GREATPIN77:
your daughters and sisters too will understand what marriage is since they will end up like the woman. No need of dragging this matter too far

You cannot dodge the manifestation of my prayer in your life. It doesn't matter how you twist my statement.

What you wish my daughters will happen to you in 100 folds unless you point out where I wish anybody such a thing.

immortalcrown:
You cannot dodge the manifestation of my prayer in your life. It doesn't matter how you twist my statement.

What you wish my daughters will happen to you in 100 folds unless you point out where I wish anybody such a thing.

nobody twisted what you said. You claimed the woman understand what marriage is without calling out the husband to know what he has been doing since all these years watching his wife carrying the family burden. That means according to your view. It is okay for the woman to be carrying the family burden, even though the man is jobless. Provided the marriage is peaceful. You're okay with it. And i pray for your daughters and sisters to be like the woman. At least they will have a peaceful home

GREATPIN77:
nobody twisted what you said. You claimed the woman understand what marriage is without calling out the husband to know what he has been doing since all these years watching his wife carrying the family burden. That means according to your view. It is okay for the woman to be carrying the family burden, even though the man is jobless. Provided the marriage is peaceful. You're okay with it. And i pray for your daughters and sisters to be like the woman. At least she has a peaceful home

You are possibly wasting your time with that individual. I have experience with similar women who enable their lazy husbands. I never waste my pity on them as they know exactly what they are doing.

Life or marriage should never be suffering if carefully planned.

immortalcrown:
She understands the meaning of marriage.

The man is expected to be the main provider. But since the man, for an undisclosed reason, cannot provide for the home, what the woman is doing is not a crime in any law.

As long as the marriage is peaceful, she being the major provider is better than ending the marriage. She knows what she benefits from the marriage that is worth her sacrifice.

[b]The post does not explain why the man is not the main provider for the home. [/b]The poster does not know why the woman is relentless in providing for the home. Every marriage has some secrets.

The man is medically fit. Do you think there's any justification to why the woman is carrying the family burden without support?

UnfairLife7:
The man is medically fit. Do you think there's any justification to why the woman is carrying the family burden without support?

Does the post say that the man is medically fit?

immortalcrown:
Does the post say that the man is medically fit?

he's medically fit. I've met the man twice in their house. He's medically fit.

UnfairLife7:
he's medically fit. I've met the man twice in their house. He's medically fit.

Did you see his medical report or did you conduct medical checks on him?

immortalcrown:
Did you see his medical report or did you conduct medical checks on him?

The wife confirmed it during our course of conversation. Nothing is wrong with him.

UnfairLife7:
The wife confirmed it during our course of conversation. Nothing is wrong with him.

Did she tell you why he is not working?

As you found out that he is healthy, try to find out why he is not working.

immortalcrown:
Did she tell you why he is not working?

As you found out that he is healthy, try to find out why he is not working.

I did not actually. I don't want to make her sad the more.

UnfairLife7:
I did not actually. I don't want to make her sad the more.

Then, don't expect me to accept your assumption as a fact.

immortalcrown:
Be it unto you according to your wishes for me.

As a matter of fact, what you wish me will happen to you in 100 folds, unless you point out where I wish any woman a poor husband.

You said there’s nothing wrong with what the woman is doing and he wished your daughters and sisters same fate..why are you rejecting it?😅 ozuor

immortalcrown:
Did you see his medical report or did you conduct medical checks on him?

Please just shut up. He’s a lazy man just like you are that’s why you’re supporting him. See his wide mouth like “it’s not a crime for the woman to be the provider”
While the man sits at home like a sissy 24/7. May your daughters marry men like that or (men as lazy as you are)😒

Duchexx:
Please just shut up. He’s a lazy man just like you are that’s why you’re supporting him. See his wide mouth like “it’s not a crime for the woman to be the provider”
While the man sits at home like a sissy 24/7. May your daughters marry men like that or (men as lazy as you are)😒

Even if the man is lazy, he is better than you because you are not just lazy but delusional. If you are not delusional, point out where I support the man for not working.

