Jethrosam:
My brother i thank god for your life and mine also that u are alive to share this,have had that exprience and am praying to god to take full control,pls and pls for the sake of your own life,just make ur self happy.before biting ur finger in the grave.when u think of sending her parking she may attack u spritually.women who sundely change in mariagge and turn her self to public hole.mr man just live ur life.i wasnt born lame.but my wife and her family want to put me on wheel chair,just because of sending her out.pls bro we all met on earth.so dont let ur wife build u a self contain 6ft.sir be wise with it.

Hmmm it is well

poshestmina:
Your health and kids should be your priorities .

Thank you

DaddyRochie1642:




My position on this is,

I'm very sure that she was exhibiting these same behaviors that you hate when you guys were dating but you probably thought to yourself that
"If I marry her, she will change", thats where your regrets and Lamentations started, she will only get worse with her behaviors that's why people are always adviced to always be on the lookout for "Red Flags" that you know you will never tolerate during the "dating process"...do not hesitate to walk away from "Red Flag" behaviors you notice in your partner during the "dating process"

If you had walked away when you noticed this her "Red Flag" behaviors when you guys were still dating before marriage, you would have saved yourself from weeping and gnashing your teeth in your marriage.

The Lord is your Strength.

You are on track,I saw those red flags but just got carried away.

[quote author=sisisioge post=101672660]Hmmmm....you need to calm down and completely let your sanity and good health be your top priority please. No need to kill yourself over her attitude. Thankfully, you're not around to witness her wahala first hand. In fact,if possible, block allthose reporting her to you. One day, her day of reckoning will catch up with her...until then, stay healthy.

she is the one that tells me what's happening

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....you need to calm down and completely let your sanity and good health be your top priority please. No need to kill yourself over her attitude. Thankfully, you're not around to witness her wahala first hand. In fact,if possible, block allthose reporting her to you. One day, her day of reckoning will catch up with her...until then, stay healthy.

Thanks for the advice

[quote author=sisisioge post=101672660]Hmmmm....you need to calm down and completely let your sanity and good health be your top priority please. No need to kill yourself over her attitude. Thankfully, you're not around to witness her wahala first hand. In fact,if possible, block allthose reporting her to you. One day, her day of reckoning will catch up with her...until then, stay healthy.

Thanks

Ever8090:
Send her away before she sends you to the grave. Your wife is exact the person that lives nextdoor to me, the guy parked her out of his house with her daughter. When she parked in,we got close and she told me all manners of bad things against the guy that made me think the guy was devil himself which I letter discover that they were all lies, whe I got to listen to the guys story, what he went through in her hands, I shed tears.. As time goes on' this angel have quarrel with 9 out of the 9 flats in the compound, 8 co-tenants, his mum who came to visit ran away on a Sunday when she was in the church, the cousin was thrown out in the middle of the night and another of her cousin who came to learn tailoring was also thrown out in the middle of the night.
As we speak, she no longer exchange greetings with no one in the compound and the woman that sells provision on our street is also a victim. She was giving quit notice just after 4months into her annual rent for her shop because of her unending quarrels with everyone around her business premises.

She slept with one of the yahoo boys on our street after that one left, she moved to the senior man that was the owner of the apartment, after about 1 month, there was "gbege" she quickly moved to another yahoo boy directly opposite the gate of this one's.
After 3 weeks, she left and now she is with one fat 3quater nicker wearing commercial driver, but for some few days now I have not been seeing them together again which means the normal had happened again.

Point is, I see" Sonia" in your wife, those kind of women are impossible to live with, don't force yourself you won't be able to correct her..

Infact,their was one time my pastor came to settle some issues btw us,d pastor called me aside and told that from her behavior,what he notice is dat i can't change her that she is like a wood that I want to bend her.That if I want to bend her I will need to break her.its pathetic

[quote author=DaddyRochie1642 post=101672374]I'm sure that when you were toasting her in the beginning you were telling her words like
"Baby you're the Angel of my Life", "baby I can't breathe without you in my Life", "if you're not in my Life, my Life is not Complete" [/quot

I don't get the message you are trying to pass because am more of the victim here.
Please what's your position on this?

GraceDesign:


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I don't get it.

GraceDesign:
Pray for her

I have tried praying but it's all to no avail,I even told her one-time when I do advice her maybe she should give her life to Christ and get born again.Maybe that will even change her behavior to good,she is even the type dat doesn't fancy church because I remember sometime ago back home that I do have quarrel with her when she tell me on some Sundays dat she is not going to church even when I have a car that will take her and the kids to the church.Sometimes,I go to church only with my daughter and she will be at home doing nothing.

