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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Ask Me To Slow Things Down - I don't know what to do by Auxtan(m): 6:57pm On Jun 23
Chidex369:
Greetings my people,

Please I really need your advice on how to go about this matter that is really eating me up. We went on a normal date with my girl whom I have proposed marriage to and she accepted it. But in recent time I have been telling her to come and see my parent but was like we are not yet ready, I don't understand it.

Today we went out and she opened up and started telling me areas of my life which she's not really comfortable with and I should improve on them. When she was done she said she needs us to slow things down for now.

I don't really know how to go about this right now. Please I really need your advice on it. I really love this girl and wants to settle down with her. We broke before and reconcile after two years, and we been back for like 6 months now.

Please no insult or curse. Please I need your advice.
Broke up and stayed over 2 years before coming back together. Whoever that was in her life before your reconciliation is causing her confusion. Try to listen a purposeful message together with her on YouTube. She's just confused and unsure of what she really wants.

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Stop Working After Our Wedding by Auxtan(m): 9:10pm On Jun 22
You're asking the right question at the most possible wrong time. You're getting married at the end of the month, meaning money intensive and very crucial arrangements have already been made and of all question to ask about what could be valid for a discontinuation at this point is this? Oh c'mon! I DON'T BLAME YOU SHA! Nothing about your gender surprise me anymore. Your gender are only all for yourselves, very selfish individuals God created into our world.

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Religion / Re: There Is No God, God Should Stop Helping Me- Nigeria Man Says by Auxtan(m): 7:48pm On Jun 22
Ade49:
i understand you but my own Is that I'll never do bad.. if there's God I will be chosen if there's no God there's nothing for me to loose
For even being of 2 opinions you have done bad. Because it means you wholeheartedly don't accept there's a God, if you do you shouldn't ever even entertain naysayers notions against God. Only accept there's God if you want it, it doesn't matter of the so called enlightened ones see you as a fool or not, just believe and accept God and keep going.

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Family / Re: I can't keep quite anymore. Please help me by Auxtan(m): 7:22pm On Jun 22
For the time being, you can start recommending other people's products and add your own price. Start from this. You can sell through the internet like here on Nairaland. Try it and see how it goes. I'm so sorry please. It all will be fine.

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Family / Re: I can't keep quite anymore. Please help me by Auxtan(m): 7:18pm On Jun 22
LagosSuperStar:
Yes you are right but I have a health challenge just like I explained earlier although I'm managing it, things aren't just the same as it used to be
I pray the Lord sends a helper your way soon

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Fashion / Re: See My Hair That I Made By Myself. Rate Me Please. (pics Ins) by Auxtan(m): 7:52am On Jun 22
I need a girl that can plait her hair by herself in my life.
Romance / Re: Please Women: Do You Love Us From The Bottom Of Your Heart? (pix) by Auxtan(m): 12:02am On Jun 22
goran3310:


I'm not a billionaire. No, they don't love us from the bottom of their hearts. They never are and never will be. I believe that they are capable of that when they are very young. They lose that ability with age.
I guess they lose that as early as from their 20s. They only truly love in their teens.

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Romance / Re: We Still Have Better Girls In Nigeria by Auxtan(m): 11:54pm On Jun 21
imagrg:
Nothing good, nothing bad, thinking makes it so!
---William Shakespeare.

That lady you are calling good today, will show you shegey tomorrow.

In conclusion,

The devil is a woman!
I might have to agree now tho I used to be in doubt before undecided
Romance / Re: Advice To Every Young Man Out There by Auxtan(m): 11:50pm On Jun 21
Finding the right woman is by God's grace and luck. It doesn't matter if you have made the money or not.
Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 5:19pm On Jun 21
MrCork:


Calm down babes, u talking to a londoner...hav u even beento london? Goat!!!((no oofencse)) undecided
Werey 😂
Romance / Re: Women Express Sex More With Strangers by Auxtan(m): 3:57pm On Jun 21
OtuologyProf:
I just enter one location for one outside job like that . We had 4 ladies and 3 guys seating around, eating corn and pear
na so discussion start about Tinubu and economy. I come joke say people go still dey nak for this economy
All of them cum Dey laugh…
One thing led to another, I corner one of dem ladies go nak for short time
This lady held my shoulders like her life depends on fornication
at times she will hold my head, rub my back, and grab my abs firmly.
I was like, wetin Dey this my small dik sef
Lie on werey grin

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Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 3:50pm On Jun 21
OtuologyProf:
If you nak South American,you go confess wetin no good
The slim ones abi the fat ones? Abi na all of em?
Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 3:21pm On Jun 21

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Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 1:25pm On Jun 21
MrCork:


Are u homebase people ok...serrrriiiosly?? (no oofencse) undecided
Go and learn to type muuuuu
Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 1:12pm On Jun 21
IkeIgboNiile:
Auxtan
Those meaty ones are even the hungry ones (foodies). Always hungry grin


Bro na lie. They like junk food and snacks but those slim ones can finish garri now and still have space for shawarma. They're never truly filled.

