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| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by cfours: 12:38am On Feb 27, 2012 |
coogar: lol. you don't need any method for a post-menopausal woman. If you are working with a very very fertile woman on the other hand, even condom is odikwa risky. you need to be very careful. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by coogar: 12:41am On Feb 27, 2012 |
c.fours: which post-menopausal woman are you sleeping with, you inscrutable ninny?  |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:42am On Feb 27, 2012 |
moremi2008: Why not? So you are part of the population propagating the idea that single (never married) mothers are not marriage material ehn. Stop it o! Personally I think their ‘marriagability’ should be individualized. Ok. Let me ask you and davidylan this, will you marry a girl that has had abortions before (excluding having one for you)? |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by cfours: 12:43am On Feb 27, 2012 |
I was just trying to help you out. what an ingrate. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by coogar: 1:15am On Feb 27, 2012 |
c.fours: help your lunacy first before you even think of extending your help to me. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by denzel2009: 1:30am On Feb 27, 2012 |
moremi2008:No, but I know what went down. OP, dont abort yet, let me talk to him first! |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 1:42am On Feb 27, 2012 |
denzel2009: Hmm, sounds like your friend gave you all the details. Abeg can you tell us why the poor OP is pregnant today despite her belief that a condom was used? Hope your friend is not one of those guys that secretly remove the condom when the girl’s not looking. We only want to understand the science behind this pregnancy o |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by KayDee4: 4:04am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Guys are giving their own advice based on what they would want you to do if they were responsible for the "P". The ladies are giving their own opinions based on what they would do if they were in your shoes. The religious ones recommend " putting aspirin between the knees" in future. Real crossroads for @OP  |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by mazaje(m): 5:30am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Very tight situation. . . Keep the baby and you will be faced with the chance of being a single mother for the rest of your life, the man responsible might not accept the baby cos he will assume he used a condom and condoms are supposed to protect against pregnancies. . .If he is a married man then it might be worse. . .You won't need all that drama. . . You said you are in your late 20's. . .Age is not on your side since you are in Nigeria and you just have to accept that reality, before you know it you will be 30 and a single mum with lots of baggage, no average Nigerian man will like to have you as a wife with a child out of wedlock at you age(Nigerian reality). . .If you are willing to go ahead in life as a single mum(cos the probability of you being a single mum for the rest of your life is high) then keep the baby, if not abort it and move on. . .Life is too short. . . |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 6:15am On Feb 27, 2012 |
God have mercy on all of you's that have called this child names. A lot of you's have already decided the fate of the child. God have mercy on you Coogar for saying the child (if a boy) might harass your daughters in 20 yrs time. This child did not begto be conceived, say thrash to the mother but you all leave the fetus alone. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by modele2: 9:25am On Feb 27, 2012 |
The test strips never show positive two weeks after intercourse. Its too early for those tests to show anything. Check well. The itch can be another disease If ure pregnant face the music. , most people regret abortions later. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by oohunt: 10:06am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Who says abortion will not bring fire and brimstone from God? ? ? ? Wait until judgement day. Every bad deed has a consequence believe it or not. This one, this a GRAVE ONE. Abortion is a sin, it is murder!!! You have no right to take a person's life. You have already done the deed by conceiving this child. All of you in support of abortion be ready to answer to God on the last day that you supported the unfair killing of an innocent, blameless, spotless creation of God. @OP, having a child definitely changes your life. I would advise you to keep this pregnancy, but prepare your mind for the rigorous journey. The man that wants to marry you, if he truly loves you then he would accept you with the pregnancy. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 11:14am On Feb 27, 2012 |
modele2: Menstruation varies from women to women, some women gets there's every 24 days, some every 35 days, some 45 days, which implies that some women might menstruate twice monthly, whilst some once every two months, etc. Asides from stress which throws the body outta synch, ovulation occurs slap ba.ng in the middle of each period. For example a lady who sees her period every 25 days would ovulate on the 13th day. Eggs last one day whilst Spermatozoa lasts 5 days before they die, so to be on the safe side, if one does not want to get pregnant, avoid sex on average 7 days before and after the 13th day. . .hence the calender/rhythm method. A lady should know from day one, hence reason for that phrase "only the Mother sabi the Father of the pickin" when a woman takes in after sleeping with 2 men within close proximity, besides there are pregnancy strips these days that can predict pregnancy within 24 hours of conception plus there are gadgets one can buy to test for ovulation days, plus there are methods of testing egg quality and viability in order for ladies to know how further to delay having babies, there is a high rate of increase in early menopause being detected in ladies in their early thirties, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. . . |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by mazaje(m): 11:16am On Feb 27, 2012 |
