This is what feminism has achieved for men in the West:

- You are not obliged to cater to a partner (note partner not wife); she takes care of her self financially and pursues her own path. Relationship can be called off at any time with no strings attached.

- It allowed men to enter the kitchen and cook their own good meals or eater in places like Hooters and enjoy all the nice views without feeling morally or spiritually obligated to a wife. Hooters is a restaurant chain full of nice looking ladies as waitresses.

- It allowed women to now woo men and try to get their attention.

- Developments such as sex bots allow men anytime sex with no risks - this device is already commercially avaiable but feminists are trying very hard to ban it. it shows they dont know what they want; this device would end all their complaints against men as many guys would just retire to their robots.

- It has allowed men to sit back and relax and allow the ladies to run and take difficult stressful jobs and see that its not fun and that work is something many people try to escape.

- It has allowed guys to date and sleep with multiple ladies and enjoy views of exposed body parts afterall a lady has a right to wear anything anywhere.

So why are men opposed to feminism? It has also liberated men!

Men desiring children can get a surrogate, adopt.

My best advise for men in a feminist environment is this: forget marriage if u live in the West its not worth it just have a partner. keep ur money in USD in a preferably non feminist country. Grow ur international network of ppl who can help you; there is strength in numbers.

Secondly men enter the kitchen and be ur own wife.

Theres nothing for a man in marriage today in the West and they hv brought the same destruction of family to Nigeria.

I support equality under the law. Respect is earned; I respect strong and powerful women like Mary Slessor who stopped the killing of twins among the Efiks or ibibios cant remember. God chose a woman to conceive the Son of God. Holy Spirit was fully capable of making Joseph grow a womb and bear Christ but chose a woman - so women already hv the highest honor.

Anyway i work hard for my money and i aint yielding half of my assets to any lady thats for sure.

From CBN website http://www.cbn.gov.ng/Paymentsystem/BVN.asp:

The benefits of the project among others include:

4. It will address issues of identity theft, thus reduce exposure to fraud.
5. In the near future, to authenticate transactions without the use of cards, using only biometric features.

Rev 13
16 And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads:
17 And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name.

Most people stop here but today I am going to extend this discussion and show there is actually nothing to fear (at least this is my opinion).

9 And the third angel followed them, saying with a loud voice, If any man worship the beast and his image, and receive his mark in his forehead, or in his hand,

10 The same shall drink of the wine of the wrath of God, which is poured out without mixture into the cup of his indignation; and he shall be tormented with fire and brimstone in the presence of the holy angels, and in the presence of the Lamb:

So we see that this only happened to those who took the first option not the Or s. Maybe those who took the alternatives but with less privileges in society were still able to live their lives in peace it seems.

Rev 16
2 And the first went, and poured out his vial upon the earth; and there fell a noisome and grievous sore upon the men which had the mark of the beast, and upon them which worshipped his image.

We see from this that (at least my understanding) is that only those with the actual mark of the beast receive condemnation there and then; maybe they will hv special privileges such as ability to buy houses but only those with the number of his name make limited transactions.

India
The same BVN project is also going on in India. It goes by the name Aadhar biometric capture.

My message to you today is do not be afraid, mark of the beast is not that much of a big deal, you will still be able to live your life as long as you go with the alternatives and do not receive any mark of the beast in the right hand or in the forehead! At least this is the finding of my bible study but could be wrong.

God knows what he is doing in the final analysis....

Boyfriends have had your wife in her earlier years.

She is probably comparing you with previous mates and doesn't think you are that good.

my point is for no sex till marriage to work, a man should not wait 40 years and a woman should not wait 35 years. If im doing no sex till marriage to enter heaven heaven is speculative at best and have a 50 50 chance of getting sorely disappointed on Judgement Day.

AlienStar:
You are seriously making no point.

this thread is for men. All I am saying is the delayed marriage system doesnt work. you expect a guy to wait 40 years to get laid for a heaven that is speculative at best? Heaven is a hope. Its a HOPE for believers.

Note that I used the term intimate. It does not have to be sex. Could be everything else as well.

What marriage are we waiting for??

The marriage is delayed...and causes temptations for both the man and the woman.

The marriage that gives a man a lot of responsibility with no benefit?

The marriage where the women put having a career and a busy schedule above their home?

The marriage where both the men and women have been around the block (i.e. slept around) before getting married bringing demons into the marriage?