Good day, my fellow nairalander.Please do excuse any error discover on my typing.Please I need you peoples advice on my marriage.l am in a marriage of 9yrs with 2 kids .l have been having this issues of getting tired of my wife behavior which is running me to depression.
Am the reserve and the quiet type of person but she is the opposite of me, she is the type that nags alot,keeps all manners of frds.Any neighborhood or apartments we move to she associates with people easily and in the course of that she gets into problems with people.This has been going on for several years like that since our marriage and I have talked to her severally on her bad behavior,at times she apologize and atimes she gets into a fight with me.For like 2yrs ago I traveled out of the country after I lost my job and since that time till date I still get complain from people about her from home and I myself is aware of some of her stupid behavior.
Recently,she got involved in a fight with the wife of a neighbor in the new apartment I got for them in which I was told the lady stab her knife on her hand,after making some inquiries from conversation with people.I discovered the lady is fighting her because she suspect and accused my wife and her husband are having an affair.l have confronted my wife on the issue but she denied,I am not bothered about if truly she is having affair with the neighbor because I don't have any evidence.But what bothers me most is this her uncare attitude and bad behavior upto the level of getting in a fight with just anybody.
Please people advice me, how can I send her away of my life without hurting my kids because am already fed up with the marriage long time ago but am just patient because of my kids because any action I take to punish this woman, it will affect my kids.
I am really fed up,I do have heartache everytime because of this her bad behavior.Atimes when I cautioned her on this behavior she gets furious and maybe later apologies,pls am really fed up.
I am just regretting everyday how I got myself into this kind of marriage.

Many of you people here on nairaland will not read news or watch video posted to confirm caption,you just jump to conclusions.
This is the second time am watching that video,he never show himself there that he went for herdsmen,he was there for another different thing,a yoruba cultural rite.You can see him carrying something on his shoulder and that huge crowd you see came to show solidarity.In that regard,you will see different people making videos.In another meeting he was in that same location,it got to a point they requested everybody videoing to put off their camera.
There is nothing like show off in what he is doing like some people here are speculating,when you are a centre of attraction it is difficult to do anything in private again.thats the case with sunday igboho

Nigeria is a God forsaken country, how did we get here.
Why are we still sharing same country with this animals in human cloth. O God

Was there any kidnap in the first place.This is script playing, you people should stop fooling us.

Shut up, you don't know what you are saying.Yorubas don't make too much noise
They study and calculate events before they take action.you said yorubas are copying ibos.
Go and confirm,it was after yorubas registered as the 45th member nation in UNPO that the ibos went to register too as the 46th member nation despite all your agitation all this years.have you asked yourself why odua nation was register at the UNPO before the biafra republic

Mind you many ibos are happy now that yorubas have come out fully to join the agitation to secede from Nigeria though yorubas has been doing theirs in the background and making consultation without noise and not creating enemies like you people are doing

Oduduwa nation has drafted her own constitution long time ago and even the national anthem is known by many yorubas

you people are sincerely mad at that side


Yoruba are coward for staying put in Nigeria, now they come out, Yoruba are copying Igbo


you people have turned a secession into political rivalry again as you truncated first Nigeria Democratic settings


you Igbo need to speak to una self because I wonder what other southern can do to satisfy you confused people


anyway I buy the secession of Yoruba out of this Nigeria because this Nigeria failed many youths and those Agbero you see today in Yoruba land and maybe other places were result of a failed Nation


Hausa want to rule and dominate but others want development and accountability but these useless politicians got carried away easily with Hausa-fulani protection the reason why only North are allowed to be efcc boss


Buhari and his co illiterates believes Southwest is beginning to be tired of this failed state hence why OUK was pardoned to put their tent under Southeast


these clowns will continue to rule forever because of one of you senselessness [/quote][/color][color=#000099]

TheGiftedOne:
Huspuppt's international network of hustlers (HINH) at it again.


At the rate these guys are dragging the country plus the political class' unwanton looting, the word Nigeria will soon officially be a synonym for fraud, corruption and theft. An all encompassing name for anything dubious.

