You had sex, yay *clap for yourself*, Child.

Buy her a car, a house. I am sure she'll come easy, lol

gsitgg:

Never trust the BBC. It is no coincidence the scene with the girl who commited adultery with the main character's husband was sitting in church. The only church scene in the whole movie.

Anti-christian BBC never misses an opportunity to smear christianity.

Lmao @ Anti-christian, they brought christianity to your silly people. And the STORYLINE wasn't about christianity, if you want a religious movie then look for something else.

I don't know why SOME people are against the movie. Yeah there was a bit of over dramatization, but that was mainly the White womans role. BBC did a very fair and balanced job. Why must Nigerians complain about everything??  Nollywood needs to take lessons from this movie and start making inspirational movies instead the bunch of crap they usually do.

texazzpete:

Yeah. Just like the PSP could do what the DS could. Play games.

We all know how that battle ended.

This generation has a clear hardware winner: the Wii. The best Sony's fighting for is 2nd place.

Tell me about it, The PSP can't touch the ds, I don't use my psp anymore but constantly on my ds, It's called consistency, SONY is just hyping up their product, they can't touch the wii, Instead of wasting out time with "playstation move" give us better games. 

hasyak:

1. if she leaves can she take good care of the kids? you should not leave just because of your personal feeling, if kids are involve then you have to put them into consideration.
2. apart from cheating, does the husband fulfill his other obligations? if cheating is the only minus then is best you manage it, because 70% of men cheat, so the thinking that you will meet someone that dose not is less than 30%
3. are you sexually active? can you satisfy his urge?

these are some of the questions i will want my sis to consider before thinking of divorce

1) Divorce doesn't mean the FATHER will stop being a parent, ridiculous, even if she is financially stable and leaves her husband, he still has to take care of kids. The father didn't consider the children before he started messing with everything in a skirt, so why must it be the womans responsibility? I agree that women should be financially independent, but if she's not it's not an excuse to spend the rest of her life with a man who treats her like crap.

2) You’re kidding right? Because he fulfils his other obligations she should remain with him Do you know how cheating emotionally cripples a woman?? One time is horrible, but we are talking about a serial cheater here, then there is a chance of him having kids with his other women. I think i’d take the chance of searching for my 30%. Because if it was a woman sleeping with tons of men you’d be saying something different.

3) If his wife isn’t satisfying his urge he should discuss it with her instead of jumping in bed with the next woman. Men think they are the only one’s that don’t get satisfied meanwhile 90% of the time the woman has to fake it just to please the guy.lol

Times are changing, gone are the years where women would sit back at take all the emotional abuse guys have to offer, instead of making excuses step your game up.

Kgdavid:

what you are saying here is different from the what the subject matter is and what your previous position was. its one thing for both sides to show appreciation but to suggest that men owe it to women to say thank you is nothing short of ludicrous. meaning what?

Where in my previous post did I say the man MUST thank the woman for sex?? I said if you let her know it's good she'll work hard to keep it up. Every human loves their ego stroked once in a while. I don't see a problem with it, there are a million ways to say thank you.

Kgdavid:

u love praise and so feckin what? is it our job to give you the silly praises you cannot live without? if a lady cooks a meal for you, by all means thank her but if you cook a meal together and then eat it together(assuming you both put equal amounts of input) what would you be thanking her for? at best you could say "honey that was a great meal" implying that you enjoyed doing something with her. mann the feck up! its not everything a woman wants that you give to her.

OOOOH, someone is getting touchy.   . There is nothing wrong with showing appreciation from your partner(if you're an adult). This doesn't just apply to men, women do it too. Throwing a tantrum over a little "thank you". If she hasn't shown gratitude for your sex, Maybe you're not doing a good job.

@Cockyzy, I disagree, each argument that would have been avoided if you were face 2 face is more intense. Let's not deceive the girls by saying it's a bed of roses because it's NOT. A storm will definitely come.

Silly men, Women love PRAISE!! If you let her know the s*x was good, you'll gain more from it because she'll do her best to maintain that standard. If any of you think "it's just penetration" that does the job for a woman, then I feel sorry for ya'll, because SHE'S BEEN FAKING IT.LOL. Kids today.

LoL, Dezzy, I thought you're in a "long distance" relationship with a nigerian man??

IS IT WRONG FOR A 18 YEAR OLD GIRL TO MARRY A 55 YEAR OLD MAN

Whatever, if its a woman it's suddenly "charm". Get over it.

Be warned: If you are getting involved in a long distance relationship you have to be UBER STRONG, be prepared to scream, shout and want to buy a ticket just to slap the hell out of you BF, LoL. It's tough, if you go 2months without arguments or something crazy happening, start getting suspicious. I am not joking. There is nothing like a "peaceful" long distance relationship. The stress of not seeing your loved one can drive you crazy. But don't lose hope, I did long distance for 2years then moved back home, we've been together for 6years now. So although the two years were crazy, it was definitely worth the wait. Just be careful and be prepared, it's not a piece of cake.

