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I think it's better u talk it over with him. Appreciate his apology but let him know you are still annoyed. Ask for time to get over your anger and like they say, time heals all wounds. I used to b a saint wit my ex. Even wen annoyed, I'll beg him and pretend all was well. I didn't want to be a nag. Dat was a BIG mistake. From hindsight, I realise I should have expressed my feelings. Maybe just maybe, |
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Sistawoman, wat does he call u? |
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I call mine Samson and he calls me Ruth.Lol. |
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SimBrasil, can masturbation be too much? Wat r d downside especially for a man |
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Is it a sin |
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Jergens too is simply beautiful. Everybody compliments my darkskin.And u can get for wateva skin type. |
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I started dieting recently and I have strecth marks all ova.Apart from surgery, how else can I tackle this? |
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My experience is quite different. I'm 5ft 8" and guys shorter dan me r my greatest admirers |
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My dear, I was in ur shoes. I tot u were telling my story. Ppl won't understand. It's difficult for them to understand dat u didn't really do anything wrong. It's difficult for them to understand that all u want is companionship not sex. I found a male friend. Funny, online. He fulfilled all my fantasies, companionship, advice even romance. Then he fell in love and started asking for more. That is wat will ultimately happen. If u get a male friend, he mite b undemanding initially but ultimately, he'll ask for sex. You mite have fallen in love too and u mite give in to him so as not to loose him. Can u live wit the shame of adultery if caught? Can u live wit the moral burden, guilty conscience if uncaught? Honey, adultery is a loose loose situation. Ur case is less complicated. No issue for him. Even if u have for him, pls don't believe d crap about sticking it out for the kids. My mum stuck it out for us and she died a violent death. I'm sure if she's left when it was soo rough I'll probably still have a mother. Even d bible supports you leaving him on grounds of adultery. If u r waiting on "marriage is for better or worse till death do us part" I'm sure it'll be sooner rather than later and believe it, it's going to be ur death (God forbid) that will part you. Most of these NL are unmarried. So it's easy to sermonize. Let them come back 5 years into their marriage(hopefully to a man like him)and preach. My dear, it is insane and unhealthy to be married and be seeking companionship outside. U have ur life don't throw it down d drain. Leave d idiot and start a new life. Dat is wat I did. |
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Hi Rasp. Do I have mates in d house? I'll love to link up wit them |
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Hieveryone. I just looooooove d month. Mine is 21st |
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My honey telling me I'm d most important person in his life. I really felt loved |
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I have mine too.It's tiring really. |
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Husband of 5 yrs |
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¤His nagging,anywhere everywhere, anytime everytime. Ppl ask how I cope with it. ¤His shouting at the top of his voice even wen u r not quarelling. He is so loud ¤His haggling. No matter how cheap, he still haggles. ¤His holier than thou attitude ¤Plus he is as romantic as a door post.Wen he wants sex, he just tells me "I want to f**k" and he expects me to hit d sack as if I'm a sex machine. |
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Most times parents r rite.It's funny how dy do it but wen parents say no to a rship,90% of the time,events prove them rite. I'm talkg from experience. This time though their reasons seem not to be genuine. My advise is 4 him to still come down,dy are Africans afterall they won't turn him away. Let them meet him close up.If they still insist then you have to decide whether you want him enough to have a little rough time wit ur parents.Be assured dat if dy see how adamant and steadfast you r, dy'll come round. Dat's y dy r parents |
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Both of u r fooling urselves. D girl sure has another phone. Ur rship is built on lies of course it will crumble. |
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She was ready to die in my place. |
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Your next of kin must be an adult preferably younger than you. It's best u make your spouse your N-O-K if u r married. Your kids if they r no longer minors,your younger siblings if you r single. It's wrong 2 make ur parents ur N-O-K since dy'll properly die before you. Babies shouldn't b made N-O-K, how will dy fill all relevant forms? |
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Layi good talk.But it's easier said than done.Sweetheart,it's not to be easy leaving her but u just have 2. Let me assure you dat if u destroy ur marriage to be wit her, d same thing will happen again and u'll end up having strings of broken homes. If u resist now,u'll be strentened. God will help you. |
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