Tightpussy2024:

Think before commenting.

Imagine giving your love to a foreign immigrant,that is broke. He uses you to get his papers, suddenly he tells you that he is travelling back or discards for his female naija women you after carrying his child and giving him papers. Will you want him near you and the child?

babajero:
that is what women do when there is a breakup.

Maysdevices:
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optimusprime2:



Haba, don't be harsh na... do you know if he was deported to even start with?

Maeve7:


If he was deported, that’s a different issue altogether. Still not a reason to badmouth the child‘s mother on social media. It’s not a good start for the father-daughter-relationship. If he has to tell her anything about the mother, he should consider how it make the girl feel because she probably loves her mother. It’s just plain stupid and very insensitive to post such information online.

IamAtAnger:
U be mumu... how she wan take prevent 18 yrs old girl now?... she don mature and the mother no fit get full right like be4 wen she be teenager

LilX2:



You sometimes read without understanding, the girl is 18yrs and can choose to do what she wants !

MasterJayJay:
Nigerian-Filipino girl searches for her father.



Chude Nnamdi

Tightpussy2024:

Why do you all have all excuses and positive assumptions for men considered deadbeats? You people obviously conceive all nuances and instances. "He may have", "it's her toxicity that chased him away", "maybe this or that happened"..

But never a single understanding or nuances for baby mamas or single mothers. Like extend the grace you give to these men to single moms .

Personally,looking at his age,and seeing he had to leave the country, I assume he was deported and couldn't return back. I can give him that benefit of doubt, give single moms and baby mamas the same benefit of doubts in all your judgements.

But no, in your kangaroo courts all single moms are promiscuous women wanting men to trap men with pregnancies or was too toxic then men had to walk away. They are extremely bitter people that poison the mind of the kids against their father.
All deadbeats were men manipulated into pregnancies,or couldn't endure the mothers excesses or were trying to reach out but were blocked off by the mothers

Maeve7:


Even if that is how the story unfolded, which is possible as it has been happing for ages, he is not the victim in all of this. He played with the life and heart of the child‘s mother and so also with the life and heart of his child. He is anything but a victim in all of this.

Use your advice for yourself.

we4a1l:
I need a loan of N40,000 payable in three installments over one year. I am very trustworthy. Please come to my help.

Maeve7:


And men are helpless innocent victims. Yeah right.

1Sharon:


The father is over 18 but she prevented him

optimusprime2:


You are very right!

I am just very careful about fully taking sides in these kind of cases, because I have seen similar situations where the mother was a key factor to the deportation of the "African" father due to certain issues... In the end there is usually the classic case of; bad blood between the father who was deported & the begrudging native mother, then a grown innocent child caught in-between the drama, who then resorts to social media to trace the father & the truth.

babajero:
more than 90% of divorces are instigated by women.

MasterJayJay:
Nigerian-Filipino girl searches for her father.



Chude Nnamdi

meobizy:
She's home. No point complicating her life.

Maeve7:


Mostly after enduring a whole lot of crap.

1Sharon:


The father is over 18 but she prevented him

donbenie:
Mostly after they are sure to acquire half of what men spent their whole lives building..

donbenie:
The father is not a Filipino,so she could get her way.

donbenie:
Is she not the one looking for her father?
You think her life wasn't complicated already?

omooba969:


I realise you've been dying for my attention 🙂, so here you have it darling.

I agree with your admission in your 2nd paragraph, especially its last two words, so now I understand the stuff you're made of.

Oníranù omo!

meobizy:
She's better off without him. It seems she wants unnecessary drama in her life.

Maysdevices:
Dude says I’ve been dying for his attention

Even clowns make better jokes

I made the statement, I stand by it and I’m glad you agree, even my mother is made of the same stuff

Oniranu Omo ni mi

donbenie:
Not everything is about money..
Knowing who you are and where you are from also matters to some people..
Her experiences,pains and needs are her's to bear,manage and live with..

meobizy:
Debating online is the worst form of wasting time.

babajero:
more than 90% of divorces are instigated by women.

Biglittlelois:



For good reasons, you think women instigate divorce for the fun of it? Smh....

PaNnamdi:

I am the father and I am looking seriously for her