Most big people are genetically built to be fat no matter how small their food portion is but those slim ones are something elsè.
Knowing this genetics can likely be transferred to an offspring is enough reason why the slim ones will always rock. And lastly, sex with the meaty ones is intoxicating. Lol
Romance / Re: Lady Shows Up At Ex’s House To Challenge Him For Not Checking Up On Her For Week by Auxtan(m): 1:06pm On Jun 21
Namaster:
From her body language, you can EASILY tell that the man was the girlfriend in that relationship.

NO masculine man would want a relationship with the girl. She's realised that too after being dumped by the guy she dumped this guy for. And that's why she's back talking to him.

But she's dealing with a SISSY-MAN so instead of begging on her hands and kneels, she's talking NONSENSE and trying to chance him into taking her back.

A girl dumped you, then blocked you EVERYWHERE and you still entertain a conversation with her. That's just DUMB!
Is usually difficult to move on if you are the dumped one.

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Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 1:00pm On Jun 21
Kaczynski:
I like slim girls like this


I'm a nymphomaniac so I need girls with mad urge for tatatata
So slim girls have higher sexual urge? That is scientifically not correct. Fat girls have higher urge (libido) but at the same time offers very boring sex.

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Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 12:57pm On Jun 21
IkeIgboNiile:
You maybe right but i don't rate them. Most of them are hungry not slim. I prefer meat to bone.
Those meaty ones are even the hungry ones (foodies). Always hungry grin

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Romance / Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 11:15am On Jun 21
IkeIgboNiile:
You maybe right but i don't rate them. Most of them are hungry not slim. I prefer meat to bone.
That is a thin girl not slim. She needs nutrition lol

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Family / Re: Fall Detection For Kids by Auxtan(m): 8:09am On Jun 21
makjo900:


Can you please throw more light on this, i'm kinda confused

Family / Re: You Need N28.7m To Consider Yourself Rich In Nigeria – by Auxtan(m): 7:40am On Jun 21
ibechris:
For a Nigerian to break into the one percent population of the wealthy, it will now take a net worth of $70,000 (N28.7 million), according to the latest Knight Frank Wealth Report.Using the N30,000 minimum wage as a benchmark, it means a working 18-year-old will have to wait 97 years, that is if he plans to save the whole of his salary.
This paints a picture of the rising inequality in the country as many Nigerians continue to battle to survive on daily basis.
Knight Frank report describes wealth as the net assets of a person that includes property, cash, equities, business interests less and liabilities like loans.
But with many Nigerians battling with the soaring price of food items, transportation and other goods and service, hoping to be among the listed few rich can be rightly seen as very ambitious or difficult.
In other parts of Africa, for a Kenyan to join the wealthy it will only take $20,000, while a South African will need as much as $180,000 to join the top one percent in South Africa.
With the threshold of $7.9 million, Monaco is a favorite playground for the super-rich in the world.
Switzerland, famous for its role as a warehouse of the global elite’s wealth, is second with a threshold of $5.1 million. The United States is third with an entry-level of $4.4 million.
The report further showed that there are 231,309 High net worth individuals (HNWI) in Africa with at least $1million (N402 million).
There are also 3,330 Ulta High net worth (UHNW) Individuals with over $30 million a figure that increased from 3,330 in 2015, and 3,127 in 2019. The report expects the figure is expected to grow to 4,361 by 2025.
Out of the HNWI in Africa, Nigeria has 43,571 individuals with $1 million but this represents a drop from 56,444 in 2015 and 53,021 in 2019.
Nigeria also has 867 UHNWI, an increase from 821 in 2015 and 855 in 2020 a figure expected to grow to 992 by 2025.
These richest in Nigeria are almost exclusively entrepreneurs owning multiple companies and assets in the local market and abroad.
Knight Frank says that a growing inequality is a major challenge for the super-rich, countries and governments, with higher taxes on the wealthy seen as a way to reduce the imbalance around the world.
“Wealth inequality has become starker within countries and globally, particularly as a result of the Covid-19 pandemic, and this is likely to become a point of growing contention,” the property consultancy says in the report.
Knight Frank therefore canvases for more wealth taxes to be introduced as governments scramble to cover the huge costs of the pandemic, adding that targeting the wealthy tends to be popular with voters surveyed.