The marriage powers of darkness are trying to break using anger, etc?

The marriage where a man will get divorced often with no notice and pay alimony and child support his whole life. Failure to pay results in inprisonment. With thr established Ministry of Womens Affairs under UN mandate in Nigeria this year, no fault divorce and forced alimony and child support payments are coming to naija soon

The marriage where the sex dies down after two years.

So why are we waiting until marriage to get intimate? I suggest to all young men to get a stable girlfriend and plan to marry her later. older guys can follow the current system of late marriage. its a work around; ideally you should marry outright but society has changed.

What marriage are we waiting for??

The marriage where the man is 40 and woman is 30 both of them losing in physical attractiveness a major ingredient men look for though most guys are religious hypocrites and wont say this.

The marriage that gives a man a lot of responsibility with no benefit?

The marriage where the women put having a career and a busy schedule above their home?

The marriage where both the men and women have been around the block (i.e. slept around) before getting married bringing demons into the marriage?

The marriage powers of darkness are trying to break using anger, younger women etc?

The marriage where a man will get divorced often with no notice and pay alimony and child support his whole life. Failure to pay results in inprisonment. With thr established Ministry of Womens Affairs under UN mandate, no fault divorce and forced alimony and child support payments are coming to naija soon

The marriage where the sex dies down after two years (they gave their best years to bf and gf not you!).

So why are we waiting until marriage to have sex? I suggest to all men to get a stable girlfriend and plan to marry her later. its a work around; ideally you should marry outright but society has changed.

SirDavico:
Go and marry those ladies u've f**ked.



You're looking for a Godfearing Lady?


So who'll marry those you've messed up?



Nonsense.

very good response....

best response on nairaland!!

Puresolutions:


@AVRecruit this is how it is i cant stop clapping.The young gurls are seriously curvy,the 30's have their curves ironed out and the wandering thoughts...mehn thank God for self control to some extent.

we cant deceive ourselves. most church folks deceive themselves by saying looks is superficial. yet God says sin starts from the eye. I believe God intended marriage to b done young....

reasons why marriages break up is men get caught in lusts with younger girls as their wives wasnt young wen she was married....

the issue is women 20-25 dont want to get married. welcome to the career first women generation. these comprise most gfs.

On the one hand we are to get laid only within marriage biblically but on the other hand dem wiminz 20-25 only want boyfriends for the most part. have a gf ur a fornicator marry girls 32+ you will always have an eye for dem younger curvy babe.

so wats a man to do?!

the issue is women 20-25 dont want to get married. welcome to the career first women generation.

On the one hand we are to get laid only within marriage biblically but on the other hand dem wiminz 20-25 only want boyfriends for the most part. have a gf ur a fornicator marry girls 32+ you will always have an eye for dem younger curvy babe.

so wats a man to do?!

Who cares who women prefer are they God? Please get more productive uses of your time.

psalmone email me ur bbm pin. lets talk.

i intend on blogging on this particular topic and there could be collaboration opportunities here.

womens dressing today every summer and in hot countries and exposing their bodies also made the market more efficient. Which is bad for both men and women.


Psalmone i have sent you a nairaland friendship invite. Lets connect!

@Psalmone

I know your type and you clearly mean well.

You are missing two vital piece of the puzzle.

These so called body of Christ girls are mostly 'christian feminists' who are hiding behind bible verses. they put church activities and prayers times and choir participation above their husbands as though their husband was a pagan. If its not church activities they are putting above their husbands then its their careers.


In Timothy young women were encouraged to marry and bear children not pursue careers and stand on the pulpit as choir leads (I acknowledge that God may have called certain women into Ministry - who am I to question) - but thats not every womans primrary role.

Secondly men are visual creatures and are moved by 'youthful lusts' (that is the truth). Young women should be encouraged to marry before going to university (this will stop dating) or during university or shortly after university. the dearth of single women in Lagos in their late twenties and 30s today is because largely they followed a feminist path albeit unknowingly. Men will always all things being equal pick the youngest and most well behaved girl possible.

OP you are perfectly straight.

There is a spirit of homosexuality in your life that needs to be cast out in Jesus name. Go to a church for deliverance.

AmahC:
Bros u no get talk.

So if u are 25 wants to marry, na 15years old girl u go marry? Marriage is not by age I agree but Blv there of maturities that comes with age. I can't date a girl of 17, not to talk of marriage.