Duchexx:
You said there’s nothing wrong with what the woman is doing and he wished your daughters and sisters same fate..why are you rejecting it?😅 ozuor

If not that you are delusional, your question should have been why has he failed to point out where I support a man for not providing for his family. If you are not as delusional as the guy you support, point out anywhere I said it is good for a man not to provide for his family.

immortalcrown:
Even if the man is lazy, he is better than you because you are not just lazy but delusional. If you are not delusional, point out where I support the man for not working.

You obviously do not use your brain because you indirectly supported the man! “It’s not a crime for the woman to provide” “do you know why the man can’t work” even after OP told you the man is fit. You kept supporting him because na your fellow lazy man. Better change!

immortalcrown:
If not that you are delusional, your question should have been why has he failed to point out where I support a man for not providing for his family. If you are not as delusional as the guy you support, point out anywhere I said it is good for a man not to provide for his family.

It’s like you just learnt the word “delusional”😅😂 you just keep throwing it anyhow. Anyway, it’s a beautiful sir! Go out and work stop waiting for your wife to provide for you and your kids!!! It’s very very bad sir😒

immortalcrown:
Then, don't expect me to accept your assumption as a fact.

did i ask you to accept anything from me? The man is medically okay and the woman is carrying the family burden.

UnfairLife7:
did i ask you to accept anything from me? The man is medically okay and the woman is carrying the family burden.

You indirectly ask me to accept your assumption. You do this by arguing against my comment. My comment basically says two things. One, the reason the man is not working is not known. Two, if the marriage is peaceful, it is better for the woman to be the provider than for her to divorce the man.

Duchexx:
It’s like you just learnt the word “delusional”😅😂 you just keep throwing it anyhow. Anyway, it’s a beautiful sir! Go out and work stop waiting for your wife to provide for you and your kids!!! It’s very very bad sir😒

If you are not delusional, you won't say what you cannot prove. If you are not delusional, prove that I am waiting for my wife to provide for my home. If you are not delusional how do you even know my gender, my marital status and my employment status?

Duchexx:
You obviously do not use your brain because you indirectly supported the man! “It’s not a crime for the woman to provide” “do you know why the man can’t work” even after OP told you the man is fit. You kept supporting him because na your fellow lazy man. Better change!

If you have brain at all, point out where I support the man for not working. If you have brain at all, explain how asking why the man is not working means supporting the man for not working.

My point is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing her husband when the marriage is peaceful. If you have brain at all, explain how the statement means supporting the man for not providing for his home.

immortalcrown:
You indirectly ask me to accept your assumption. You do this by arguing against my comment. My comment basically says two things. One, the reason the man is not working is not known. Two, if the marriage is peaceful, it is better for the woman to be the provider than for her to divorce the man.

The only reason a full grown man will not work is if he's medically unfit and I've cleared that already that he's medically fit and not bedridden. The woman obviously isn't happy with the condition of her family. She has spent 30 years in service with nothing to show for it. She isn't happy obviously. So what's peaceful in an unhappy marriage? She doesn't have to sit me down and start crying about her husband inability to work or provide. It's obvious already. And if i chose to go further in asking she'd eveal everything to me but i don't see any reason for that. It won't solve the problem. That will not make her husband start working. I only know what she wants me to know.

immortalcrown:
If you have brain at all, point out where I support the man for not working. If you have brain at all, explain how asking why the man is not working means supporting the man for not working.

My point is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing her husband when the marriage is peaceful. If you have brain at all, explain how the statement means supporting the man for not providing for his home.

Don't let me believe what the other person said that you're a LAZY MAN. My cousin told me about her colleague in office. Her mother divorce her father because he's lazy. Always sitting idle at home doing nothing. She had 3 kids 2 boys and a girl and she divorce him. This woman today is doing pretty fine. She has a supermarket in Lagos, own properties and one of her kids school abroad. The second born of the woman was my cousins colleague. Did you know what? The last boy took after his lazy father. He dropped out of secondary school, jobless, and sitting idle eating his mother's food. This guy in question is a twin. The second boy is the one in US doing his masters. The family had done everything possible to make this boy useful in life and not end up like his father all prove abortive. After series of advice from family and friends, he said he wants to learn mechanic and he has been learning it going to a year now. Their father is still jobless till date and unmarried. Their mother never regret her decision leaving the marriage. Any woman who married a jobless and lazy man should leave that marriage without thinking twice. It is forbidden to be lazy as a full grown man. Stop disgracing yourself here bro.