By David Ibemere…
You need a good job or business, a comfortable house in the village, a comfortable house in the town, a sound car and 25m naira as reserved cash for meeting your needs to be considered rich or comfortable in Nigeria.
Family / Re: Fall Detection For Kids by Auxtan(m): 7:37am On Jun 21
makjo900:
good morning, can anyone please help out on a fall detection device or something that works. It will alert elders in the living room or his bedroom of a fall in the kids room? My kids will be sleeping in their own room but need something that can alert me in my room incase of any sort of fall.. Please kindly help out
Change their bed to one with a wedge.
Romance / Re: My Relationship Is Getting Serious by Auxtan(m): 12:21am On Jun 21
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


Lol they're too young for you and my second is in a serious relationship as well , so no
That was supposed to be a joke. Your sisters are not guaranteed to have the same genotype or blood group as you uno.

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Romance / Re: My Relationship Is Getting Serious by Auxtan(m): 11:48pm On Jun 20
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


When the time is right I will do just that , as for the genotype , I'm AA and O+ , I did my test before gaining admission.
I need an AA & O+ in my life. You have a sister? grin
Romance / Slim Girls Rocks! by Auxtan(m): 6:57pm On Jun 20
cheesy
Family / Re: My Wife Threatened To End My Life And Send Me To The Afterlife (screenshots) by Auxtan(m): 6:15pm On Jun 20
blackbone989:
I can bet this are new couples. I swear d lady don't mean half of what she said,the guy is just using the situation to run away. Go home to your wife n let peace reign. I can tell she loves you deeply from what I read. Av bn married for 11yrs so I know when a woman is in love. Don't ever destroy your home cus of this n know that most words said in depression,no one meant it. Including the one u said.next time,when she is ranting,just close the chat. Allow her send 1million message n u delete. Don't read. Except u r mature in heart. Resist d urge to reply her as e de hot. Make up n have a good sex. Trust me marriage is indeed a wonderful institution
I learnt the hard way after the girl I loved left me for another man. The signs where there that she loved me but I took her outbursts so serious without knowing that was the time she needed my care and kind words the most. Now the girl I built to my taste is now another bachelor's (a pastor) girlfriend. And she looks to be really in love/happy with him by her social media activities. Never again will I fvck up a relationship that we really love each other.

In your definition sir, how do you know when a girl really loves you?

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Family / Re: My Wife Threatened To End My Life And Send Me To The Afterlife (screenshots) by Auxtan(m): 5:42pm On Jun 20
Oga your wife is simply a good woman. You are just the problem. I have gone through your profile and saw where you even had sex with a prostitute and got infected. You have probably not seen your wives under in months and your wife is obviously constantly frustrated by your lack of care towards her. Your wife was simply angry as any human being can be and passed a wrong message out of the anger you obviously propelled. She couldn't have threatened to kill you of you didn't say something very bitter and heavy towards her. That she is your wife doesn't make her your puppet or your slave. You married her because your loved her or so you could live with her forever, why now frustrate her? You're the man of the family and it is expected you take the back seat when things get very heated because as a man you should be more intelligent and you should know that anything can escalate to what nobody would wish for their home. I see you might no longer find your wife attractive which is normal for some partners after many years marriage or fvcking the same pvssy, but please try to pretend to still find her attractive as before and above all love your wife because she became your other half that moment your exchanged vows with her on the alter. Loving your wife is like loving yourself because you can never ignore whatever that is going on her end, her problems are yours and yours are hers. Be wise. Sometimes let go of your manly ego and allow her say all her rubbish because that is naturally her 95% of women show they are hurt. Your duty is to after her blabbing in a cool and lovely way talk sense into her, she will 100% listen and take corrections. Don't mind what redpill idiots say online. Love your wife and appreciate the fact she is your home maker. Without her you would have no children that makes up a home neither would you have in most cases anyone to care for your kids and inculcate values into then. BE WISE AND DON'T BE FOOLISH!

