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Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by gsmgold: 6:28pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
manugbo: women ar the ones not happy in their marriages. Apart 4rm prayers, try 2 find out d tins he loves. Some men can't stand d sight of dirt! They come home...the whole house is smelling...the children r looking tattered...the wive is unattractive. Quit wearing wrappers all day long. Bum short & jean strings r still in d market. Sexy tops 4 all sizes u can find. Take ur bath b4 he gets home n show off ur sexy wear, don't 4get ur perfume. The house MUST always be neat. A woman must have a job/biz. U need 2 be financially independent. Don't run to him 4 petty tins. Who says u can't take d family out. Go 2 the cinemas n watch movies with them once in a while. Don't forget 2 wear ur killer dresses. My mother inlaw is in her late 50ties- still wears bum shorts n watches wat she eats inorder 2 stay fit. We have given them ORDER not to give birth 2 more children. She had nine! 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
SUV: SUV I think I need your services in the counseling of my moronic Fiancee... |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by kwizzy(m): 6:33pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
So many single men are unhappy,lonely,fustrated,jobless,dis-organisnised,heartbroken and tired of life. Hpoking different type of women whether booby,big bom,black,fat,slim etc doesn't make one happy always except for Ω̶̣̣̥̇̊ sex addict.life is nt all about freedom.for life to be meaniful you must take responsibility. Marriage is ordained by God and in its true form is suppose to be enjoyed. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Grandmisty: 6:33pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
gsmgold:Abeg wetin be jean string LOL blakmonsta: The reason is that we have all forgotten the real reason for marriageOboy u dey vex o but u have said 99.1% truth more grease to your brain |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by famolino(m): 6:37pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
D wedding ring is d smalest handcufs eva made. Dnt b in a hurry to wear one. Look wel b4 u sentence ursef. 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by lollarj(f): 6:45pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Tragic thread ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by CuteXclaim(f): 7:07pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
famolino: D wedding ring is d smalest handcufs eva made. Dnt b in a hurry to wear one. Look wel b4 u sentence ursef. How wrong are you on that note. if you think it that way you find it hard to be happy in your marriage. broaden your thinking bro |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by ypzilanti: 7:10pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Miss_Ife: I was happy whenh I was single, and I am happy now that I am not. I would not like to go back to the single days, even as much as it was fun. Kind of like how you have good memories of University, but would never want to go back to those days. 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by dayokanu(m): 7:11pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
True. A lot of married ppl are just hanging on, no joy in the relationship at all |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by etchel(m): 7:12pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
spendogram: Reading some of these posts makes me wonder why some people don't see that unhappy people are people who continuously make choices that make them unhappy. They are simply skilled in making such silly choices and they have their spouses to blame for that?On point. You spoke every bit of what i should have said. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Marriage, is a necessary evil ! |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by manugbo(m): 7:51pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
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Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by manugbo(m): 7:56pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Joshcoli: so funny ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by manugbo(m): 8:00pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
etchel: On point. You spoke every bit of what i should have said. pls speak ur own |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by blackboi(m): 8:22pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
sanchez4eva: It has been scientifically proven that many men become unhappy after marriage. It may not be the nagging wife or lack of money but many other things are involved. Marriage may seem like paradise but men love freedom, we don't like being tied down and it goes against our nature. As single men we are completely on our own, to ladies it may actually be a bad thing but to men it is a chance to battle the hardship of life and come out victorious. I smell 2 major problms in you: 1. Fear 2. Sex addiction/Insecurities |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by obimind(m): 8:28pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
