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Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by mosicola(m): 10:21pm On Jul 16
Go to where they are selling coffin and choose your measurement and your favorite color of casket
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by travelzcruix: 10:44pm On Jul 16
Stop fornicating, now c.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Ediffizy: 10:57pm On Jul 16
Pls NL_anders..IDGF about the post.. Problem is av not eaten for 5days..will ulcer catch me... undecided
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Abee79(m): 12:00am On Jul 17
I know exactly what is wrong with you, but it's none of my business 😁✌️
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by nzechu(m): 2:31am On Jul 17
U HV cholera, go and take drip
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Brown2012: 2:40am On Jul 17
ronet2:
Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. πŸ™ πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
I will start by saying ulcer can make you have all the listed symptoms you mentioned and more, ulcer is wicked. There is no means of getting infected if you practice Safe sex, which I believe you did from your story. Repeat the test after 3months or you can go for a PCR test it detects the virus even at window period.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by LilX2: 5:33am On Jul 17
tiswell:
You should be ashamed of yasef for sleeping with a a girl unprotected sad



Maybe,getting infected will help reset your e.mpty brain


Learn to read bruh
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Flesh10: 6:57am On Jul 17
Reminds me of the trauma I just recovered from

A female friend I met on Facebook came to visit me but almost died in my house. It wasn't a funny experience.

So I have been friends this babe online for about 6yrs now. We've been talking on phone very well. This year she needed a job as things have been bad so she reached out to me about looking for a job and I began the search for her.

She got an interview invite close to my side but she lives very far and asked if she could stay over at my place so she can arrive early at the interview venue.

I told my fiancee about it and she approved and asked me to allow her to come around.

She came around on Sunday evening, it was the first time we were meeting after over 6yrs of talking on phone. When she came we gisted and even had to call my fiancee on video call for them to greet.

I am someone who usually sleeps very early so at about 9pm I retired to my room to sleep and left her at the parlour where she was watching a movie by dawn she went for the interview and returned back with high fever and shivering.

I thought it was something mild so I got her paracetamol to drink which she did and slept off. She was too weak to go home and time was already gone so she spent a second night at my place and that was when my nightmare began.

All through the night she was stooling, vomitting with very high fever.

I was so confused, she looked so weak and Fragile, her eyes turning white. I became scared because she was looking weak. There I realized that I didn't know this person. A stranger in my house what if anything happens? I will be in a deep mess and social media will tag me a ritualist that lured a friend from Facebook to kill.

Thoughts filled my heard. I know one cause of casualty for someone with severe diarrhea and vomiting is loss of bodily fluid so I quickly gave her oral drip (salt and water) to replenish lost body fluids.

She kept drinking and vomitting, it was midnight I couldn't raise alarm and besides it's a compound I recently moved in.

It was morning and she was still very sick. Let's goto the hospital she refused, let me call a nurse she refused.

The stooling and vomiting only became intense, I suspected it was cholera and quickly rushed to a pharmacist to explain her symptoms. She gave me a pack of oral drips, some antibiotics and some drugs which I brought to her.

She refused to still take the drugs. I had to find eba and wrapped the drugs inside then fed her myself which was a struggle.

On day 5 she gained small strength and was strong enough to leave.

She left the house and I was relieved.

What would I have said if it went beyond that?

My fiancee where she is was already panicking because we didn't know this person except from Facebook.

I learnt a lesson and will never allow a stranger into my house again.

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Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by bluebay(m): 7:37am On Jul 17
Bros , you have Apenddex
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by godliman: 7:39am On Jul 17
Just for 5 or 10 minutes of pleasure you are going through this trauma? Is it worth the trouble? You may not have HIV but it seems you got something equally disturbing. You guys are brave ooo. The body of a stranger is an uncharted territory for some of us. You reported here few days ago how a lady he took home for the night was awake staring at him while he was deeply asleep. Sex outside marriage is a disaster willingly courted. Same yourself trouble.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by ronet2: 7:50am On Jul 17
πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. Na old friend that came to town. We have been communicating for years. It was never planned.
Not kissing and all that was just natural precautions to avoid any gap.
Oluwaleinad14:
Bruh don go sleep with N1500 ashawo, better go back to her and ask her health condition if she's going to be truthful with you. Or be ready to spend so much money and be depressed. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by deavicky(m): 9:01am On Jul 17
ronet2:
Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. πŸ™ πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
next time wash with petrol or diesel.
Just wondering why u are here telling us all this while u are good at running various test. So Why not do same.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by MrDoGood(m): 9:13am On Jul 17
ronet2:
Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. πŸ™ πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

