SAFO: Sounds like the guy is sharp. If she doesn't respond favorably then he knows she's just in it for what she can get.

jay bee: So what's the problem here, the fact that the date was at his house or she only got offered a mere yoghurt?
Your friend could have suggested other avenues if his house wasn't an ideal location for first date
Absolutely no rule whatsoever that states a first date should involve expensive meals or whatever.

queensmith: doesnt take a genius to tell dude wanted to bed her with minimum expenditure, don't get sucked into what you see, if he didn't make an effort he's not worth it. m2c

jay bee: So what's the problem here, the fact that the date was at his house or she only got offered a mere yoghurt?
Your friend could have suggested other avenues if his house wasn't an ideal location for first date
Absolutely no rule whatsoever that states a first date should involve expensive meals or whatever.

rokiatu: Gbam!!! Very good point.

rokiatu: I am sorry thinking about this story just make me laugh. Before we start, let me make it clear that this story happened to a friend of mine and not me.

Ok here's the thing, she met this fine dude on campus, they exchanged numbers and he started calling her almost everyday, after one week of talking on the phone, they finally had a date.

His ideal of a perfect date, at his house, he only offered her yogurt. She only hang on there and finished the date because she didn't want to be rude. She have totally lose interest but what she can't get over is the fact that this guy drive a really expensive car, he wear expensive clothes, and according to her, his house is exquisite. He wants a second date, but my friend is confused, what was the excuse for that lame date?

Is it because he is not romantic? cheap? or a test?

Please we need as many advice as possible. I would appreciate serious advice only but that is impossible on NL so I will ignore what I don't need.

omega25red: did the guy say "i want to take you out on a date"? or did he call her and say come to my house?
By the way what is your idea of a perfect date? what would the guy have to do?
i think coming to his house to talk and getting to each other is not such a bad idea

mykejones: Op...oya com finish d tori nau. Wetin happen aftr she drink d yorgout? No even tel me say notin dia o..
Ok..bck2d story..i might tink it's a test. No what grounds...i wouldn't knw.
Accordin2how u described him,he sure has d means 2make her comfortable. Aside d 'test' thing i mentioned,i hav no logical explanation as to why he acted dat way.

mykejones: I honestly don't get why some fellas are reigning insults on the girl. Some even went as far as calling her a gold digger.
What's her crime?
Even if she came frm a poor home and all that,why would a guy offer her a mere yogurt on a visit? Not even a visit,a date sef!
And someone asked why she went to his house...i can bet my ass U've done worse dan she did on ur first date!
Op..tel her to try d 2nd date jare. He might even decide to offer her pure water sef.
My candid advice...tell her to lower her expectation. If she does,she'l neva eva be dissapointed in anyone and in anytin.
Goodluck..again!

mykejones: I honestly don't get why some fellas are reigning insults on the girl. Some even went as far as calling her a gold digger.
What's her crime?
Even if she came frm a poor home and all that,why would a guy offer her a mere yogurt on a visit? Not even a visit,a date sef!
And someone asked why she went to his house...i can bet my ass U've done worse dan she did on ur first date!
Op..tel her to try d 2nd date jare. He might even decide to offer her pure water sef.
My candid advice...tell her to lower her expectation. If she does,she'l neva eva be dissapointed in anyone and in anytin.
Goodluck..again!

freecocoa: onye oma emeka,so where is it written that something must be offered on a first date or date for that matter?he offered her yogurt which is even very good for the body and she's thinking of not going for a 2nd date cos of that,what does that spell to you?maybe he should have offered her a bucket of chicken\chips and help her gain 10 pounds before another date,that way she'll know he's rich and capable.mscheew.

queensmith: doesnt take a genius to tell dude wanted to bed her with minimum expenditure, don't get sucked into what you see, if he didn't make an effort he's not worth it. m2c

mykejones: I honestly don't get why some fellas are reigning insults on the girl. Some even went as far as calling her a gold digger.
What's her crime?
Even if she came frm a poor home and all that,why would a guy offer her a mere yogurt on a visit? Not even a visit,a date sef!
And someone asked why she went to his house...i can bet my ass U've done worse dan she did on ur first date!
Op..tel her to try d 2nd date jare. He might even decide to offer her pure water sef.
My candid advice...tell her to lower her expectation. If she does,she'l neva eva be dissapointed in anyone and in anytin.
Goodluck..again!

Idowuogbo:

Den no dey sell brain for market o Nne

I can shout!