manugbo: women ar the ones not happy in their marriages.My dear, jst put ur trust in God. He'll definitely make ur husband to hav a repentant hrt. Jst hold on. God is on ur side. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by BaBaMike: 10:38pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Many married people are unhappy because they dont really get to know each other well enough before getting married or get married for the wrong reasons. I'm happily married to a lovely and charming woman,for almost 20 years we have three wonderful children, my oldest daughter is 18.It's important to have a possibility thinking attitude toward marriage before we can even begin. I think many people rush into marriage without looking at the big picture... some don't consider asking their future spouse about their views on the important things that make a marriage work. Some get married just because their friends are doing it and they don't want to feel left out. There's many reasons why marriages don't work or people end up unhappy, but I believe that if you really get to know the person you want to spend your life with and are able to work as a team through anything chances are you'll end up with a pretty happy marriage. As much as we all like to think marriage is all about love, (and it is for the most part), there is another huge factor of partnership that can truely make or break a marriage. Having a strong backbone of true partnership and communication are what can get a couple through the hardest of times in a marriage and allow them to stay together and be happy. Many people don't take the time to build a partnership with their spouse and I think that is why they are unhappy. 2 Likes |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Lakasigbe(m): 10:39pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
This life is full of many strange tins u knw. We jst nid prayer to kip it going. GOD help us all |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
CuteXclaim:He is right U knowI fu already wear it then sorry pal |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by switosman(m): 11:00pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
somebody who is married to women with borderline personality defects and narcissistic personality defects will sign a whole different story/ song about happiness in marriage. such women are impossible to please and they will critic the man to madness. such husbands cannot place a finger to what their wife really wants. they are most times in a bad mood and they will do anything to drag their husband dowm. putting their husband down always to make themselves feel better. worst of it all, they cannot accept there is something wrong with them. they dont know anything and dont want to know. they they threaten husband with divorce, death and most time get violence with no just cause. then blame husband for it and for all things wrong with them. such women there best slang is "I don tire", "forget it", 'I am not i the mood" and silence treatment. sex with them its only at their own terms and close to animalistic violence. husband is blamed for their unhappiness, husband is not doing enough to make me happy, she says. HOW CAN HUSBAND TO SUCH BE HAPPY? 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by gram: 11:09pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
spendogram: Reading some of these posts makes me wonder why some people don't see that unhappy people are people who continuously make choices that make them unhappy. They are simply skilled in making such silly choices and they have their spouses to blame for that? |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by SNCOQ3(m): 11:22pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
sanchez4eva: It has been scientifically proven that many men become unhappy after marriage. It may not be the nagging wife or lack of money but many other things are involved. Marriage may seem like paradise but men love freedom, we don't like being tied down and it goes against our nature. As single men we are completely on our own, to ladies it may actually be a bad thing but to men it is a chance to battle the hardship of life and come out victorious. Were is the source of your "scientific" claim. Last time i checked, surveys proved the contrary to be true : ------------------------------------ Michigan State University researchers claim that married people are happier people than single people in the long run. http://www.wxyz.com/dpp/news/married-people-are-happier Original report: http://news.msu.edu/media/documents/2012/05/3eee4c51-e850-4028-ad59-bff3e186b9d0.pdf ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Marriage can be rough, but it seems to be better than the alternative. A new study finds that married people aren’t happier than when they were single, but over time, and all things considered, married people are happier than those who are not married.....The study, involving data on thousands of participants in a long-running, national British survey, was announced today and is published online in the Journal of Research in Personality. http://www.livescience.com/20649-married-people-happier.html -------------------------------------------------------------------- Psychologists Make A Really Good Case For Getting Married A study shows that people who get married end up living happier lives than people who don't end up tying the knot. A long-term national survey of 1,366 British citizens was used, and those individuals were studied based on their happiness. Each respondent started the study single and becoming married over the course of the long-term study... http://www.businessinsider.com/study-married-people-are-happier-2012-5 ------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you truly love each other... if both couples consider their partner before _self ... No matter the challenges... Things will work out fine. And yes, I am still single; But please, let the truth be told. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by gidjah(m): 11:30pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
