 19 year old being a mother?

Did the Internet make mothers become younger ?

My only complaint about social media as regards family is that it gives a false sense of opportunity, options and distraction.

bassdow:
Sheybi those of the old practiced Female genital mutilation to prevent/reduce this. Those who advocated for a STOP, failed to get a replacement

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NowAdays, especially with advent of internet, and social media, it's more difficult lying to kids as most 
understand use of internet, and social media much more than their elders.

How else do you think youngsters are able to be somewhat smarter & well informed than their elderly ones ?

Does female genital mutilation reduce their desire for men?

ishowdotgmail:
It is what I referred to as moral decadence in our society today. They see from the internet and what happened around them.

They’re fast to learn, even with strict supervision and iron handling from their parents, some children still engage in sexual activities when in school or their parents yet to return from work.

Only God can redeem this world not even the government

It's responsibility of the government, how people be, that's how their society and government will be.

Wotoporiously speaking

Them dey Bleep like goat

even the LovePeddler jesus try to confuse am nt sure she listen.

The sad reality, you hugely have early exposure to sexual contents to blame for it. It is difficult to use the Internet these days without getting exposed to it, even the harmless animations and cartoons we all grew up watching are now laced with these contents and even worse, sexual theories that are alien to us. Even when you try to censor what your own wards are exposed to, are their school friends as lucky? As adults, riding the tide against peer pressure is difficult, not to talk of these little ones. It is really sad indeed.

waternogetemeny:
WHO NO CARRY GIRL ENTER TOILET FOR SEC SCHOOL?



U REALLY MISS SOMETHING AND NA UNA FULL HERE, THEY COMMENT LIKE JEW MAN.

your mental health is a few % less than normal, watch it. May they finish your future daughters in a dirty school toilet, say amen...

Interesting15:
Finally, we shouldn't only complain about the corruption, but should stand up to proffer solution.

Personally, rather than just complaining, we are storming these secondary schools via the Purity Empowerment Projects to give free books on sexual purity to them. To get involved, follow this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7976390/get-involved-purity-empowerment-project

God bless you

immortalcrown:
Not the solution in this age.

Before condom was introduced in Nigeria, young boys and young girls abstained from sex not for religious reasons but because of fear. Girls were afraid because their parents told them they would become pregnant once they are touched by a man. Boys abstained from sex because their parents told them that once they touch a girl she would be pregnant. The fear of contracting sexually-transmitted diseases was another thing that kept children away from sexual activities then. But immediately condom came and children discovered that they can get away with underage sex, sexual activities began to thrive among children in Nigeria.

It is also wrong to blame social media and movies. Social media platforms don't supply themselves contents and movies don't create themselves. Adults create and release those contents. If social media should be blamed, why are you using the same social media to preach the gospel and tackle societal problems?

Keeping the tools away from them is more effective than trying to change their minds when they have the tools.

I love this this educative, wisdom speaks through you. Nice

JealousCobra:
Social medias and porn sites !

And no hope at sight, it was not really like this in 80s and 90s 😎

I'm telling you. It all started from the advent of the Internet. I remember in year 2001 when Internet cafe was in scanty places. I'd locate one and browse schools and scholarships during what we called night browsing then. In same cafe, you'd see boys surrounding a computer and be watching porrn all night. We booked same ticket but for different purposes. Their lives never got better.

I still see some of them around, wandering the streets aimlessly. You see them as thugs harassing voters during elections. Its not good to be exposed to sex at such an early stage of life. Its destiny killer

eliyke:
being exposed to social media,small small children go just Dey shake Yanch anyhow,during my secondary school days na multi-links phone I use,nd na during my waec time,dis day once u login ur facebook na small small pikin u go Dey c Dey twerk.

It's crazy, especially on Facebook.... Facebook Reels and all. I always wonder if they don't have parents or other family members that see it these videos.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Just hearing about hi5 for the first time.

Hi5 was the sh*t back then (early to mid 2000s), shortly before Facebook took its place.