Anyways OP goodluck. First year of marriage everyone wants attention...3 years down the line, we start checking for pocket size. Dont worry...your time will come, mbok.

My honest advise to you is; if you want attention, return all that he has given you to him and collect no more only then will he take you seriously. But as long as you keep rubbing vaseline on his bald head and he still greases your palm with a bundle of 1000 naira notes, he aint gonna take you seriously cos he is going to think that you love money more than attention.

Your relationship is all about the benjamins

coogar:


don't blame yourself na.
we are here to help you.



there's a car shop in nigeria - attention is their currency. just pack attention in a suitcase & fiaaaaaaaam - you can get any car of your choice.

do you need their addy?

Lol coogar leave me.

She said he gives her everything she asks for. All that he spoils her with comes from the same business she is bitching about.

Since she wants attention she needs to stop asking for and/or collecting handouts and focus squarely on attention.

abeautifulchick:

You are really sounding immature now.This is my boyfriend,my best friend,my confidant,we share everything together,he knows my needs even before i ask and he always fix it and i offer my best support when he is in need also.most men especially rich ones feel insecure when their working class girlfriends dont ask for anything,he even bought me a car when i dint ask for it and its only natural that i acknowledge it and appreciate him.IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT TRULLY LOVES AND APPRECIATE YOU,YOU WILL UNDERSTAND.I only came online because i needed advice and not to insult or be insulted by anybody.PLS BE GUILDED.If you check my handle ,you will see that i have always been an inactive nairalander.Thanks.

He bought you a car and you accepted the car? Why did you accept the gift? You should have returned the car and asked for attention instead.

Awon selective collectors

@OP

Do you work? Do you have a job?

Do you read mills and boon or historical romance novel?

Sirshymex and ilekere

Abeg. Link to the database biko

coogar:

Protect your mouth from flies there are Ebola flies out there looking for who to devour

Ilekere:


I won't sit here and give you what Nigeria took away from you. Education is your right, it's not a privilege.

Anyone else want to educate this man, go for it.

ROTFLMAO

Holy bleeping cow. Haba ilekere...are you a doctor ni? See as you just dissected onoja in one second. Tamper justice with mercy

coogar:


i musta missed it.

Fstranger a.k.a papatosibe it is

Sagamite:


Every foool would make outrageous claims online. 

One (fstranger) told us he was studying Medicine at Princeton, only for people to highlight that Princeton does not offer Medicine.

coogar:


i cannot remember this story.....when was this?

Ehn Coogar you missed this story? I think last year or the year before...sagamite might remember. The Princeton dude has been AWOL since then or prolly has another ID. I can't remember his ID.

Ilekere:


lmaooo

Omo, I was looking at NL political section and one expose page. The same people that claimed educated, rich, and classy looks hungry, tired and pathetic. TBH, many on this NL are uneducated and miserable.

That thread was SHOCKING!

Don't believe everything you read on Nairaland. One guy once claimed he was studying medicine in one of the Ivy League uni in the US. See people respecting and saluting him on every thread he visited only for us to find out that the school he claimed to be a student of, was not offering medicine as a course. I think it's Princeton...can't remember now.

Coogar help me out here, who is that guy sef?

What attracted temmy to this man sef ehn? I just saw his pictures on the first page and all I could see was a picture of a man who obviously has spent all his life savings on TURA cream as evident on his facial skin.

Bleaching cow

Ilekere:


Where does NL find these uneducated lots?

I honestly wish I could answer your question. I honestly wish I could...Seun is to blame for all this. If only he insisted on people uploading a picture of them holding their degree certificates online with their drivers license or national ID card or passport, before they could become a member, some of us will not be subjected to sharing a thread with the person you quoted.

onoja12:
i believe that was the assignment i gave you

No. Only people who have seen the four walls of a university have the right to assign me to look things up. You unfortunately do not have that right. To acquire such right, you need to bag a bachelor's degree in something even if it is in Palm oil and vegetable...just something and then only then can you....hurry up Cos I might change the rules and ask for post grads instead.

You are a troll abeg go and sit down let us see road.

coogar:


you are a consummate retärd!
and with the quality of utterances dropping out of your arsë.....you were likely raised from a polyandrous marriage - by the look of things, you probably have 8 daddies all shacking up with you in a small apartment.

we have to literally educate you that a crime has been committed & you won't keep your trap shut with your irresponsible firewood background. if you have any iota of decorum, you should log out & find somewhere to wail.....you are a waste of sëmen.

Buuahahahahahahahahahahaha I was wondering why it took you this long to unleash some of your venom on her. You are a very patient man Coogar and I must commend you on that

onoja12:
dont get it twisted does are not way of life,and secondly for the record wearing cloths and technology including education started right here in Africa,go and read history

Go on google...read history come back and share your knowledge with us

onoja12:
this matter would keep going round in circles,which doesn't help the matter,the solution is not ownership but well been of the child,the child needs the father and mother,if the girl claims she loves the child as she is claiming,she would be more than willing to mend the fence for the well being of the child,but rather what i see here is someone fighting for ownership,i keep advising black women,western way of life doesn't work for us,it may work for them but it doesn't work for us,and if you check the black women abuse the western way of life at an alarming rate even the white women don't do this things

The western way of life doesn't work for us so...tell me why are you wearing clothes? What are you not walking around naked covered in plantain leaves? Why did you attend primary/secondary school....I will hold off on university.

