Hope babe u re talking about is fiancee(without fornication) and not sex partner?.Or are you claiming heaven with sex partner by ur side?.Is there any place in the bible that mentioned that a fornicator(if thats d case) is for heaven?

Why is it that when discussing sex matter either in the public or with some friends everybody will be saying,aah! i dey use condom ooo,but deep in secret,majority of them that deny in public or in conversation do it flesh to flesh?.There are even some girls that in the process of pre-intimacy/touching,when the thing hold them well well and u want to bring out ur rod with condom,they will even beg you to forget about condom,that they want to enjoy the koko well well as condom do not give much pleasure like flesh to flesh.All these will be done in the secret(bed room),yet in outside,everybody will be saying,noooo,i dey use condom ooo,i dey use condom oo.Why is it like that?

This Idiot called Dokpesi or whatever you call urself with other prominent IBB campaign guys should be very careful of their Boss(IBB).If you guys know quiet well that he(IBB) have hand in this bomb saga,better open up and dont wait till u re vindicated,Why?,if your boss smartly noticed that investigation over the blasts is about to land on his side as the the brain behind the blast,then know u guys that he can do anything to brush out any of u and when such happen,it may look as if its his political opponents that did it,not knowing that its him.Be careful,we know the evil genus more than you.Better open up now if his hand is there so to avert ur master terminating you guys.I dont know whether he is the one involved or not.

Pls NL,i work with a company and manages their Network of 12 LAN computers and have been on this for more than two years now.Its just a direct connection.(Direct on PC).There is no Windows Server 2003/2008,all clients use workgroup,nothing like domain this or domain that.The work is just to ensure that anytime network goes down,i will call the ISP if the problem is not within the IDU or LAN.The other part of the work is when a clients cannot access network,may be cable problem,or Virus,etc or computer get problem,or print connection/problem etc.Thats all.At a time,i come begin to ask myself what is the different between this thing i m doing with a work of Cybercafe attendant?.And my mind will be disturbed as if i am killing(Wasting)my degree certificate.Is this how Network Engineers work?,because i call myself a Network Engineer.I have my CCNA coupled with other trainings i under go.I have been applying to many places,but it has not clicked.Atimes i will start thinking whether to look for another things to do like going into business,than to be coming here and sit one place from morning till evening only to be doing the same work i mentioned above,the work look bored to me,no challenges,no new experience. Please i need advice,especially from Network/IT Engineers.

How does it look if husband and wife attend different Churches even though two of them are christians?.The wife attends spiritual church while the husband is the other.Pls advise and share your view.

@Maximized
What you are saying is different from my thread.Should i toast her?,thats not enough reason to aportion such blame,so you dont know what actually the lady in office did before i raise that matter.Ok!.If you have been working in office,you will understand more.Secondary,ask yourself weather i have married when such was happening,yet despite what happened with the lady in my office and I,i did not mess up.If i went ahead to explain to you in details of what happened and the attitude of the lady in my office,u can hardly believe the story,But the bottom line is that i did not fall into her.So you should face the reality at hand and not to talk,just because you can talk.If i am the weak type,i would have fallen to the lady and it wont deprive me anything stating here in nairaland that i did it with her.Know how to respond to peoples thread!!

I think i forward this matter to have an advice,"To learn how to be a man" does it imply ignoring it or what?.Take yourself as an example,if your wife or husband is acting in this form,what do you feel you would do?.I just need a sincere advice.

Please i need reasonable advice.I was staying together with my wife until recently i was transfered to a far place by my company We are newly married.However having known that the only means of keeping our intimacy for now is through phone calls,i made it a point of duty that my phone will always be on even when there is no light i must find a way to charge my phone and at the same time always have it with me to be able to pick calls at anytime.But its seems that my wife is doing the opposite since i left.Many atimes her phone will not be available,atimes if its available i may be calling her,the phone will be ringing and no picking.Anytime she pick it next,she will give one excuse or the other.Truly,such attitude annoys me.Not that i did not trust her,but this act has lead me that atimes my mind will be telling me are you sure she is not doing this or that with another person.why should she start this kind of attitude knowing well that phone call is very crucial to us at this point in time.Like i said,its not that i dont trust her,but i dont want to play with my marriage because of distance.Now i am even thinking weather i should tell her that she will resign from the little work she is doing there and come over here to start staying with me.Please,should i tell her how i feel over this attitude or what do you think that i should do?

For one to leave his former place of work to a new place seem atimes a challenging tasks especially in aspects of how to socialise,make friends and relates with the new people.This is because the person is seen as a stranger that you may not even know who to communicate,as many of them have already known one another and are friends,they will be discussing, sharing ideas,leaving you behind.Please how can one go about this?,in terms of making oneself to feel belong-socialise with them,making friends and infact not to be feel isolated.

Is it because i ask,that some people will be talking anyhow?.There are some married ladies that are even responding to this thread that do have office romance with their male counterparts,likewise some men.Abi na lie?Now everybody is claiming to be saints.Chop and clean mouth!.

I have one lady in my place of work.She is the only person among the ladies that anytime i see her,i will start having sexual urge.She is very sweet and young.She is well endowed with backyard,that looking at her back,my hard disk will start to erect,and her husband is not always arround naija,hence the possiblity that she may want a young guy who will be doing the job of what the husband is denying her is there .I dont know why i always have the urge anytime i see her,even though she is married.Can i boldly approach her and tell her how i am feeling about her and and probably if she fall,i can follow and test how the thing is with ladies of big yash?.A friend of mine told me that Ladies with big backyard do attract some men especially slim men,but when you make love with them,their c*nt is always watery,that i may not like it again.That they are only good when u re looking at d backyard,but when u enter,it is ocean and nothing pleasure can come out of it.Is it true? and should i toast this my office lady?

I am getting upset on what some ladies passes through in an attempt to find job.My wife is a working class in another state but has to relocate to Lagos for us to start staying together.But for the past few months she has been searching for job and attending interviews,TWO CHALLENGES she has been facing is that most of the people that want to offer her job will like the final interview to end in bed,Secondly,many of them will on seeing "Married"in her CV will deny her the job,despite her experience.Why is these so rampart these days and whats the way out?,wats happening in this country called "Nigeria"