It means different things to different people though, but to me its "A New Beginning for My Destiny"

My dearest Mother-In-law was buried on the 08/08/08

, Mama may Ur soul rest in peace,we love you dearly but God loves you most,

Hello fellow nairalanders,

I have a friend who is from the middle belt but she is getting married to an urhobo man from delta state and as you all know our norms and cultures are totally different.

pls she needs your supportive and candid advice on how to go about it, ranging from the courtship,traditional marriage and all she needs to put up with the urhobo tradition.

thanks

There is nothing you can do about it,your father has never complained so who are you to complain.

its either you learn how to cook and do the cooking while you are on hols or live with it.

Hi Spermdrops

I appreciate your intelligent contribution. The man is not aware of his wife's attitude and grandma has refuse to tell him for fear of breaking up the marriage.Just recently mama made an attempt to get her son to know of Wat's been happening but the son only pleaded and ask mama to bear everything for his sake,but ,mama is feeeeeeeeeed up.

NoteThe wife and 3 kids are staying in mama's house)

even when u dnt understand god's silence or his answers,just hold on!!! your present circumstance will work out for your great good.god is busy planning your next testimony!

Dear nairalanders,
What do you have to say in a situation where a wife and 3 kids have to stay with her mother in-law Co's the husband is far away in Texas (USA) looking for greener pasture. The mother in-law does all the necessary things a mother is expected to do for her children.
The wife is a career woman and she is so much into her job,doesn't care about the welfare of the children,comes home late,cannot even cook a descent meal even if she is home,as soon as she gets home the next thing she does is to watch movies,cannot even take care of herself,sleeps with her clothes on just the way she came back from work.The most annoying part is that she doesn't contribute a dime to the upkeep of the house and she is not friendly with her in-laws and when grandma tries to complains she yells at her, pls advice this loving mother in-law,she is really tired of everything.

The main focus here should be the MARRIAGE(which is made up of just the two of you) and not organizing big society weddings which will only last for few hours.

Your CONCERN should be the journey ahead for the two of you and not to please the entire world or trying to make a name.

That is why we have so many broken marriages 2day

Please note:WEDDING IS JUST AN INITIATION INTO MARRIAGE.

There's no point over flogging this issue,if she is good enough to grace your brother's bed she should be good enough for a wife and a mother.They should have the baby and continue the "matrimony" journey.

Give them all the positive support you can , they need you.

good luck

Proverbs 31:10-end All you need is in there

My dear its in the nature of women to keep talking and men to do the listening, sometimes just compromise so that they can be peace.

you just have to live with it, its not enough reason for mischieve just try and understand her.

My family and i are almost breaking up Co's of my wife's attitude,they have stopped coming to my house and my wife is showing no concern about it,am loosing my mind Please my dear nairaland members, Wat do i do?

My guy i feel for you sha o,just pray she doesnt get pregnant sha, cos if it works out, i will supply the pampers for the first 2 months.

Happy fatherhood

mm mm , Marriage is a life time commitment. You have to sit her down and talk to her about her current attitude.Your parents "might" be right but you still have to pray and seek God's face. If you are destined to be it will work out.
Don't go into marriage with the intention of changing your spouse,you will be making a mistake, Do your assignment be for getting into marriage.

Most importantly seek God's face,