i was in a relationship for 3 years, which came to an end abruptly. i must confess i was very devastated and heart broken. A month after the heart break i met another guy. We started out as friends, nothing serious but it was a distance relationship. it felt like a relief for me after the break up, one thing led to another and 4 months after, he proposed to me and we decided to get married. Now am married to this man, but all along i knew we dnt quite match well but i felt he was quite ok. Am 5months into this marriage and i can tell you am very unhappy and the guy doesn't seem to make it easy for me. we have very different views, while dating i used to enjoy having conversations with him, now the conversations are mere arguments. He aint even as nice as he proved to be while we'd met. I have been thinking and trying to analyze what the problem is cos we fight almost everyday on issues that i must confess aint worth the trouble. My husband doesn't even confide in me, nor involve me in his decisions, i only get to hear about them weeks after.
Which is why i came to the realization that i think i married my rebound guy ( dnt realize he was my rebound guy till now ). I want to be happy, i need to be happy.
WHAT CAN I DO?!!!

]Is Marriage the answer for everyone?
How do you handle yourself and your spouse in marriage specially when you do not speak the same language?