oohunt: So a fetus is a living person abi? If its a living being then why does it require a woman's body, if a fetus is a living being then sperm cells are also living beings. . .However, let's look at a very common phenomena called miscarriage. According to reports, 20% or 1 in 5 pregnancies end in a miscarriage. There is no definite explanation to why this happens, but they have found many different reasons for it. Sometimes the fetus is recognised as a hostile cell and killed by the mothers immune system, or sometimes there is an incompatibility between the blood types of the mother and unborn child that makes life impossible etc. But it gets worse than this. According to some studies, there are actually a far higher number of miscarriages. Most of them happen so early that the woman never realizes she was impregnated, like after a few days. This makes some people think that as much as 40% or 50% of all potential pregnancies ends up in miscarriage. . . .Since that is the case then is very OK to say that your God is the greatest lover of abortions. . . . @OP, having a child definitely changes your life. I would advise you to keep this pregnancy, but prepare your mind for the rigorous journey. The man that wants to marry you, if he truly loves you then he would accept you with the pregnancy. And what if no man comes here way because of the pregnancy?. . .I have seen it happen to many ladies. . . |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 11:20am On Feb 27, 2012 |
^^^ Here we go again with all these dumb asinine arguments  As if the foetus is just there waiting for the 9 months it takes to pop out? As if only the foetus undergos hormonal changes and it does not affect the woman too? Even if there was no God, how can it be morally right for an animal to kill its young just because it is an inconvenience, albeit an invited inconvenience at that, or abi dem mistakenly spray the s'perm on the woman/set the dangerous toto trap for the man to mistakenly fall in joystick first ni, Mschewww. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by moremi2008(m): 11:21am On Feb 27, 2012 |
oohunt: Abeg, save all this fire and brimstone nonsense for the birds! You would be shocked at the number of your deacons, deaconesses and pastors that have had abortions in the past! Please stop deceiving this woman into holding on to the very slim chances of her finding a suitable husband with a bastard child. If she is in her late twenties in Nigeria and hasn't found a man to price her wares yet, then she's probably not a hot cake and things will get even worse with the extra baggage! Well, there are always men from the village if she's willing to spend generously. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 11:33am On Feb 27, 2012 |
^^ Hello shyte face Spewing your garbage as usual. Are you not susposed to be in school? |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 11:49am On Feb 27, 2012 |
@ Op It is obviously clear that you are still grieving the loss of your first baby hence . . . And you are only here to address your fear and concern of bringing your baby into that odious Country called Nigeria, the runt, the last Country in the world's list when bastion of morality was being shared. As long as you know you are financially viable and capable, start saving money on the sides and get ready to embrace this new dimension and curve ball life has sent hurtling down your way. So what if family disowns you, you already went through worse at a younger age, its their loss. So what if society condemns you, why give a rat's ar'se, who is talking anyway? And so what if people talk as long as it does not remove an hair off your body! Abeg all that na old school matter, people used to talk down about single Mothers back then, and some still do till now, but who died and made them judge? Isn't it common knowledge that majority of the blame lies with the feckless turds called Nigerian "men" who still get fetted and worshipped as if the real men out there are going out of extintion! And if marriage is the be it and all as seen in Nigeria, why is that Country still a parasite and the dredge and pond scum in the eyes of the World at large! Of course I bet marriage is good and profitable licence to remain bad to the average Nigerian man, but how many woman you know are enduring rather than enjoying it? How many are just in it for their children? How many are in it just for the ring on their finger? How many are in it just to boast to the world that they have a man? How many are in it just to have a roof over their head?. . . Sweetheart, you are now a fully grown lady and even the people talking down on you now, would be the same talking when you hit 30 and is still single, and guess what they say "at least she should have born one pickin even if she no marry", so you see you cannot please society at large. Most children, or is it all sef, only come from God, and according to Him, before he formed us in our Mothers's womb He knew us and all the hairs on our head are numbered, so in these latter day and end time we are in, better start making preparation to step into your role of becoming a Mother. Like I once said, even the Scientists who have been claiming there is no God have claimed to have seen the "god particle" responsible for how the World was birthed, buncha arrogant deluded goons, proud to admit there is a God yet dumb enough to term it "god particle" mschewww. Yes it is sheer hard work, especially if only you have to do it alone, but most of your married counterpart too have to do it alone, cos most Naija man's hand turns to plastic when it comes to looking after babies and they are clueless when it comes to which end to stick the bottle in and which end poo comes out of, lol. Sorry wrote this in a hurry and on the phone, so incase it reads as I hate men, I don't, still undecided 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 11:52am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Moremi and Richkhunt ehn, you two wonderful one of a kind specimen, lol. Wahala go siddon jejely, una both dey go a-fishing  I am just hailing you dudes ni oh |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 11:58am On Feb 27, 2012 |