My brother you have said it right.Presently,all over the world,when any foreign national hear Nigeria.What first come to their mind is fraud.I almost shed tears when I was applying for a job in Dubai and it was stated "preferred candidate" all national except nigerians.You can imagine wat it means to single out just one country out of all the countries in the whole world
Seriously,am ashamed to be a Nigerian that very day

Hmmm Nigeria is finished.
So to be a senator in Nigeria is more lucrative than been a bank md/ceo.
I will not be surprised if firstbank md/ceo resign from his post too to eat more money in politics.
Haaa I weep for this country

light099:
I saw those clips on FP the other time, merely watching them once, it's obvious she either took weed for the first time or she exceeded her usual dosage of weed.
Funny enough, I already saw people on the thread binding and casting out demons, while many others were saying she's been offered as burnt offering by G boys. Africans no dey tire for their stale superstitions.

I remembered way back in Uni days, one Hostel had it's Hall day party. After all the whole stuff, it was time to share food. DJ was on, dance floor opened while plates of rice with Goat meat and cup of Palm wine was been served round to everyone. Barely 15 mins or so after, a lady suddenly started displaying different funny drama similar to this video. At first everyone took it for a joke but when she couldn't be controlled, she was taken out of the party while some people were assigned to keep watch on her to make sure she didn't do anything stupid. Up till today I'm still surprised, even with her funny displays and incoherent shiits she uttered, I've never seen her perform at such level of intelligence before. I mean she was like a combination of kim Peek and Einstein, while I was all through staring like a zombie, marvelling at the level of intelligence she displayed. Ask her any question, she would immediately give impressive replies like she was looking at the answer from somewhere. I've read about savants and supernatural powers, but before that day, I never knew Palm Wine too carry such power that can turn a dullard to a genius within 15 mins.

Bro that's the work of gegemu, even 9ice use it to sing that 'gegemu dey here mafi iku sere,awon alayonuso bi ti e won takiti sere'
I remember in our school days then, whenever we celebrate our hall day we do put it in palmeine.
If you drink it anyhow you go see anyhow

favor914:
Including me also Hse#, Rd 48, Victoria Garden City, Lagos State. “Eko Oni Baje”.

Are you a politician too?

Kissiemu:

He also lived n schooled in Lagos?

He was brought from Lagos.Almost all our politicians have a house in lagos

Kissiemu:
Wow...

Na Lagos girl be this.

How much be corona school fees? My pikin go go am. E reach 50k a term?

Even obaseki is a Lagos boy forming Edo no be lagos.
After his defeat he will still return to that Lagos he is badmouthing because of politics.good riddance to bad rubbish

Masterkernel1:



May illiteracy or deceit never hurt you in the future. This was Lagos when it started enjoying Niger Delta oil.


If you know anything that was in Nigeria before enjoying Niger Delta Oil kindly list them with pictures.

Pls how old are you,am very sure you in your early 20s for speaking this trash and aside from that you are not a good students of history.

Before the Advent of oil boom in Nigeria,the southwest already has its television station even before the country France.The first television station in Africa,Nigeria's premiere University,Coco house was not build with oil money,odua investment is still in existence and operational uptill now,the free education policy and many more I can't finished mentioning.

And you are here talking about oil,my brother the discovery of that oil itself is like a curse to us in this country.We all know where many countries that even discovered oil after Nigeria are presently talk of UAE,qatar,Libya, Kuwait.

There is a documentary I watched recently about Kuwait dat states that petrol is cheaper than water their,can you say that about this country.

Vikynas:
Where is wife?

They have divorced many years ago,it was in the news then.

Dino melaye is divorce with his wife tokunbo long time ago

Ebu144:

Ibidapo_Obe....that name rings bell

Prof Ayo ibidapo obe is a one time vice chancellor of unilag

Dedetwo:


I really do not know why a certain section of Nigeria tends to ride in illogicality. Nobody has ever passed a canceled WAEC. The June 12 1993 Nigerian Presidential Election was canceled and Nigerians did not see the conclusion of the process. It is beyond human imagination how the narratives of the canceled election ended as a process won by one goofy politician. The writer of the above crap would have ascertained that Yari.ba would not go to war even if reincarnated Oduduwa is murdered in Ibadan. After all, the son of the soil had been cool-bloodedly killed in Ibadan and the entire Yari.ba nation behaved as if nothing happened.

In addition, there is absolutely nothing Ndigbo can learn from Yari.ba.