Marriage cn be fun wit a loving and God fearing woman, and seriously money plays abt 80 percent in its line of duty, pls dnt Eva deceive ur self thinking marriage wl completely wrk without money pls i beg u,not in ds generation were money answereth All Things! As Amanda jst be matured,god fearin, and hv a gd financial base, then u wl be able to command respect in ur home, and b in charge all round, Once u r ready to communicate, listen, at all times wt ur wife , then u shall always b on top. Ensure u dnt wrong-pick, look for content rather than package, looks can b very deceitful. Though u can neva get to completely kno ur woman until she is ready to unravel most mysteries behind woman hood, then be rest assured dat ur END has finally come. I am partly fulfilled as a married man, though sme times i think d other ways round , but God has bin awesome to us , we centre all around God n He has neva failed Us.One shall chase 1000 but 2 shall chase 10000, wot about that concept for all d potential Godly Men in Da House?? |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by mrperfect(m): 11:46pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
A lot learned. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Sagamite(m): 11:54pm On Jun 08, 2012 |
shine-eye: What an utter moronic post! How has this junk proven many men are not unhappy in marriage? By using your singular life? Or your bigoted religious rants? 1 Like |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by sanchez4eva: 12:01am On Jun 09, 2012 |
I really appreciate the mature comments and good advice from you all but I want to make one thing clear-I Am not married. There is no person that would like to be alone for the rest of his/her life but it is better to be alone and happy than to be with someone that makes life miserable. Some ladies are complaining that women are more unhappy after marriage but I feel that is not true because a happy woman makes a man happy and both of them make a happy family. Manugbe pls if you are very unhappy to the point that you don't care if your husband dies I suggest you go for counselling or seek a divorce.. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by SNCOQ3(m): 12:02am On Jun 09, 2012 |
Sagamite: ^ What is it with the insults?? Why don't you prove him wrong constructively if you have your "facts"? |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by sanchez4eva: 12:03am On Jun 09, 2012 |
Sagamite:Bro pls no harsh words. He is writing what he feels is right and should be done. Different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by SNCOQ3(m): 12:06am On Jun 09, 2012 |
sanchez4eva: I really appreciate the mature comments and good advice from you all but I want to make one thing clear-I Am not married. There is no person that would like to be alone for the rest of his/her life but it is better to be alone and happy than to be with someone that makes life miserable. Some ladies are complaining that women are more unhappy after marriage but I feel that is not true because a happy woman makes a man happy and both of them make a happy family. More like it. Thumbs up. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Sagamite(m): 12:06am On Jun 09, 2012 |
lestat: Well said. SNCOQ3: sanchez4eva: He should say what ever he needs to say intelligently and he should keep his religious bigotry to himself. If he wants to fight demons, he should do it in his church with a hosepipe of holy water. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Sagamite(m): 12:18am On Jun 09, 2012 |
kadafijabz: i'm not married.at least not yet,but my experiences as a vibrant young man,has helped me build a futuristic perspective towards the subject 'marriage'.truth be told,every marriage or union,is aan amalgamation of two imperfect people trying to achieve a healthy blend of ideologies without harmfull fictions.the beauty of any union,is the ability to disagree to agree.marriage is no exception!i musnt fail to mention that society and growing trends,have further aided in bastardizing this much revered institution.i'm amazed that men would rather opt to go cheer their favourite football teams,rather than spend lost quality time with their yearning spouses.blackberry is readily another wanted culprit in this critically sensitive piece.social networking has gradually stolen away the sanity of values we all once upheld so intensely.women now consider the kitchen a 'deathrow' in every sense.its even more 'classy' and optional to buy meals for their household even at weeekends!what a letdown!whichever way,lapses and inaddequacies are expedient.joy will only remain in an atmosphere of humility.humilty from both ends to readily admit their voids and wanting-lly adopt an attitude of teachability.there may never be a spotless marriage,but there can always be a happy one.it all depends on the readiness of the practitioners to embrace the spirit of sacrifice which of course,has been sent on a indefinite exile by many 'players' in this sacred industry.on a final note,i implore you to sincerely ask yourself this one vital question'am i really ready to pay the price to make this union work?the future of your union or marriage,solely depends on whatever your heart has echoed as an answer...marriage is honourable,and the bed undefiled.GOD said so!cheers people. Beautifully said. kwizzy: So many single men are unhappy,lonely,fustrated,jobless,dis-organisnised,heartbroken and tired of life. Hpoking different type of women whether booby,big bom,black,fat,slim etc doesn't make one happy always except for Ω̶̣̣̥̇̊ sex addict.life is nt all about freedom.for life to be meaniful you must take responsibility. Marriage is ordained by God and in its true form is suppose to be enjoyed. Another moronic post. |
Re: Many Married Men Are Unhappy... by Afrocatalyst: 12:40am On Jun 09, 2012 |
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