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Romance / Re: My Relationship Is Getting Serious by Auxtan(m): 10:07am On Jun 20
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


When we met I was selling pancakes as an hair dressers apprentice , using a damaged button phone grin (giving damsels in distress)

He didn't know anything about me , he's not from here , he moved to my town last year , even with how he was acting at first I knew he knew nothing about me , he used to talk to me like I was unexposed and local , it was people that knew me that would tell him who I was but even still , if he had grown up here , I would never even give him a chance , the men here have approached for that status thing and its always so obvious.

If I tell the other men I'm hungry , they'll give me a history lesson about my dad , thats why i only date outside ,but with him its as if I'm his child, he sees me as his innocent and sweet person, he's always thinking and making provision with the little he has , most times I don't eat till he's back from work so that we can eat together , even if there's food , I'll wait so that we can eat everything together , it feels good sha.

Love can make you say a lot more good things about him. But if you are right in all you said now, then he might just be that guy for you. Go and check your genotype and other medicals. You can as well take in again for him to make things easier since your mum is being too stubborn. Happy married life in advance!
Romance / Re: My Relationship Is Getting Serious by Auxtan(m): 6:52am On Jun 20
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I met my current boyfriend last year still here in my hometown , but I didn't accept him until march because I needed time to move on from my ex (we broke up because of distance).

I love this new guy and he loves me too we've been together since march and although it started off rocky , its become more stable and its getting serious.

He's been itching to meet my family officially but from where I'm standing that's a bad idea..... My mom is materialistic and artificial , she doesn't believe in humble beginnings and I don't want her to get involved and make him feel bad.

He's orphaned and fends for himself and me , he's very kind and understanding and he cherishes me , other men that came want me for stupid reasons and most of the men here are not single , you'll be a side chick to a man that can't give his wife money to make her hair (waste of sin) ,

But my bf is like my best friend he's my type and I'm his type, young , handsome , hardworking and caring , I love that we both look very good and I usually imagine having a baby with him, that will look just like him

I recently got pregnant without realizing it on time but whilst treating a suspected infection I put myself and my pregnancy at risk and we were adviced to terminate it , it was life threatening and I was bed ridden ,I had him with me from start to finish , helping me go through this hard time ,both of us were emotionally ready for the baby but God knows best(maybe next year) grin

My mom says he's a nobody because he's orphaned , didn't further his studies after waec , does hard labour and he's not from our town .

My father also had no opportunity to further on time and I wasn't born with a silver spoon , it was after I had grown a bit that we became highly privileged , and got wealthy.

I didn't earn my life , I was blessed and lucky to be the first graduate in my family but none of this is his fault , but my mother thinks I should bring home some big guy that drives a car and has a degree.

if he didn't care about my family ,I won't be bothered yet, but he said he's tired of hiding and wants to reach out but I'm scared it would go wrong because I know my parents.

What can I do ?
You just have to think more and be careful. People can be who you didn't fathom them to be. And your boyfriend could be acting very understanding because he wants to tie you down first as you're of a different status. If not he would be more interested in marrying you the right way and not getting you pregnant first. THINK!
Romance / Re: What's The Best Dating Advice You Have Heard? by Auxtan(m): 10:05pm On Jun 19
Never invest your heart and emotion. Always be ready for heartbreak.
Romance / Re: I Feel Disappointed In Most Girls Especially The Beautiful Ones by Auxtan(m): 7:50am On Jun 19
DevilsEqual:
When u talk like this, you overrate humans(male/female)....mere mortals

Since I got to understand how attraction works and how almost impossible it is to self-influence other people's attraction to you, I stopped worrying about all these


So if I get rejected by the other gender, it has nothing to do with their being classier, and they'd still not be attracted to me if I became a Gov
You're right that it isn't in any way right to force someone into accepting you. But I am confused about the chemistry of sudden dislike of another partner while in a relationship that has lasted for many years. This is mainly why we have exes that are like sworn enemies today. Why?

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Romance / Re: I Feel Disappointed In Most Girls Especially The Beautiful Ones by Auxtan(m): 8:47pm On Jun 18
FRANCISTOWN:

Then your eyes have seen evil niyen.
Guys please don't mind him o. Broke people can never be truly happy. I remember when I was broke. I was always angry for no reason. If person greet me I fit stone am.
Being broke is really frustrating but trust me we have more happy couples/family in broke homes compared to the rich homes.

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