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All you have said here is crap,I don't know maybe they swear for you people with chestbeating.
All the 3million ibos killed by the Nigerian military then,wat has the ibos done about it.Even the Yorubas that you are holding responsible for your loss then what have you done about them but you still throng in mass to their region for survival.Lets even leave Lagos out of it,go to ibadan, Osogbo akure and other capital city in west and see the population of ibos that does business and live there.

heykims:
Omo Edo is not Lagos o, even Ambode get level pass this

Gbam, you speak my mind.ambode didn't get upto dis embarrassmentthis guy is getting sef, even after leaving the governor seat they will still drag his ass with efcc.obaseki doesn't have good advisers at al, I pity him

Where are d Edo no be Lagos crew.The same scenario of ambode is repeating itself, even ambode dat has more love from d people is dealth with not to talk of obaseki.
The guy doesn't know how to play politics,even if he has any scores to settle with oshiomole he should ve wait after his second term reelection.
Bye bye obaseki.moral of this story is that don't bite the fingers dat fed you
Youruba will say"eni to ba ju ni lo,o le ju ni nu"someone dat is higher than you in experience can make you miss your way.obaseki should ve known dis time will come, even a political novice knows dis time will come

hedonistic:
There is some kind of mutual suspicion or would I say latent, passive-aggressive tension fuelled by 'healthy' rivalry, no doubt. But it's not hatred in the real sense. These guys can easily coexist and would form the bastion of a super strong (Con)Federal Republic of Southern Nigeria.

If you're talking about hate, can anyone cite just one example of violent inter-ethnic conflict between the Yoruba and the Igbo anywhere in Nigeria? Anywhere in Igboland or Yoruba land where Igbo mobs gathered to lynch a Yoruba man or vice versa? Just one example would suffice.

Every other day we hear of one Adefemi or one Chinedu smashing academic records in faraway USA or elsewhere. Or one Igbo or Yoruba professional in the diaspora breaking new ground and representin'. Can you tell me how many core northerners you have heard of representin' anywhere across the world where merit and talent (rather than quota system) is the criterion?

Olamide featuring Phyno... Flavour featuring Tiwa Savage, Dbanj featuring Don Jazzy.... Nollywood movie featuring Omotola Jalade and Genevieve Nnaji, Jim Iyke and RMD, Pete Edochie and Olu Jacobs etc.. Inter-ethnic collaborations in the arts, in innovative business startups, in the intelligentsia.... Can somebody tell me where the core North is represented in all of this?

Let's face it..the real hatred flows from North to South... And this hate is fuelled by envious resentment. Murderous hate. Since they up north can't realistically compete against the South in terms of intellect, education, meritorious accomplishment and human capital in general, they can only hate...

The so-called hate between Igbo and Yoruba is only cosmetic, harmless competition, especially online (or in their respective secret Chambers), never openly. You will never hear that a Yoruba corper was lynched in one village in Abia State for any reason, or that one Igbo trader was killed by a mob in Ekiti. But we know how many times this has happened up north, with both Igbo and Yoruba victims.

The kind of healthy rivalry you would feel for your great adversary is quite different from the demonic hatred you would feel for someone that is eminently and completely superior to you.

May God bless you for this piece of write-up,you are the only one that has said something meaningful to me here.This rivary or hatred btw yorubas and igbos only exist online,I got to find out how serious this hatred is on nairaland.In reality life ibos don't fight Yoruba offline,where I was born and grew up in Lagos is dominated by ibos and we all live in peace together,I have many of my ibo friends that we grew up together for over 30yrs now and we still keep in touch and like brothers.It just always baffled me the level that this enimity btw this two tribe has gone to online.In Lagos for example,you can hardly hear where an ibo section is fighting d Yoruba section.But their is always the news of youruba and hausa fighting in Lagos either in mushin idi araba,ketu mile 12 even in far away ile ife., mostly in sabo section of the Yoruba land.
But what I believe is playing btw my Yoruba people and the igbos is ego,this tribe is greater than this one,this is the most industrious tribe,this is the most educated tribe and all that.
It's high time this two tribes come together and fight with one voice,God bless Nigeria

Which of the RantHq was suspended,this people can lie for Africa.

Am not a fan of d dakolos but its totally a sorry case dat this is coming from d mouth of a suppose man of God.Christianity has suffered in nigeria from this yahoo pastors.like pst biodun fatoyinbo like Apostle suleiman bed of d same feather.

Lets pray dat poverty should not be our portion.dats what poverty do cause,frustration.I ve seen similar things like this while growing up.An hungry man is a madman a times