cugresources: Hey guys, nice and fun reading your numerous reasons and ops, I am loving the fact that I joined this forum, which I just stumbled upon by chance today. You know what? I love ladies, so pls don't misinterprete me, I love ladies and guys, but I cannot imagine the idea of tying myself to someone, it wasn't even that easy being tied to parents while growing up to mention being tied to someone I barely knew just as adults. Come on, come on guys, pls meant no offence, but don't u feel that fear of having one fat continually deteriorating woman, who keeps growing fat and shapeless day after day being referred to as your wife? No matter how fat or ugly she turns after marriage or whatever, you must love her, sleep in same bed with her, kiss her, take her to parties and political events, uh, uh...its so scary when one thinks of it. Women are just fond of abandoning their physical look once they get married and have kids, and its scary to have a fat ugly person still being referred to as your wife everywhere. Pls don't fight me, just pouring out my heart, forgive me if it sounds nasty. Who said its cos of financial requirements that I want to remain single? how much can a lady consume? lol...wished you know more anyway, its not cos of money, instead if money will solve of the problem, such that she wouldnt nag or worry me, just for me to be giving her any amount she wants and no more stress or intruding into my chosen lifestyle, then bingo, why then am I still single? Okay to let you guys know some stuffs, I grew up a loner, had only one sister I never grew up with, grew up in midst of guys and studied around guys and all my life is with guys, but pls am not a gay cos it sucks to me. but having guy friends is so sweet and cute, especially with my kind of male friends, sweet guys, sometimes we go on vacs and trips together, some are married for sure, all have girlfriends, and they always wonder the kind of life I chose. but you know, there was a time my friends wanted to rope me into one girl, that was in monte carlo last year, she is an Ibo girl, kinda schooling and modeling I guess, but after few dates, she started trailing on me, who i am with, why i didn't called at so so hour and that and why i don't want to come to visit her, gosh, i got scared to my feet, HUH! IS THAT IT? RUN NOW THAT ITS EARLY! Lolz, I ran till date...come on, I respect married guys and those in committed relationships, they are very nice and enduring. same goes to the ladies, they also endure lots, being married or in a relationship isn't easy for both guys and girls, wished i could get over the fear.

cycober:

GAY!!! nah, just joking

Okija_juju: Being single is lonely, but I am scared of getting married!! My girlfriend is a drama queen!! Jesus!!

The sweetest part of being single (single being not married) is the reset button. . . When the babe fhuck up, you press reset!!

mcchegzy: Guess u are not just ready for any responsibility, not that you enjoy being single

ndcide:
what


what is konji?

and how does it kill

cugresources: pls I won't cherish someone here calling me gay pls, that will be blackmail, and it will be unfair and rude. can't we address the topics and points without cursing or bashing on people pls moderators do sth about this, before it destroys your forum image.

Tboiz: Its a mixture of sweet and sour. Sweet because of ur entire freedom. Sour because u'll never know what u're missing until it arrives.

starlight®®:

Seriously....Are you GAY?

Yes bro. You shld have knwn this earlier than now

ndcide:
what


what is konji?

and how does it kill

If u dont yansh fr 1yr, u will die of excess spermotology syndrome. Low vision, Gri Gri body, itching attitude towards women etc

cugresources: OMG! what?? why the frontiers here again? I AM NOT GAY PLS!!! Its even irritating to imagine, gosh! Okay, I love girls, does that make it sound better? I love cute girls but I am NOT good at taking emotional and mental responsibilities involved in a relationship, thats just it, if I can handle it, why not? I don't want to hurt anyone becos I know I won't be there for the person emotionally most times when the person would need me. There are several moments in my life that I just hate seeing anybody around me, time of being alone, so what would happen to such times when I enter into a relationship and she needs me then? My mom back then couldn't deal with it, she only learned to abandon me at such moments. Such moments have even increased now. I just love being alone and meet or see people when I feel like, but its not like that when you are in a relationship. thats just my fear ok, don't get me wrong pls.

tellwisdom:


If u dont yansh fr 1yr, u will die of excess spermotology syndrome. Low vision, Gri Gri body, itching attitude towards women etc

StateOfMind: I have a friend like this poster, the thought of commitment scares the hell outta him. He doesn't mess around, neither is he gay, I guess he just enjoys his freedom, especially the gaming thing, being able to call when he wants and some other reasons Op has stated. I usually tell him its a phase in his life that will surely pass.

@op, you won't be like this forever, that I'm sure of. The fact that you're not against marriage, and have spoken no ill of the opposite sex, like some men gives me the feeling that u'll cross that bridge when the time comes. You are not just ready for commitment, you don't want to be responsible for anyone except yourself,so enjoy your 'freedom' while it lasts.

And your fears about women blowing up and becoming unattractive after marriage doesn't hold water. My mum is still in shape and I have seen a lot of married women in shape. Also, I think you can find someone with common interests too. Don't just assume no lady would be interested in your likes and hobbies.

presfedrep: seconded. I just dey waste my time trying to help a follow single guy, not knwin he his just a gay*so sad*

@op, u can stay witout a woman, its permitted, cos am not sure any naija gal will love to see u in dat act.

willsman: Guy, being single does not pay any body who attend the age of that okay? You have to go back to history of man and study by yourself how God saw the worries of Adam and later made Eve for him. Even in our time it is happening and must not die. You must be engaged or marry fully if you are of age. No man or woman feels happy if he or she is up to and still single whether or not. Leave all your ideologies and what have you, go marry if you are of age from there you see what and what God can do in both of you in the house please.

teezlycrest: @Op, Guy u must be a strong member of Believers Love world. U knw what i mean na? Una d help una self with or without she. Mtchwww.... U no get money for my Naija babe, y won't u be single

Lekmusic: OP is a selfish mutha******. His type ends up having baby mommas around, and will finally realise the need to propose to a girl and marry at the end. No offense to Tuface. Niggas be talking shit like they can see beyond their shallow understanding.

glowithdan:


Life is a challenge my brother, so face it. If you are of age and still reason this way, I suggest you seek help somewhere(no hard feelings).
I challenge you to challenge your self today into accepting the realities of life,which marriage is one of it. And come to think of it, who told you there is any perfect one anywhere? Wonder what could have become of you, if your parents had said what you are saying now.

Life is too short to be lonely bro- Enjoy it with someone you love while it last!!

cugresources: Adam probably passed through the loneliness becos in his time, there were nothing like: BB, social network sites like fbook, twitter, forums like NL, and he had no male or female neighbors, had no car, no electronics, no internet connection, no gsm, no electronic or video or pc game, no newspaper or magazines to keep busy, and in fact no party or even to attend. I pity him anyway. but nowadays, a man or woman can be single and happy, unless he decides not to feel happy or start to see it from peoples' view about being single, or from the religious or moral view, or if he or she is poor, jobless and have no funds to get things to make him or her happy. The only thing I keep wondering is why must a woman and a man come together before a baby can come, cos I love babies, wish and desire to have two cute boys. thats my greatest challenge to being single!