Lucremoy:
to the person who talked about ik's trouser, i can't see anything wrong with it.

lots of room like a ballon around his waist and hips. very poor fit. take a close look at it

Sleekyshuga:
... You gat eyes!

bebe4u:
That Ik's trousers... hmmmn

After all these years he still hasnt gotten it right... with his wardrope

That Ik's trousers... hmmmn

[quote author=Reincarnated]

my solution is quite simple. For Romantic writers, I kid you not when I say any John Legend song will get you quite motivated, most especially this one. You just have to listen to the words...they're powerful.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7IUYZV4ijt8[/quote

It's a really beautiful song for hopeless romantics like me. Thanks for sharing thou I wasn't the original recipient.

Melvin don commit oh

Beverly evicted

ItsModella:
Life of the party
Big dreams.

Thanks @ its Modella

Please who knows the title album or singles to cleo's song played during the party last night.

Elikem DS sooooo boring

I just love our girl. She reveal her save n swap with dispatch. No beating about the bush laced with some political tines *my friend Dillish* she smart oh

The said time is here

Ok. Dellish voiced out her strategy agreed ,that was dumb of her at this stage of the game. But my personal analysis from what is reported she said doesn't warrant all the attack on her after all she never said emphatically she is using Melvin for votes. It's reported she said at this point ekikem is more popular and remaining housemate want Nigeria out. How many of us will reject a free ride n opt to trek in the wilderness? God knows the answer in our hearts.
Afterall biggie never gave a rule against such strategy.

Ok. Dellish voiced out her strategy agreed ,that was dumb of her at this stage of the game. But my personal analysis from what is reported she said doesn't warrant all the attack on her after all she never said emphatically she is using Melvin for votes. It's reported she said at this point ekikem is more popular and remaining housemate want Nigeria out. How many of us will reject a free ride n opt to trek in the wilderness? God knows the answer in our hearts.
Afterall biggie never gave a rule against such strategy.

Hmmn. IK is no longer with the result that was presented earlier....whatever as long as dillish and maria is safe.

Ik waist coat looks like an apron

seems to me its one make up artist for all the ladies... too much colour on the cheeks

;Dnaija housemate with zulu ;Dnaija housemate with zulu

na her strategy be that ...

torhuke: See botswana rep.. She wan do wedding?

Here we go

@TWY thank you for your advice. I am not hung up on money. the basic things/ comforts / luxury i can provide for myself. i only used the salon money to typify a situation of his perceptible lack of giving. While we were friends yes, it wasnt a bother to me, we have moved to a different phase he should see some of my needs as his. its the thoughts behind that im bothered about.not necessary the amount he has to offer. It's long term situation of taking care of myself , my kids and home all by myself while he sees nothing wrong in championing that just because i can afford it that im concern about.

Whew !!!! going through 10 pages of response. i under estimated the nairaland group.

i have gone through 70% of all the post in response of my to be or not to be as i would simply call it at this moment with my original post contents, although a lot here made effort to mis represent my views or best stir the discussion in a different direction.
i'm grateful to all. Like in most opinion poll where you rightly choose what you digest , i have gained an immersed wealth of information and will use it to my benefit in concluding this matter alone as several posters has identified that its my cross to bear no matter which way i sway to.
For those that resulted to calling me names which has done absolutely nothing in changing who i am. I just asked for fair and honest opinion irrespective of how absurd and vain it may come across to the audience as some have potrayed tons of holier than thou attributes. if nothing it gives me peace to have the courage of sharing my inner feeling even thou with a virtual crowd.

The single most important thing i have taken out of this , is poor comunication as one poster sighted . That im going to address by engaging him on on a real heart to heart discussion and tell him honestly how i feel about him and towards him. on why i had the guts to say yes when he proposed, i guess it was a flush of emotions. Thanks to the poster that mention its better to have a thousand broken relationship than one broken marriage. Cheers People.

@ tiniyata, you didnt have to call me names, i didnt steal anthing of yours. if you dont like my post. *just jump am pass*

@ andromina. yes im marrying him alomost out of fear and i havent discussed this behaviour of his with him. i plan to do that.

@ sisikill and still water, i used salon money as the least cash assistance he can offer in terms of suporting me and im not talking salon money for brazilian weavon or anything of that range. im reffering to wash and set of at most 2k. not that i cant afford it, its a gesture of the fact that i am someone he should be responsible for as a wife to be.My point of concern is him not being responsive to my needs and translating that to not providing house keeping money just because im working and can afford it.