Dezzy, 5 YEARS IS LIKE 50years in long distance, you better ask your bloke to find his way to australia or meet half way. 5years without seeing your partner? That's a tough one.

LoL, Well, my brother-in-law will be homeless if he tries that rubbish on me. If a man can't trust his brother/wife around each other then he shouldn't marry the woman. The brother may be a dog, but the man should trust his wife to treat the dog like a puppy,heheh. Or maybe the Poster is just a pervert and can't help imagining the brother and wife having sex,

Both husband and wife decide on how many kids they want. Ask her the reason why she doesn't want to have more, and how old are the kids you currently have? If she is not interested in having kids now, calm down and stop forcing the topic on her, you are blessed with two kids focus on them for now. And I agree with Kevoh, if protection is the problem go to family planning, I am sure they will be able to help you with that problem .

LoL, I don't care. People make a fuss over NOTHING,

Manty:

I am working and my wife too is working, though her pay is higher than mine. She suggested we should both operate a joint account with the name of the two of us. I told her i dont buy the ideal because am scared of her misusing the money and as a man i should have my own private account in case of uncertainties, but she refused that it must be a joint account. Pls i want you people to advice me on what to do because i dont want any thing that will cause problem between the two of us

There should be a joint account which should be for the "family", while your individial accounts can be for your personal spending, there is nothing wrong with a joint account, infact I am sure you can manage the money better if both of you knows what goes in and comes out. I find it surprising that you are saying she will misuse your money, seem to have trust issues. And since she earns more than you, I doubt she wants to spend all your money when she has hers. She is your wife not a stranger off the street, you are going to spend the rest of your life with her and share everything with her, what's wrong with sharing an account with her?

Serial Cheat That slowpoke is out of the door. We don't need to be married to be successful parents and he should have thought about the "family" before he started jumping from one skirt to another. And PLEASE women a bit of independence won't hurt, nothing irritates me more than a woman saying "I can't leave him because I don't have the funds" or "He takes care of me". If you have 10hours free everyday, instead of sitting at home watching tv, get a job.

LMAO, This is funny, but NO the mother has no right to take her daughter out of her husbands house, UNLESS it's harming the child. Sorry, if she is harming herself because of his cheating or he is beating her, i'd rather have an alive divorced child than a dead married one. And NO mother can DRAG her daughter out of her husbands house, ever consider that the daughter was fed up and wanted to leave

magentam:

Women are always blamed. No body cares to know the mental trauma that woman must have suffered from the husband's hands. Some men are so selfish. May his soul rest in peace. I don't which him that kind of death but anybody care to listen to the woman's side of the story?

I agree, I don't condone what she did, but for the woman to lose it and pour acid on him, I can't imagine the emotional trauma he must have put her through. It takes years of abuse for someone to lose it, women are not puppets, if you want to play around with different women, don't get married.

My parents are an interracial couple, I find no problem with it( or i'd hate myself). If the couples are in love why should they care what race their partner is? Women love to complicate stuff, if I spent time worrying about if I should date WHITE OR BLACK, i'd probably spend the rest of my life single, follow your heart not your eyes, if someone else is dating out of your race, why should YOU care? It's their choice, I understand where Jill is coming from, but life is like that. I think we should be celebrating marriage and responsible parents, i'd rather see an interracial marriage that has both parents active in the childs life than Single mothers.

And the wii remote beats it in Looks, LOL.

LMAO @ people saying the Wii is dead because sony releases a new toy, are you kidding me Lets compare the HUGE list of games the Wii has to offer compared to Sony, just because you don't like it doesn't mean others don't. Sony motion isn't touching the wii, LoL, It's not even going to DENT IT.

LMAO, Only in NIGERIA, So much imagination, So the man was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SPECIAL THAT OUT OF 2000 PEOPLE ONLY 3 SURVIVED?? So there were no other christians there? Serious BULLSHIT!

People act like Pastors are not MEN!!! Give someone so much power and he/she will start to believe it's their right to do stupid shit like this. Would she normally go to any mans house and spend the night *rolls eyes*.

LMAO, The wife is a slowpoke!!! Her husband took his share and ran out of the country, the idiot was still here spending all the money, now she is paying for it.

spoilt:

Do you only get justice in nigeria if your Father is 'someone'?

Honestly, there must always be a title to receive justice, what about other girls that get abused by the police.

frosbel:

I DO NOT concur with you Igbo boy, I personally know some Somalians here in the UK and do not think they are all mixed.

It is an insult to presume that Africans cannot look good except they are mixed with AraB blood.

No one mentioned good looks,

Ok, where's the evidence that you're not mixed?

Why does everyone keep saying Health Care is free? Health care in Germany is NOT FREE, and the quality is excellent. Yeah some will not earn as much as the others but are you trying to say that ALL NURSES in America are earning 6figures?? Come on.