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Big BossMan: Good write up! You've said it all!

Word!

OP..well,you av made sense but ur writing skill is a diff thing and the point u make is another...all u typed is nothing but the truth that if not every girl,@least to a huge number knows it,but can hardly live it(as the truth is bitter,and every one wants perfection in every area)however,I think the pple saying boring and all that(if I'm to speak on their behalf),only feel you didn't av2 bother telling what pple already know nd as such speak their minds regarding the tad points(to me,its just an "emphasis of the already known")you make of your writings,yes your writing skill is superb(well,to me that's what I feel the praises u get 4rm pple on this thread is all about)..dnt get me wrong o,I feel you,but the word PERFECT is in the beholders eyes(yes,because no one is literally perfect)so to each his or her own because I also want a girl that has all attributes a man can dream of(career oriented,big yansh,okay breasts,sweet lips and all that most importantly refined personality lol).that is perfect to me.my point is,you can lack in certain areas I require but still be perfect to me.

Mynd_44:
Dude if you have something to say to me, say it and stop behaving like a chicken

ori enu re b chicken pelu balls lori platter of gold.....ODE .....post ur own write up make we see DODOYO...mtcheewww

U do well jare! preach it.

kandiikane: I am perfect. So why should I not have the perfect guy?

So, are you trying to say God made a mistake with all of us?

Since I have established that point, let me finish reading the rest.

i think he's tryn 2 say that u should look beyond inperfection & make d best of wat u have.

Very constructive effort, wish ladies can pay for your ink... Very constructive effort, wish ladies can pay for your ink...

At poster......very lovely. At the ladies......`a word is ebuf for the wise`.

ajirapsy: @all; give the bloke some kudos. He must have spent some time writing it.

dont mind Nl...anders they dnt appreciate anything

zone77:


tnx dearie,u made me feel dt my post n my research wasnt in vain.

of course it wasnt in vain, kudos brother.

Wel he's ryt nd most of em guys re dumb[color=#000099][/color]

wow Nice post man. Me likey

OP, I like the way you put it but I think you should know that seeking perfection is not the best thing when considering marriage not only for women but also for the men!

Also as a single and seriously searching dude, I am beginning to discover that in some cases, it is the guys that are preventing the ladies from getting married simply because many guys are still unable to understand women and discover how to attract a woman to and beyond the point where she start seeing the guy as pure gold and will no longer consider his height, his physique, his car, his apartment and even how much money he's got.

At this point I'm talking about, you will surprisingly though enjoyably find out that all a woman wants is just you!

Bro, I enjoy every bit of ur post. I don't know why ppl don't take time to reflect on what they read before they start commenting.
Slow to comment,swift to reflect.
Reflection on issues is the cure for 'had I know'

zone77: Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches.

It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself?

Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you?

Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us.

Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain.

Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place.
You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship.

A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

parfect!

Idowuogbo: Killz! Ctrl+alt+del plzzz....

......I know she will talk,they are advicing her and she is making noise,she is not married yet ooo. No noise my friend

Adeniyi A.:

i pity u, u don marry?

Yes! Any more stupid questions?

Wow just wow deres a lot of sense in ur post but same goes 2 guys who r look 4 d perfect woman

@op
great piece!
pls note dat truth hurts so dont expect everybody to like ds piece especially in this age where much emphasis is being placed on externalities and mundanities.

Super1759:
......I know she will talk,they are advicing her and she is making noise,she is not married yet ooo. No noise my friend

U goat! Fly away joor!

Idowuogbo:
U goat! Fly away joor!

hahhaha...yeye ODE shey goat gt wings..to fly odepe.....

WELL SAID

Gen2jaynee: hahhaha...yeye ODE shey goat gt wings..to fly odepe.....

Who is u?

zone77: Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches.

It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself?

Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you?

Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us.

Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain.

Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place.
You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship.

A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

thank you my bros.na big point Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ hold dia

Well said OP. Matured talk.

Applicable to both Ladies and Men.