Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

IamD18:
If only people will leave sex, cheating and money to focus on important things during courting, we won't have people in miserable marriages or high rate of divorce.

Anger management, personalities, addictions, abuse, level of mutual understanding, friendship, goals, genotype, differences, family background and histories are very very underrated in relationships these day.

Sex, money, birthday, hanging out, cruise, sexchat, cooking and gifts are the only things existing in 99.742% of relationships in Nigeria.

newace:
I have left her to do what she wants though its not what i want. But that'll be my last child with her.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Belial06:
You forgot to add
politicians / political strategy

They don't access social media directly but their aides and personal assistants do

They belong to APC or PDP

They promise heaven and Earth, they turn to religion and. Tribe to gather votes and supporters whenever an election is coming. They go. To their tribe and preach against other tribes and they go to other tribes and preach that they will. Ensure they get land and are accepted by their indigenes .

Examples Tinubu, Atiju, OBJ, Orji Kalu, Oshiomole, Ekweremadu, iBB, Dino melaya, Saraki, Fashola, Amaechi, Buhari, Goodluck Jonathan Wike etc

How to deal with rhem

They use divide and rule to keep you down so they are happy when they hear ibo abuse Yoruba , Yoruba abuse hausa and ibo , hausa abuse ibo and Yoruba

They even have paid agents impersonating other tribes on forums like nairaland to keep. Spreading hate amongst the tribes to make sure all of you do not unite because if you untie you can all. Come. Together and riot them remove them from office

If youths unite they can change nigerian from office and those rouged don't want that

Why is it tinubu and Orji do business ? Why is E-money so. Close like a son to tinubu? Yoruba and ibo?

Why is dangote God father is to Paul okoyes some of p-square? Why did dangote make an ibo woman head of finance of his group ? Hausa and yamiri? How come ?

Why do the rich not care about tribe when they are all. Stealing together?

But yet when it's election time. They come. To the poor and preach ma fun awon okoro chance o, don't trust ibo don't trust Yoruba don't trust hausa? Yet they are best friends and do business together?

The poor in Nigeria are the tools or the rich irrespective of your tribe ! They use you when it matters and ensure they keep. You poor so you don't think for yourself only. With emotions

Go to the north and see how the alhajis and big bellied ibo men do business and party together.. go to the market where the poor reside and see how the hungry yaro and ibo hawker hate each other

The rich are best of friends and don't care about religion or tribe only during elections

Hoodbilonia:
Omo dah smoke go last me last last 3months
Fuc. Buh she dull. She for put phone for inside pekus na.
Hide smoke inside cartons on cigarette
Repackaged or hide them inside milo tin.
Down down.use paper tape seperate the milo from kush
Simple.but e go be very big milo container. So even if dem burst am open chuck knife. Dem go see say na milo .buh for the base. The real shiit is thr

iTearHerToto:
You are just a weak and shallow minded fella allowing an ungrateful, misled, unapologetic, useless, Worthless, brainless, discombobulated, unfortunate, blood sucking, spastic, disrespectful DiickMonger to affect your precious life. Why








Nonsense and APC

Trizzi:
Nigerians celebrities, Tiwa Savage and Toyin Abraham show off their PVC at their polling unit in Lagos.

Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2019/02/tiwa-savage-toyin-abraham-show-off.html

madridguy:
Hypocrite, you mean under PDP everyone is painful employed? If yes, what led to Abba Moro job recruitment scam that over 20 people lost their lives?

dyadeleye:
This guy is possessed
You will deny your family because of a lady?

The force is strong in this one

Annie939:
it's not a bad luck it is a challenge , don't worry things will soon get better sweetie....

buffalowings:



By now with all the exposure nl has given you since you became a member,
You're still not aware that healing for him doesn't require more than a timely medical intervention by your fellow human being.

munex007:

There are three types of people, those who have failed to master society’s formula for success, those who successfully replicated (copied) this formula, and then there are the trend setters, the innovators. These are the people that have taken the formula of the generation, learnt from it and improved on it. 