If you don't want your daughters and sisters to end with a jobless lazy man please stop justifying reason why a medically fit man should be lazy.

GREATPIN77:
Don't let me believe what the other person said that you're a LAZY MAN. My cousin told me about her colleague in office. Her mother divorce her father because he's lazy. Always sitting idle at home doing nothing. She had 3 kids 2 boys and a girl and she divorce him. This woman today is doing pretty fine. She has a supermarket in Lagos, own properties and one of her kids school abroad. The second born of the woman was my cousins colleague. Did you know what? The last boy took after his lazy father. He dropped out of secondary school, jobless, and sitting idle eating his mother's food. This guy in question is a twin. The second boy is the one in US doing his masters. The family had done everything possible to make this boy useful in life and not end up like his father all prove abortive. After series of advice from family and friends, he said he wants to learn mechanic and he has been learning it going to a year now. Their father is still jobless till date and unmarried. Their mother never regret her decision leaving the marriage. Any woman who married a jobless and lazy man should leave that marriage without thinking twice. It is forbidden to be lazy as a full grown man. Stop disgracing yourself here bro.

If you don't want your daughters and sisters to end with a jobless lazy man please stop justifying reason why a medically fit man should be lazy.

If you have brain at all, point out where I support the man for not working. If you have brain at all, explain how asking why the man is not working means supporting the man for not working.

My point is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing her husband when the marriage is peaceful. If you have brain at all, explain how the statement means supporting the man for not providing for his home.

If you have brain at all, point out where I justify laziness or where I justify the man not working. If not that you are delusional, you won't even claim I am justifying the reason the man is not working. Nobody here has been able to give the reason why the man is not working. So, which reason am I justifying about the man?

UnfairLife7:
The only reason a full grown man will not work is if he's medically unfit and I've cleared that already that he's medically fit and not bedridden. The woman obviously isn't happy with the condition of her family. She has spent 30 years in service with nothing to show for it. She isn't happy obviously. So what's peaceful in an unhappy marriage? She doesn't have to sit me down and start crying about her husband inability to work or provide. It's obvious already. And if i chose to go further in asking she'd eveal everything to me but i don't see any reason for that. It won't solve the problem. That will not make her husband start working. I only know what she wants me to know.

All your claims about the man are sentimental, not factual. The only fact you have presented about the man is that he is not working. Has the woman told you she is not happy in the marriage? Has the woman told you why the man is not working?

I don't use assumptions or sentiments to take a stand in any issue. In all I have written under this thread, all I have been saying is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing the husband if her marriage is peaceful. I have not supported the man for not working. Neither have I condemned the man for not working. I need to know why the man is not working before I will decide to condemn or support him. But you are here condemning the man when you do not know why he is not working.

immortalcrown:
If you have brain at all, point out where I support the man for not working. If you have brain at all, explain how asking why the man is not working means supporting the man for not working.

My point is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing her husband when the marriage is peaceful. If you have brain at all, explain how the statement means supporting the man for not providing for his home.

If you have brain at all, point out where I justify laziness or where I justify the man not working. If not that you are delusional, you won't even claim I am justifying the reason the man is not working. Nobody here has been able to give the reason why the man is not working. So, which reason am I justifying about the man?

Tell me how op colleague is better than my cousin's colleague friend mother that divorce her husband for being LAZY and JOBLESS and she's doing fine today with her kids while the man she left is still unmarried, JOBLESS and lazy? How is op colleague better than her? Please tell me

Me I will give you 100 ways my cousin's colleague mother is far far better than op colleague

immortalcrown:
If you are not delusional, you won't say what you cannot prove. If you are not delusional, prove that I am waiting for my wife to provide for my home. If you are not delusional how do you even know my gender, my marital status and my employment status?

