It really isnt.
Your body is supposed to be the temple of God - even your temple.
Dont 'awaken love until u are ready' - this men will mess you up sha.

But for real, i know that when u preserve yourself, God is not wicked He will always prepare someone for you.

- there is no such thing.
She has to work at it like evryone else.

Uchetobi its not our fault o - its what we have been through.
Even God is still having trouble making me trust Him 100%.
Talkless a man.

Oga o this man is disciplined to the core.

I really must take a leaf outta his book.

By His grace - i got a job that i have always asked for.
I found other sides to God that i didnt know existed.
I found out that when u are down and under, He will show up for u.

2007 was a real tough year and i still have the scars - but by His grace am still in the game, praise God.

I also found out that you must know ur God so that u dont get exploited.

Mayb e she is advising him on how to go about his big day to smeone else.
Haba stop jumping to conclusions because she is a wedding planner.

What you telling them for?
Like experience has taught u so it will teach them no worry.
But if u can carry on sha in this ur new foound way then its all good.

But wait o, there will be more heartbreaks o - u cant just break millions of heart and then think one girl will break ur heart and u will be even - u no its not level yet.

So expect a few more.

Ok thats nice about ur story but what is the koko?
I mean what u want us to comment on - cause i gat to comment on something.

CJ u have brought tears to my hard eyes because you have seen what i have been trying to say all along.

There is just no pleasing most people - if we give in too easy its something, if we dont its another thing.

But personally, if i meet anyone i like, we just hit it off straight away - no time for pretense.

Be yourself and be a man - dont let them walk all over you.
Let your yes be yes and no be no - women respect men that are in control.

Its all well and good - but ask urself why u kept in contact with her all that time?
Cause u wanted her back and she leving u had motivated u to better urself and stride for better things.

Like i said, u know her best so u decide.

I dont think so.
Personally, i dont believe there isnt any one that doesnt have a past - men and women.
I have mine, while am learning from them, i cannot justify them and i shouldnt be judged by it.

There are some men that cant handle it - i ave had male friends tell me not to tell any guy am with any thing about ma past unless the essentials that they need to know.

I tell things about ma past relationships that have physical evidence that e.g maybe a child, a wedding etc.
Nothing else for sure.

I dont think there is nyone we could trust 100%.
I dont even trust ma mother 100%.
There are people that will come into ur life and deserve that element of trust because they have proved their trust - personally from what i have been through - i couldnt truust anybody 100%. But as we get to know each other more, the trust will improve.

Sweetie its all good.
What you need to do is search your heart - if you still like her take her back and damn the consequences. The thing i have known about men is that when they love, they love with their whole heart.

Take her back if you still like her, only you alone know what kinda girl she is.

We all enter the temptation to cheat on our spouses all the time but some choose to fall for it while others dont.
Well i definately believe in karma - its been happening to me these past few days that it just happens and then i am quickly reminded of it by my dear spirit of truth.

The lesson is that i have started trying to treat people the way i wanna be treated.

Thats something else thats on ma new years dream list.

thank you saucey ma guy - you and all this ur funky answers sha.

Hope u cool sha - i would say i am a real woman aside from a few petty characters that i have that by the grace of God am working on.

Love and money does obviously go hand in hand.
Love is the ultimate but having money just allows it flow better.

A real woman is a praying woman - she is the prayer warrior of her home.
Supports her husband wholeheartedly, she takes good care of her man in bed, emotionally and makes sure he is in tip top shape.
She takes good care of her kids and brings them up the right way.
She has a business / or works to support her home.

Ontop of all this, she has to also manage to look good, take care of herself.

Maybe because they just took it for polite sake.
They were proabl just obliged to take it.

i THINK IT DEPENDS ON THE AGE U ARE IN.

I think i probably want a bad boy when i was younger but now i think am ready for the good guy.

The reason i liked the bad boys was that they just rocked ma world and they were fantasies.

@debosky, yes cause she is ma very good friend- we go way back. 
Am even her son Diesel's god mother.
Thanks uzzyan girl thats why me likes you - but like i said its his loss for sure.

LIKE I SAID, AM AN ASSET TO ANY MAN THAT I CHOOSE TO BE WITH.

Well if u didnt define anything.
I was once told that assumption is a sin - i need th guy to say what he wants otherwise i am still single.
So u cant call her anything cause u didnt say what u wanted from her, cause u couldnt express yourself u expect her to just sit there and wait for u - come on now be fair.

I wouldnt say you are on the rite or wrong trakc.
But i feel that if u arent interested in getting distrated cause u no those boys are a distraction - then its cool but i would be scared that the one for me actually came and went.

I couldnt do that - i love ma mane too much - distraction or not. Well, i couldnt do what u doing though - kudos to u for doing it.
I would just say study and leave ur heart open cause u never know when the rite person ma come - could be sooner than u think.

Maybe not love but interested at first sight would be correct.

Thats brill ideas because alot of people just buy shares without knowing what the heck they are doing.
I personally never trusted those banks anyways but thats another story.

I need to give more, saturate maself with the Word of God andtravel more and open ma heart more.

Well ersonally, i have always lived by the moto 'if i didnt see them drop it, then its mine'.
But maybe i will work on that in 2008.

But for sure, i probably wont give it back - but maybe after a few sleepless nights, i wold probably return it.

I dont know why people are just fashionising (if thats such a word) the fact that she snatched someone else's man.
Their foundation was shaky from start so they arent gonna be together - its the children that are gonna suffer the consequences.

Because people marry for the wrong reasons - e.g because of family status etc.
But now people no that is not the case anymore. people are realising that they dont have to stay in abusive situations, etc.

Like Seun said, our eyes don open well well now.

Anike, Asake, Abike, Aduke the whole works whichever one they are feeling like at that time.

Just enough to keep the family above water.

He has to be the provider, so how ever much he needs to get him providing for his family.