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Family / Re: When You Are Annoyed by Bukie(f): 4:51am On Dec 11, 2008
I think it's better u talk it over with him. Appreciate his apology but let him know you are still annoyed. Ask for time to get over your anger and like they say, time heals all wounds.

I used to b a saint wit my ex. Even wen annoyed, I'll beg him and pretend all was well. I didn't want to be a nag. Dat was a BIG mistake. From hindsight, I realise I should have expressed my feelings. Maybe just maybe,
Family / Re: Whats Your Pet Name For Your Spouse? by Bukie(f): 9:05pm On Dec 09, 2008
Sistawoman, wat does he call u?
Family / Re: Whats Your Pet Name For Your Spouse? by Bukie(f): 7:18pm On Dec 09, 2008
I call mine Samson and he calls me Ruth.Lol.
Family / Re: Mastubation by Bukie(f): 6:57pm On Dec 09, 2008
SimBrasil, can masturbation be too much? Wat r d downside especially for a man
Family / Mastubation by Bukie(f): 4:52pm On Dec 08, 2008
Is it a sin
Fashion / Re: Body Cream For A Dark Skinned Person. by Bukie(f): 7:20am On Dec 04, 2008
Jergens too is simply beautiful. Everybody compliments my darkskin.And u can get for wateva skin type.
Fashion / How Do I Deal With Stretch Marks by Bukie(f): 7:09am On Dec 04, 2008
I started dieting recently and I have strecth marks all ova.Apart from surgery, how else can I tackle this?
Romance / Re: Why are Men not Crazy about Tall Girls? by Bukie(f): 5:40am On Nov 26, 2008
My experience is quite different. I'm 5ft 8" and guys shorter dan me r my greatest admirers
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Im Married But I Need A Male Friend by Bukie(f): 12:03pm On Nov 24, 2008
My dear, I was in ur shoes. I tot u were telling my story. Ppl won't understand. It's difficult for them to understand dat u didn't really do anything wrong. It's difficult for them to understand that all u want is companionship not sex. I found a male friend. Funny, online. He fulfilled all my fantasies, companionship, advice even romance. Then he fell in love and started asking for more. That is wat will ultimately happen. If u get a male friend, he mite b undemanding initially but ultimately, he'll ask for sex. You mite have fallen in love too and u mite give in to him so as not to loose him.

Can u live wit the shame of adultery if caught? Can u live wit the moral burden, guilty conscience if uncaught? Honey, adultery is a loose loose situation.

Ur case is less complicated. No issue for him. Even if u have for him, pls don't believe d crap about sticking it out for the kids. My mum stuck it out for us and she died a violent death. I'm sure if she's left when it was soo rough I'll probably still have a mother. Even d bible supports you leaving him on grounds of adultery. If u r waiting on "marriage is for better or worse till death do us part" I'm sure it'll be sooner rather than later and believe it, it's going to be ur death (God forbid) that will part you.

Most of these NL are unmarried. So it's easy to sermonize. Let them come back 5 years into their marriage(hopefully to a man like him)and preach.

My dear, it is insane and unhealthy to be married and be seeking companionship outside. U have ur life don't throw it down d drain. Leave d idiot and start a new life. Dat is wat I did.
Events / Re: Born In September? Find Your Birthmates Here by Bukie(f): 9:04am On Nov 24, 2008
Hi Rasp. Do I have mates in d house? I'll love to link up wit them
Events / Re: Born In September? Find Your Birthmates Here by Bukie(f): 9:01am On Nov 24, 2008
Hieveryone. I just looooooove d month. Mine is 21st
Family / Re: What Made U Feel Good Today! by Bukie(f): 7:25pm On Nov 23, 2008
My honey telling me I'm d most important person in his life. I really felt loved
Family / Re: Bad Habits Of Your Spouse That You Can't Stand? by Bukie(f): 4:17am On Nov 08, 2008
I have mine too.It's tiring really.
Family / Re: Bad Habits Of Your Spouse That You Can't Stand? by Bukie(f): 6:33pm On Nov 07, 2008
Husband of 5 yrs
Family / Re: Bad Habits Of Your Spouse That You Can't Stand? by Bukie(f): 6:12pm On Nov 07, 2008
¤His nagging,anywhere everywhere, anytime everytime. Ppl ask how I cope with it.

¤His shouting at the top of his voice even wen u r not quarelling. He is so loud

¤His haggling. No matter how cheap, he still haggles.

¤His holier than thou attitude

¤Plus he is as romantic as a door post.Wen he wants sex, he just tells me "I want to f**k" and he expects me to hit d sack as if I'm a sex machine.
Family / Re: Advice Please! My Parents Reasons Arent Valid Opposing My Relationship! by Bukie(f): 5:37pm On Nov 07, 2008
Most times parents r rite.It's funny how dy do it but wen parents say no to a rship,90% of the time,events prove them rite. I'm talkg from experience. This time though their reasons seem not to be genuine.
My advise is 4 him to still come down,dy are Africans afterall they won't turn him away. Let them meet him close up.If they still insist then you have to decide whether you want him enough to have a little rough time wit ur parents.Be assured dat if dy see how adamant and steadfast you r, dy'll come round. Dat's y dy r parents
Romance / Re: Please Help Me Out by Bukie(f): 3:54am On Nov 07, 2008
Both of u r fooling urselves. D girl sure has another phone. Ur rship is built on lies of course it will crumble.
Family / Re: What Makes Your Mum The Best Mum In The World? by Bukie(f): 2:56am On Nov 07, 2008
She was ready to die in my place.
Family / Re: Who Is Your Next Of Kin? by Bukie(f): 2:52am On Nov 07, 2008
Your next of kin must be an adult preferably younger than you. It's best u make your spouse your N-O-K if u r married. Your kids if they r no longer minors,your younger siblings if you r single. It's wrong 2 make ur parents ur N-O-K since dy'll properly die before you. Babies shouldn't b made N-O-K, how will dy fill all relevant forms?
Family / Re: Help: I'm Married But In Love With Another Woman by Bukie(f): 8:56pm On Nov 06, 2008
Layi good talk.But it's easier said than done.Sweetheart,it's not to be easy leaving her but u just have 2. Let me assure you dat if u destroy ur marriage to be wit her, d same thing will happen again and u'll end up having strings of broken homes. If u resist now,u'll be strentened. God will help you.

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