Hi Big Bumper, He put his finger in my mouth on another thread,so I am gonna bite it off. You know I never back away from an internet slugfest. I am gonna disrespect his punk ill mannered ars.e till I leave this forum. Bloody little puunk! Besides BB,spell my user name properly. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 12:08pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Richvkunt: he he he, yeah saw you told him to back off . . . to go . . .and recharge, lol. I didn't call you both troubleseekers for nowt Awww common, don't out me like that, I'm dyslexic y'know  But I have never spelt it correctly na, I keep thinking its Richhunt but know it doesn't have two "h" so I just pluck any letter off the top of my head to superimpose between the two, lol, sowwy  Er. . . what does that suffix mean by the way, cos this is the reason I always mispell it cos my clean mind refuses to believe it means what it says it means |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
I can't beleive people are advising her to abort her pregnancy for a man she hasn't even met who 'may' be interested in marrying her, sometime in the future! Na wah! |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by moremi2008(m): 12:21pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Busy_body: I am a bit disappointed that you would equate me with Richcunt. We are NOT on the same level. The likes of him would not even dare look me in the face in real life. I have no patience for his brand of foolishness. An ancient he-goat with no shame! That's why I haven't paid him any attention since the initial spat. He's just not worth the extra keystrokes. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
[b] Busy_body:Aaaah,that is the secret and mystery of the case. Like to keep people guessing and wondering why it is part of my user name,as you know most people have dirty minds and think the worse of it but they are always wrong. Now back to business-Need to track down that coward and tell him his life history-you know manner less children are always trained outside.[/b] |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
moremi2008: Hello punk, Been looking for your ars.e. Like I told you it is easy to rain abuse from behind your computer like the coward you are. If I met you in real life You know what would happen to you,little piece of turtle shyte. Seen you running your mouth all over this forum and people backing off because they do not want to exchange words with you. Let me tell you a little secret pal,I know your type-Abused as a kid by both parents and you try to take it out on the whole world? Well you picked the wrong n1gger this time. I am gonna follow you all over this forum and disrespect your whole life! Remember I know your family history and how difficult it was for you and I am gonna splash it all over this forum. You know I have an appetite for DESTRUCTION and you are a small fry! Waiting for your punk are.se response! B.U.M. |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 12:38pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Awww common you two bust this shyte and pack it in joo, you both are too adorable and have got your head screwed on the right way (a rarity in the Nigerian man race, lol), to be getting into all these spats jare, oya kiss and make up now now before I open my eyes  |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by moremi2008(m): 12:41pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
This is why there needs to be free medical care in Nigeria. Look at the poor thing foaming in the mouth for absolutely nothing! Monkey no know levels oh! |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
I know he would love to kiss and make up. Bloody HOMO! |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Busybody2(f): 12:46pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Zip, zip, zip it up you two, haha  Arrrgghhhhh, Nairaland needs a naughty corner section I tell ya |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Richvkunt: Ok this is funny |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by mazaje(m): 1:04pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
Busy_body: You are yet to address that fact that at least 1 in 5 pregnancies ends up in abortion naturally. . .If the unborn fetus will make her life worse then its better to get rid of it. . . .Its her personal choice to keep the baby or abort it, if the fetus is a person as you claim it will not need her body to survive. . .The fetus depending on the level of development is just an assemble of cells that will develop into a human being if all conditions are suitable. . . |
| Re: Pregnancy: How Did This Happen Again? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Feb 27, 2012 |
You see that is how to deal wiyh punk ars.e loud mouths like moremi. He even has a girls name. Bloody fagg0t. People have been too easy on the twit that is why he has been running his cowardly mouth all over the place. The moment he meets real opposition he runs away like the fagg0t degenerate low life he is. I am gonna disrespect your dum,b arse till the day I die or I am banned from this forum. Dum.b muthafuck.ar |
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