You see that thing called ulcer, it's more deadly than you think. Don't underestimate it.
It can make you pass out. You can be in hospital bed for days because of ulcer.
Forget about the hospital treated you for ulcer, nothing like that. Medically, I've not seen a permanent cure. You can only manage it and avoid food that will trigger it. Those pains you're experiencing can be caused by ulcer. It can do a whole lot to your body system.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by AbujaLagos: 9:54am On Jul 17
Oga na ulcer be this. Check what you do consume
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Fadoria: 10:15am On Jul 17
ur mind has taken over
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Love800(m): 11:58am On Jul 17
What do you mean by mouth-action pls?
franchasofficia:
You can't contract HIV that way as a man except you have an injury on your male organ.


Men mostly contract HIV through sex when they have an injury or other STIs/STDs, and if you engage in MouthAction and you happen to have injury in your mouth. So at all cost avoid MouthAction.


The fastest way men contract HIV is through gay sex and through MouthAction.


Stop panicking but if you can abstain it will do you a lot of good, and remember you can't do it alone on your own through self discipline and that is why you need to take God serious by going closer to God through Christ.


Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Love800(m): 12:01pm On Jul 17
What do you mean by oral pls?
flokii:
@OP Try relax your mind.. So far you used protection, no oral and condom didn't burst. no issues.

What about scenarios where one spouse will be HIV posotive and be sleeping with other spouse without any form of protection, yet that one will test negative to HIV.

Then some, just minor cut or through clippers and bo0m, they have HIV.

Don't worry too much.. total abstinence till marriage is however advisable.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Oluwaleinad14(m): 12:31pm On Jul 17
ronet2:
πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. Na old friend that came to town. We have been communicating for years. It was never planned.
Not kissing and all that was just natural precautions to avoid any gap.

Crazy how one been tryna careful with those situations and still get catch-up someway...
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Fiwayemi(m): 1:34pm On Jul 17
ronet2:
Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. πŸ™ πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
the only sickness you have is phobia for HIV
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Opeblak: 2:24pm On Jul 17
[quote author=ronet2 post=130987713]Hello everyone,

I need some advice from medical persons on a possible exposure to HIV.

What is the probability of contracting HIV infection after protected sex with condom and washing of the genitals with soap and water.
So the story..
I had a one off sex with a lady on May 4th 2024 with condom. No oral,no kissing. After ejaculation,I removed the condom carefully,their was no condom tear/bust and went to the bathroom to wash off with soap and water ( i did not wipe off with tissue before washing off). So on 28th morning,I woke up with vomiting,diarrhea and localized abdominal pain on my lower left. Had a very mild fever the next day and I was treated for malaria and I recovered,though abdominal pain persisted for a while. I tested for HIV at 30 days post exposure and it came back negative.On 18th June 2024,the abdominal pain returned with diarrhea,lower back burning sensation and low grade fever the next day. I carried out culture test And Ulcer test, some bacteria was found and ulcer was positive. I was treated for ulcer and the abdominal pain stopped.

So my fear:
1.Can ulcer alone cause the symptoms described above?
2. Are their other possible STI/UTI test I need to carryout?
3. Is it possible that while washing off,the reminant of vaginal fluid on the pubic area can wash down to the tip of the penis and hence cause infection ( note I did not wipe off with tissue before washing off,meaning i might still have sperm at the tip)?
3. Can HIV transmit this way?
4. What are my chances that my 4 weeks negative test will not change after 3 months?

From wide search,I learnt that HIV 2 which is predominant in west Africa is a bit harder to transmit.

I'm still experiencing intermittent abdominal pain,burning sensation.

Thanks. πŸ™


lol....your level still dey hard for this kind time? grin grin grin
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by zagorakis(m): 2:24pm On Jul 17
This is just the downside of casual sex, too much worry.
Well, I dont think you have HIV
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by flokii: 2:31pm On Jul 17
Love800:
What do you mean by oral pls?