How a woman looks after giving birth is determined by her. So many of them don't know how to take care of themselves.

Genevieve is about 40yrs now but she still set die.

U try but u need to make a good research before u post

Thanks

he did not say it must be 10 years. by 10 years he just means young.

Olushow144:

I can't see a 10yr gap in this your 18-26, 22-31 analysis. And maybe it is in your own version of the bible that women should be 5-10 yrs younger. Pls stop deceiving ppl by placing age above true love

i didnt say it must b 10 years. the ages i listed are already young.

guys/girls be warned. 95% of nogerians are hypocrites. how many side chicks are same age as the wives?

the only way older woman can work is if theguy has had his fun....

Olushow144:

I wonder what age you want men to get married then cos 10yrs gap means you'll have to wait for her to finish schooling plus some other personal ambitions

men should get married 22-31. Girls should get married 18-26. the thing with girls is they need to be led. school does not prohibit marriage if anything it prevents girls from sleeping around during the University.

the issue is the world has changed and marriage i believe is far from what God intended it to be.

Rhea:


[size=14pt]So what if your wife looks older than you? Are you married to her looks or married to her? Some people are still living in a very carnal world. Na so una dey take marry mamiwater, she go enter house carry you put inside fanta bottle, put am over kerosene fire, begin dey stoke the fire any how any how[/size]

theres nothing carnal about a man wanting a young woman. If anything that man fears God because men are mostly moved by looks. In as much as ur not marrying looks she still has to be pleasing to behold for about 5 years.

this is why girls giving their physical primes to their boyfriend's instead of husbands is not a good idea....

there has to be something carnal in modern day marriage for the man. Why bear all the responsibility and risks (divorce) but non of the carnal benefits?

Olushow144:
So your reasonable excuse is sex, for sex's sake alone we should marry people that we are 10yrs older than, Have you heard about inferiority complex, and what about childish behaviours. OP, there's more to marriage than sex, get your thinking right

its not just sex. its having someone nice to look at...

aside the looks someone ur older than by 5- 10 years is more teachable in general. less feminist mentality too. also in line with the Word of God where young women in Timothy were encouraged to get married and bear children.

sportskid:
You are sooooo wrong, and it is clear you know nothing about marriage, women naturally age faster than men regardless of age differences.Many factors in women are responsible for that.Secondly marrying a woman has nothing to do with her boobs size or weight every woman's boobs must relax after child birth and most women gain weight after child birth, don't be fooled friend, marry a woman that will respect you that's all you need in marriage.Don't marry because of sex, trust me sex go tire you after six months, what will keep you and your baby mama is RESPECT.

it does. You will note that in Christianity its admiration of physical features that is a sin. All these hypocrites deceiving themselves are the same ones that will marry a 30 something lady and go cheat on her with with a teen if possible or early twenties girl.

Again if wealth brought suitors a popular blogger in Nigeria may have been married by now. It is youth and fertility that attracts the boys.

sapiosexual1:
Op talk true, if them borrow you babes like Omotola, Kate Henshaw or Beyonce, Shey you go reason their age?
Bottom line : How you take care of urself when ur young determines how you look when u grow old

those women use a lot of make up.... they are in reality not very desirable.

over 21 is too old if i were a Christian that has kept myself. Why should a religious guy get someone who was used by various boyfriends without any responsibility yet im now going to marry them with all the responsibility anf risks?

if i was a player that has had my fair share of women old and young then any age is good even 35.

if d girl is young and hot i can spend a bit. but even today old babes still dey demand cash like they still in their prime!

- In my experience the really religious ones believe that because the Creator is with them they are free to do as they please.
- Lots of single mums- is it after they could not keep their homes together aftet embodying feminist/ independent mentality that they now want to come and play church.
- Lots of church girls are STRONG feminists that hide behind bible verses....
- Many of them have been used up previously before entering church.

Whatever a girl has, another girl has it even better. if na curves theres another better curved girl. if na church theres always a more Christian babe.

so why should i be chasing girls up and down. i ask you out and if no good response the second or third time then on to the next.

What are the pros and cons?

GoodBoi1:
So you believe and accept that you will forever be behind/under the white man? In a world where Obama is the President of USA, women are more than housewives, and even gays are beginning to have rights. #ItIsWell

dont mind the idiots!

the only thing i would say is that in my experience the british and american ppl i have worked with have a stronger work ethic but this may be due to more commensurate pay.