Drink responsibly you say no!😅 You have “m” as gender and you’re asking how I know you’re a man even went as far as calling your ancestors delusional. Drink responsibly sir

immortalcrown:
If you have brain at all, point out where I support the man for not working. If you have brain at all, explain how asking why the man is not working means supporting the man for not working.

My point is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing her husband when the marriage is peaceful. If you have brain at all, explain how the statement means supporting the man for not providing for his home.

If you have brain at all, point out where I justify laziness or where I justify the man not working. If not that you are delusional, you won't even claim I am justifying the reason the man is not working. Nobody here has been able to give the reason why the man is not working. So, which reason am I justifying about the man?

Lazy man! Why will a man medically fit not provide for his home? It’s like you’re the man op is talking about. Better go and work! Carry all the burden and put on your poor wife. “If the home is peaceful” yen yen yen. Common sense didn’t tell you the home isn’t peaceful when the woman has series of debts. Which woman would be happy when she has series of debts and a lazy husband like you at home.

immortalcrown:
all your claims about the man are sentimental, not factual. The only fact you have presented about the man is that he is not working. Has the woman told you she is not happy in the marriage? Has the woman told you why the man is not working?

I don't use assumptions or sentiments to take a stand in any issue. In all I have written under this thread, all I have been saying is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing the husband if her marriage is peaceful. I have not supported the man for not working. Neither have I condemned the man for not working. I need to know why the man is not working before I will decide to condemn or support him. But you are here condemning the man when you do not know why he is not working.

Any man that is medically fit and not working is a lazy man! Use your brain!
Saying “If you have brain” “if you have brain” yet you go ahead and prove you yourself don’t have brain😅
May your daughters marry a man that will be medically fit but choose not to work! Say Amen o
May they remain with such man while being the breadwinner and never divorce since the marriage is “peaceful” Amen!!!

immortalcrown:
all your claims about the man are sentimental, not factual. The only fact you have presented about the man is that he is not working. Has the woman told you she is not happy in the marriage? Has the woman told you why the man is not working?

I don't use assumptions or sentiments to take a stand in any issue. In all I have written under this thread, all I have been saying is that the woman providing for her home is better than she divorcing the husband if her marriage is peaceful. I have not supported the man for not working. Neither have I condemned the man for not working. I need to know why the man is not working before I will decide to condemn or support him. But you are here condemning the man when you do not know why he is not working.

No home is peaceful if the woman is solely carrying the family burden while the man is alive, living together and healthy. Pray foryour daughters and sisters to have that kind of peaceful home then. Or don't you want a peaceful home for them?

VTJN:
No home is peaceful if the woman is solely carrying the family burden while the man is alive, living together and healthy. Pray foryour daughters and sisters to have that kind of peaceful home then. Or don't you want a peaceful home for them?

You keep using sentiment and emotion here. You have not used any fact against me. You are here claiming that no home is peaceful when a woman is the provider. Can you prove that all homes are the same? Can you prove that all women are the same? If your mother disrespects your father when he fails to provide for your home, every woman is not like your mother.

My daughters and my sisters will have peaceful homes in Jesus name, Amen.

Duchexx:
Any man that is medically fit and not working is a lazy man! Use your brain!
Saying “If you have brain” “if you have brain” yet you go ahead and prove you yourself don’t have brain😅
May your daughters marry a man that will be medically fit but choose not to work! Say Amen o
May they remain with such man while being the breadwinner and never divorce since the marriage is “peaceful” Amen!!!

Until you tell me why the man is not working, your brain is damaged. Your are not just lazy, your brain is damaged that you cannot be productive. That is why you have failed to answer my questions but have continued to try to use emotions and sentiments against me.

Until you point out where I wish any woman a poor husband, your prayer for my daughters will irreversibly backfire you in a million folds. But if I have wished any woman a poor husband, may your prayer for my daughters be effective on my daughters.