Giving and receiving head from the opposite sex.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Mrexcell(m): 3:17pm On Jul 17
brainpulse:
90% of all sexually activie unmarried ladies/ girls/ women are all carrying one infection or the other and 95% of them are carry spiritual infection that condom can not protect against. From a reliable lab & spiritual scientist.



This is the reason why many guys has decided against having any sexual relationship for years it's almost impossible to see decent ladies these days in nigeria.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by KORLAR(m): 5:41pm On Jul 17
Why you dey find HIV wey by fire by force?

The mind can sometimes be a trickster.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Baladalph: 11:46pm On Jul 17
atobs4real:
Check your system medically.
It may be something else

U have ulcers.or low immunity. But firstly u need go do test with ur pathner before assuming she is hiv positive. U must have also eating food cooked with flooded water or un cleaned water.

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Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Love800(m): 8:55am On Jul 18
Okay.
Kissing someone on the lips, is it oral too?
flokii:


Giving and receiving head from the opposite sex.
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Mccollins042(m): 3:46pm On Jul 23
DaddyCoool:


He could have HIV from previous. You should say he didn't get it from that encounter
Exactly. Thanks man

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Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by ronet2: 2:07pm On Jul 26
grin grin I no dey pray for HIV ooo. Within me I have 99.8% confidence that I'm not infected. But my concern was the possibility of reminant of vaginal fluid on my pubic area dripping down to the tip of my penis while washing off with water and their is possibility of present of sperm on the tip. Na 0.2% now I dey worry
ukaface:

Hiaaaa
Abi you wan get HIV
You wore protection, no oral, no kissing, no tear
So how else will STI enter? Well except if there is something else you ain’t saying
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by RealityKings(f): 8:03pm On Jul 30
Love800:
Okay.
Kissing someone on the lips, is it oral too?
yes
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by Love800(m): 8:36am On Aug 01
So you saying that one can contact HIV when you kiss someone on the lips?
RealityKings:
yes
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by ronet2: 1:39pm On Aug 01
HIV can be transmitted if their is presence of sore/ fresh wound. But be mindful, hepatitis is more dangerous and can be transmitted by sex,body contact,saliva and what not. To be on the save side,avoid kissing or kiss only person you know very well
Love800:
So you saying that one can contact HIV when you kiss someone on the lips?
Re: Am I Infected With HIV?? by ronet2: 1:45pm On Aug 01
Thanks for your encouragement. Just did another HIV test 3 months post exposure and result was negative. Hopefully,this will be it. Time to relax.
Eriokanmi:
Calm down OP and don't listen to many quacks here.

Ulcer symptoms alone could be confusing at times. You'd think you have malaria meanwhile it's ulcer. Peptic ulcer is the most painful and disturbing. It could hold your upper back bone like its breaking off. When you drink cold water, you'd feel like vomiting. The abdominal ulcer hurts same way but the activities are limited to the abdomen. You don't even like yourself. You're an uncer patient, you didn't treat it and you went and slept with a woman? Stress is one of the triggers. Having sex entails use of the entire body strength. You could break down thereafter, as an uncer patient, depending on the stage.

That said, nobody here would he able to tell if you're hiv positive or negative. Only the lab result will tell so, why not go back to that lab and get tested once again, to be sure? I'm not sure it's hiv you contracted though.

To all the promiscuous fellas here, wearing latex alone isn't a safe means of having sexual intercouse. While you're pulling off the latex, there's a remnant of the fluid following it, up to the tip of your genital. Once it has its way, it's as good as having unprotected sex. Before you pull it off, did you first lift it and clean the public side with tissue? Then did you wash that side very quickly before your genital got weak and then carefully remove it thereafter? If you have a cut in-between your public hair, maybe due to recent shaving, the fluid can penetrative through. Women too can contrast infections if the guy has some openings around the balls and genitals cos there could be blood release in the process as a result of the rubbing and thrusting by the guy.

There's a lot of risks associated with sex which is why we've always been advocating abstinence. You'd not die if you do not have sex before marriage. This applies to both gender. To say you no go pass your boundaries, you for no dey panick like dis

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