The old formula was to study hard, get good grades and a degree, get a good job, work hard and earn your promotion to top management. These days, with everyone studying hard and getting good grades, and higher degrees, people have to find a new means to be exceptional. Some are spending decades and countless Naira pursuing post-post-post doctorate degrees. They spend most of their life preparing for life!. 

The workforce has changed too; nepotism, tribalism and other forms of preferential treatments are more prevalent and this makes promotion next to impossible for many people. Companies are also promoting people without the pay to match the name, so you find professionals or Ph.D. holders with fancy job titles struggling to pay basic bills...A lot of companies are owing their employees months salary..The ones being paid have nothing to show after deducing their monthly expenses

The joy of every graduate is to get job within a short period of time after university education, but with this list i don't think there is any joy in graduating from Nigeria Universities, except if you have a job waiting for you, or you graduate from Nigeria Defense Academy(NDA) that have
automatic job.

Wait, let even do a rough calculation of 1000
graduates from each university, that means we will be having at least 116000 graduates from the Nigeria university system alone, apart from Polytechnic graduates and college graduates, and even other Nigeria graduates from different foreign institutions around the world.


Furthermore, with less than 50000 recruitment every year in the labour force, that is not even enough for the 1/3 of university graduates alone. The police force 10000 recruitment, which is the highest recruitment this year received about a million applicant. If police can receive a
million applicant it shows how desperate graduates are.


I think the problem lies in our comatose education system..The system focus on profiting from boring niches, So many people today think that if they want to become a millionaire, then they need to do so by following boring, widely accepted niches. It will take ages for you to become a millionaire through traditional occupations like becoming a lawyer, doctor or banker (in fact, these occupations usually have earnings limits that are very difficult to break through).

Push past these pre-conceived notions of what it takes in order to become a millionaire. You don’t need to spend years in school to be a millionaire.


The Nigerian economy today is in a tailspin. What used to work has simply stopped working. The economic rules have changed but we seem to be playing by the old rules of the game. Crude isn’t our biggest resource as a nation and even if diamond strewn the entire landscape of Nigeria, it still will not be our most valued resource. Our most valuable resource is our mind.


It is time to defy the odds. To refuse to accept the status quo. To think differently and be different. To decipher abundant opportunities even in immense potential in such a great nation as ours. It is about lifelong learning. It is about building formidable network..

Considering the high level of expectancy ratio of we Nigerians especially students. Blue collar jobs are what we all popularly call Entrepreneurship while the white collar jobs are the opposite,obviously the relationship that exist between them categorically is just one being the giver while the other the receiver or taker. The problem I have detected so far is our life style,Lack of motivational forces to propel us to want to leave where we are today to the promise of better tomorrow, No body wanting to starve his/herself today for a better consumption tomorrow,The fear to do something new,procrastination, bluffs ,students going after attraction neglecting the aftermath of Their action to be distraction and finally rejection.E.t.c let us always live to remember that we’all wil get a Fraction of any sort of friction we cause ourselves or others. Start something today no matter how small it is,Save money so that you can save yourself your Tomorrow, Don’t wait for the government to provide jobs and the fundamental human needs cos you are the govt of your destiny

Think deep, think wealth, Stop thinking jobs
Your word just changed my mind set God bless you plenty

Think Entreprenuership

NwamaziNwaAro:
Marriage no be by force..

These days women marry unmarriageable men out of self-pressure and societal demand to get married or the quest for quick wealth...
After marriage;
They become punching bags
Or adulteresses; worse still, corpses.

RIP to the unfortunate woman.

The only happy thing in Nigerian marriages now are the pre-wedding pictures
I can bet these folks had amongst the best pre-wedding pictures.



By the way...what happened to his other ear?

Yosuregames:
jobless person. If u want ftc so bad just go to d new section and comment on new threads. No be by force to comment.