2buff:

LOL oya post link

logica: Mu^2. How's that for a final point?

2buff:

Go in peace

kinectik:

shebi d Op na nyc based abi, make she come make i ask am about nyc. i dey brooklyn kampe. all na wash

desari: @hotshot_peter

Nah, definitely not a gold digger...just want someone who can bring as much to the table as i do. Of couse it is not all about money, but there is no way i am taking care of a grown a.s.s man.

Thanks for your civility, i wish you good luck as well in all your future endeavours.

Ileke-IdI:


Still not getting your point.

So her location is a certain identification?

kinectik:

she no dey nyc. nyc has the highest number of naija professionals in the US of A. god bless america. go manhattan go see young naija pipu wey dey on half a milli net income. na opeke na winsh & na liar. na una sabi. if she dey nyc make she come answer ma queshun.lol al na wash wash

Fruitful2: THERE ARE DESCENT AND RESPONSIBLE NIGERIAN MEN BACK HOME.I UNDERSTAND YOUR PLIGHT.

acidtalk: ...

Ileke-IdI:

I'm not arguing with that.

Identifying her as queensmith was what I saw wrong with your post.

desari: @hotshot_peter

Nah, definitely not a gold digger...just want someone who can bring as much to the table as i do. Of couse it is not all about money, but there is no way i am taking care of a grown a.s.s man.

Thanks for your civility, i wish you good luck as well in all your future endeavours.

kinectik:

dem don expose am yesterday. and who dey obodo oyinbo for da best country in world US of A dey spell "endeavors" as "endeavours"?even the forum self na US english dem only dey allow

Ileke-IdI:


Where's the link to [b]her [/b]confession? Or were they mere unproven allegations?

kinectik:

na link be this https://www.nairaland.com/981248/qualities-make-man-worth-keeping/4

dem don block the posts. all na wash. da opeke na compound fool like my papa dey talk lml

desari: @tpia,

Tpia, i am not claiming to be bill gates or steve jobs. For a single woman at my age with no children, i do pretty well. If i meet a man a man that is at my financial level then that's great, but if not..i at least want him to be able to buy some stuff like food stuff...go half on the bills when we eat out e.t.c. I don't think i am asking for much. I am going based off a past relationship, where this bobo wanted me to take care of all things financial...needless to say i had to kick him to the curb. I find it hard to respect such men.

Regardless of the fact that i have lived in the U.S for quite few years I am still a naija woman, and i would love it if a guy i was in a relationship came to me of his own free will and said "babe here is some money" cook some fabulous ila asepo and some hot amala for me" instead my ex would want me to buy groceries with my money all the time so he can enjoy the food too. imagine that nonsense?? Thats when i decided no more "akushe folks" bobos have to be able to play their part financialy or they can keep it moving.

acidtalk:


NOTE: if you dare insult my 'cus of my contribution, be ready for whatever response I throw at you.

Ileke-IdI:


The OP is not her lol

kinectik:

dey there dey argue like mumu and kunu. comot sobo for ur eyes jor.

acidtalk: I think 99% of the posters are misunderstanding this Lady or can we put the blame on the poor academics in Nigeria?

There's is no where were the Poster stated that she can't date a man who is less financially bouyant as she is. What she is simply saying is he shouldn't dump the whole bills on her and be too relaxed.

If I read well, she actually said she doesn't even mind picking up a little more bills that she pays but at least he should bring something tangible to the table (like food, groceries and a few other bills). I don't in anyway think that's too much to ask for.

The only place where she was specific on the man is the tribe (Yoruba). Which later on she somehow agreed to date outside her tribe (I guess).

Why should a lady pray to be the wife to a man who totally relies on her for all the finances needed in the home.

That's so cruel and unimaginable.

I have dated ladies up to 5years old and well richer than me and I will beat my chest and raise my shoulders that not for one second have I demanded a kobo from them.

I do the little I can (without go out of my comfort zone) to provide and make them satisfied. If she makes any sort of demand and I can't afford it at that point I will come out whole heartedly and tell her I can't.

I have never felt inferior or had a complex because of her financial status.

I practically forced one to even buy a plot of land when I noticed a bulk of her earning were going on trinkets and other wasteful gadgets.

Make una free the poster abeg. I don't think she is asking for anything oit of this world as a lady.


NOTE: if you dare insult my 'cus of my contribution, be ready for whatever response I throw at you.