What are you browsing Nairaland with? A phone? A laptop? A tablet? You bought any of the above or all of the above made by the people in the west and you are spewing thrash? Throw them all away and then come back and preach this nonsense to me. I will be all ears then...

You are not making sense and if only there was a shop where people can purchase sense for x amount of dollars, trust me...I would have invested my dollars in you a long time ago.

onoja12:
did the mother ask the child father

Ask him what?

onoja12:
so she claims,even at that for the fact she decided to keep it doesnt stop it from been the boys seed

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It...okay the child is a IT. So being a seed of his gave his mother the right to take her child away without asking the mother?

onoja12:
well said,now please help me ask the girl if she had the consent of the father before she went to hide the child in uk?if am to go by what you said the girl should be arrested first for kidnapping her own child

Are we reading the same story or what? Didn't they tell her to terminate the pregnancy?

What a woman. What is the child's mother doing about this legally? This is kidnapping

Mondisweets:
in the US its irregardless of the status of the parent and in the UK the status of the parent is taken into account. Im assuming this child was given birth to by a woman who was legally residing in UK at that time of birth.

Parent Legally residing in Britain at time of birth does not automatically give a child citizenship. A student on a student visa or temporary skilled workers working in Britain are all legally residing in the UK. If anyone from the above category(amongst others) has a child in the UK the child goes under their parents visa status-they do not become automatic citizens like in the U.S. or Canada.

For your child to be a British citizen by birth automatically, one of the child's parents must be a permanent resident or citizen

Bia who banned jennykadry? Do you know how many times I tried to remember the password for this ID I created all thanks to your spambot bans?

@osisi
One reason why hubby insists on everybody sleeping in their own room/cot because he cannot fit shout. Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night to do small kpekusing and while you are busy chopping from left right centre your child wakes up at night with "fear and trembling" visible on his face begging "mummy daddy what are you doing? you will break the bed"

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LMAO@ the word downlow. Is that what you have been doing on sagamite, dayo? whilst at the same time prophesing your undying love for armyofone on this forum?

Sagamite:

I will beat the fck out of his life if he resists me giving him times 2 of the slaps he gave her!

Never again will he be that senseless.

I don't ever touch my wife, you will come and touch my wife and you expect me to be civilised?

He was restrained they said. I can imagine someone trying to restrain saga and saga breaking loose

Even as a woman if someone insults my husband I am willing to break bottle on their head not to talk of a man whose wife was slapped just because she disciplined a little girl for the first time ever.

Which kain yeye "let's tackle this wisely", what is there to tackle. Even I will beat my elder sister up if she disrespects my husband how much more a man for his wife?

We Nigerians reply with sentiments on this forum. When concerns us, we remember culture but when it doesn't we move right ahead.

I remember a thread where one guy talked about how nasty his SIL was to him when he visited her un announced, everyone was screaming blue murder on that thread ....."courtesy demands this and Courtsey demands that."...he should have informed her before coming how rude but BUSYBODY and one DAILYGUY's comments humbled me, they asked if we were so in a hurry to forget about where we are came from?, have we become so westernized that our traditional values have been swept under the carpet?" when did people start announcing their visits before time? What happened in those days when we had no form of communication? If BIL informed his brother isn't it enough already?

these same people talking about how nigerians need to change their cultural views or how our traditional values are fckud up, supported these nairalanders comments indirectly. Is it not the same Nigerian values? Why do we only pick them when it suits our opinion at that point in time?

May God save us all including myself

PS, I'm mobile pardon errors

What are you scared of?

freecocoa:

Me gan sef no really understand what she said o,maybe if i read it like 5 times over i may get something out of it,but unfortunately i don't have that kind of time.

Just a line from me and I got all that lecture on ??....... Sorry scrap that. I need to go read it again for better understanding

safarigirl: You mustn't insult or degrade people just because they disagree with you. . This is why you got banned, before I know it, you'll be flinging words like 'bytch' and 'wh0re' my way. If you know something about Delta Ibo tradition that I don't, say so, if not, hold your peace. For those who think spanking is the only way to correct a child, it can go 2 ways, most kids get used to spanking, or you think most of those agberos in Mushin and Oshodi weren't disciplined? If you like, flog your kids with tree branches, kill them even, when the tree branches fail, cos as everyone knows, children are nothing but wild animals who can only be corrected by flogging.

What is this one saying? Freecoco, please translate.

Remove the blue shoes and just put a plain black pump on her and she us good to go. Even the red ones she's got on would be a better fit