@chaircover and begs101 three years together was spent just as platonic friends. hence we never spent that time trying to buid sexual compatibility.

@ others ... thanks for your candid responses. i appreciate.

My virtual friends, i am posting this because i ant to share the burden i have in my life right now and i seek for honest answer and advice in which ever way. please keep it polite anyone could be in a similar situation and we could all learn from it at the end of the day.

I am 30years of age female working in the oil & gas sector and very comfortable financially. How ever i have been in a platonic relationship with a guy who is currently working in a bank but i am better off financially. He never hid his intention that he loves me and would want to take things to the next level but i have always maintain my stand of us not rushing things while trying to sort out my real feelings for him. He asked me to marry him recently and i accepted. The burden i have in my heart now is 1- I am not in love with him and also not sexually attracted to him. By that i mean im not crazily in love but i like him as a friend. 2- I have concerns about our financial obligation in the sense that i fear he might not provide for me the way a husband should for is wife. i am a traditional person where i believe a man should always provide for his wife no matter how small, im willing to support him but through the three years we have been friends he hasnt provided in the least of money for my salon session. i feel he is just taking advantage of the fact that i can afford it, so i feel differently. He currently lives with his family and younger brother. i talked to him one day and said he should get a house of his own but till date he hasnt and havent made any real effort at that yet he talks about facilitating meeting my parents et al. Question is what are the pros and cons of going ahead to marry this young man or should i just call it off as i have been tempted to several times. BTW he is 35yrs of age, has been working in the bank for 6 yrs as an employee. As we all know the presure young ladies face in the society about being single by 30years. Please respond with your candid advice. i will appreciate while i keep praying as most of you will end up saying to me. Thank you.

What if the gold digger is a man. How do you handle the situation

is this the official thread for BBA 7?

Abeg which one is the official BBA thread ?? Send me a link

HE NEVER ASKED FOR 50K AND HE SAID HE WOULD PREFER CASH GIFTS FOR HIS BIRTHDAY,  IF ALL MEMBERS OF REDEEMED CHURCH IN NIGERIA DECIDE TO BUY A GIFT FOR HIM AND SEND TO THEIR PARISH, HOW WILL THOSE GIFTS BE TRANSFERRED TO LAGOS?


WHAT WILL HE USE ALL THE GIFTS( SPOON, PLATES, TV, DVD, BIBLE, SHIRT, TROUSER, CARS, ETC) WILL HE OPEN A SHOPPING MALL WITH IT? THATS WHY HE SAID HE WANTED CASH TO COMPLETE THE UNIVERSITY .

I laugh at in annang language ,
How ignorant of you to make such a comment. He can transport the gift via ABC, CHISCO, his private jet , lorry, truck, ship whatever. .damn how do people get goods from allover the country to different places huh SMH

He can give out the spoons, plates, TV, DVD, Bible, trouser, cars, etc to other people in his church who are in dire need of these items. please lets stop kidding ourselves, one university too many in this country yet we are churning out half baked graduates. Why didn't he propose to use the money to assist the Christians that have been displaced in Borno and Kano because of boko haram nonsense. I'm sure people will be more than willing to donate 50k .Yet we we will come here to condemn sanusi that reach out to his Muslim folks in the bomb stricken Kano state.

So sad, but people forget so fast the rule of the thumb, if he beats you once, no matter the apology, he will certainly beat you over and over again. even if he hasn't beaten you before, there are still violet signs everyone in a relation should watch out for, this things dont just pop out from the blues in such a dimension.

I have a very good friend who the boyfriend has been beating if she dare spend more than a minute talking to a male stranger. when i confronted her of the danger, she told me he apologizes and never meant to beat her, only that he lost control at that time. They are engaged to be married now. i pray for her everyday as i dont have the guts to tell her to back off.

i watched those clowns in the house jabbed away.  if its not binding on the president as someone pointed out, its as good as dead after two fuel tankers have been delivered to their houses as a bribe by the presidency.

@Osuide4 kindly add me
. 21D50BBF.thanks

"I don't do short men" by Weza, same was said by Elizabeth of Tanzania, but then we all know what went down when our homeboy Kevin won the moola.


I wonder why girls wont just keep shut when they know they can resist all.