there is this girl in my life, we met when we were in sec school, she is her yr one at the university,last week she called me on phone,to me that she is no longer intrested ,when i ask why,she said,that i can't afforsd her maintence,pls i need your help,i love this girl so much that i will do every to have back.

bro,u cant affford her maintenance. what more do u need to hear?what advice do u seek?that u should go and stiil to afford her?she is a classified student LovePeddler whose love is bought with money. u must give it to her, she's got balls telling u ho ha what she wants. if u've got money, go for it, if not, as fergie's dad told her, TAKE YOUR BROKE ASS HOME!!! and look for a girl whose love is priceless and not defined by money ok dear? take care. your time will come and her time will pass. PEACE,

If you are also in year one at the university, please face your studies.

if u actually need advice,please listen- First thing First,Ur education should be paramount now, let her go,she can ONLY learn the hard way,what maintanance would she be talking about now,i think she is in her primetime,hmnnn,if she misses it later,she (or they) will now be crying she's single or still searching,no man wants a leftover or wants a gal to make him 'her last resort'.
Je ki ogun mi oo, in a few days u will get over it,i av experienced it before,now she looks at me from afar and she has not gotten right even after 10 years.

let her be,and concentrate on your studies,the day will come when you will get your right girl who will love you for who you are and not what you have

Let her go
maybe she's not mean't to be urs.

it really is demeaning and degrading when i girl tells u that u can't afford her.

you didnt say if you were also in uni or even about to go in. abi have you even been made an admission offer, if NO to any of these questions, then it is clear that she is simply saying 'levels don change' i cant go on with you anymore cos u surely cant afford me, read the writing on th wall and face your studies,

how old are both of you sef? get a life then you can face the female folks confidently,
abi u no know say whether you like it or now, girls are costly to maintain?

i think its more of change of level,besides shes experiencing october rush!

she still young,later she will realise-all that glitters is not gold

Hi Again,

I just want to say, for a lady to have to told you that you can't afford to maintain her, Well, I aint gonna blame her. there are reasons why she said what she said, maybe you aint got a job, or a good paying job, or maybe you're some "Aka-gum" of a guy or that you' aint romantic enough. though money can't buy love but to say the truth, the girl you're dating or hoping to get married to needs some "comfort", So that's why there's a lot of stiff competition going on with ladies vying for the interest from the opposite sex. She wants to look good, and be treated like a real lady, maybe you aint got those qualities, Sorry bro, check the next door, , and don't cry ooo!!!

Michael B

thanks for your advice,i appreciate all of them,but i wish that i should let her go like that ,cuz i love her so much,but all the same, thanks for your advice.

Dude i understand that love is hard but this girl has insulted you in a way that you don't seem to understand
for God sakes she said "she is not interested because you can't afford her" what more do you need to hear??

abi the juju wey she do give you chop never commot for ya body??

By the way you still didn't answer the questions above about what you are doing with your self that she would feel bold enough to open her mouth and talk to you like that. you need to get in school and find a freshwoman like your self to hook up with that would heal your heart fast

skyfaze:

thanks for your advice,i appreciate all of them,but i wish that i should let her go like that ,because i love her so much,but all the same, thanks for your advice.

skyfaze,
if you like make you siddon there dey wish[i][/i]. Abi u wan 'car-wash' and another drive, wake up man and move on

Love in Tokyo. Abi na Love nwantiti.
The juju catch you sotee you cant even understand insult again. Like say i no your parents na to advice them to carry u go nearest cherobim, sabat or cele make them take KOBOKO flog that juju comot for your eye.

Wake up dude, get live and move on with life  . . . Face your life squarely, you can't afford her maintenance today but i bet, you will be able to afford  to take care of hundreds of people in the nearest future, ok?
So open your mind ,close your eyes and let her dirty ass go to hell