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What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by DeDonniesHomes: 10:04pm On Jul 04
We all know that one of the most paramount things most wo.men want from men is money.


But what do men find most important in a wo.man?


Most wo.men get it wrong, thinking that money can make them high value wo.men to men


But get really surprised when they make the money and expect lots of men to flock around them the same way many wo.men flock around wealthy men


But don’t get the men


That’s why many of them believe that men are intimidated by their success.


But that’s obviously wrong.


While money can make a man a husband material, it doesn’t make a wo.man a wife material


Because both genders want different things from each other


Even when we both want some things in common, we want them on different scales of preference or priorities.


WHAT THEN DO MEN WANT FROM A WO.MAN?


Femininity
Youthfulness
Virginity


Other things being equal, most men would rather settle for a younger lad.y than an older one.


In the same vein, most men will choose a vir.gin over and above a non-vir.gin


Finally, every man prefers a feminine wo.man to a masculine one


It’s important to note that, this is not to age-sham.e or slot-sham.e anyone -


So, each time a wo.man parades herself as a strong independent wo.man


She automatically becomes a red flag to many men


Strong = masculine wo.man


Independent = financially buoyant wo.man  


First off, no man wants a masculine woman. We prefer feminine ones


Secondly, why flaunt a banana you won’t give to a monkey around the monkey


We already know that your money is yours, your property and investments are yours and that of the man belongs to the family


That mentality is strongly ingrained in most wo.men,


Making their money of no useful to their husband and their home


Since “strong and independent” make her masculine, he also knows that the chances of divorce if he marries her are higher


So, why would he settle for such?


IF THE LADY IS AN OLDER WO.MAN,


Most men believe she should have one of the following to augment her (probable) loss of youthfulness and virginity


Money or a great career
Connection
Foreign citizenship in a 1st tier country.


But one thing men don’t compromise is FEMININITY


Even if she has virginity, youthfulness, money, connection, foreign citizenship, good in bed, beautiful as a goddess, etc.


If she lacks FEMININITY, men will keep running away from her, like an antelope that’s running away from a tiger.

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Re: What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by Proserpina: 10:12pm On Jul 04
A man's want depends on his age, social and financial status. It varies as a man advance in life. All you listed will not be beneficial to a youthful financially struggling man. He would want a woman who can ease his burden. Feminity, virginity, youthfulness is desired by men who are more financially, mentally and socially stable. It's the reason they look for "22 year old faargin " later in life.

A woman should know what the man she's dealing with want and not disturb herself with what all men want ,it is never the same. Same applies with men.

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Re: What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by DeDonniesHomes: 10:18pm On Jul 04
This is yet another angle. Thanks for your input.

But do you think any man can cope with a woman who has loss her femininity?

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Re: What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by Proserpina: 10:29pm On Jul 04
DeDonniesHomes:
This is yet another angle. Thanks for your input.

But do you think any man can cope with a woman who has loss her femininity?
Lol... What makes a woman loss her feminity ? When she's exposed to circumstances that makes her "man up" whoever is responsible for that will definitely "cope" with her.

Feminity is maintained.

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Re: What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:32pm On Jul 04
women will not understand the above because they live in a different world than men...
- men would value RESPECT/PEACE/CARE/UNDERSTANDING from a woman, rather than her millions
- women would value the millions of a man above his RESPECT/PEACE/CARE/UNDERSTANDING

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Re: What Do Men Truly Want In A Woman? by goran3310(m): 11:47pm On Jul 04
I don't have the strength to write about this. I value women Youth Beauty Virginity well then devotion value sacrifice selflessness understanding
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I find it disgusting: arrogance, disrespect, masculine behavior, irresponsibility, greed...
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