macsika: What if they are really just friends or old class mates, honestly don't know why girls love giving meaning and voices to texts.

Hes planning to sleep wt his friend? I knw wat i saw, am nt sm paranoid....

For some days now,hubby and i have bn draggn d issue of a lady that he calls 'just friend'. Instinct told me they r more dn dt so i couldnt rest.
His phone is passworded and he wouldnt gv me his code, said cos i always read meanings to every chat he has wt ladies,i didnt drag d issue then, i gave him d trust dt he wouldnt betray me.
But unfortunately for him now
, i know his pswd and wen i get uncomfortable wt d lady in question, i went thru his phone. I was right,they r more dn friends, infact theyve planned a rendevous for ds weekend. He ws goin on a journey which he could go on sunday but he insisted hes going on saturday .
I screengrabbed thr chats,sent it to my phone so he cant deny it.
Now how do i play ds out? Wat if he blame me for snooping on his phone, am i d bad guy here?
Guys pls to d rescue, how do i handle d situatn so i can cm out d champion

What's the hotel rate in ghana pls?

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worry 359:
Everything depends on your intentions!
If you are honest person and you intend to pay your birth bills contact some hospitals to get information and prices.
Then have this and funds avaliable to show your intent.
Why not U.S.A. where baby will get citizenship?

If you intend to be "Health tourist" and steal from British tax payer no one will help you.

If you are honest person then just tell truth and have FUNDS and DOCUMENTS to back up your story.

Thought there's citizenship for babies in d UK too. Tnx so much, u r so helpful

Thanks for this wonderful thread!
Talking about pregnancy and visa....how do I go about getting a visa if I intend giving birth in d UK?
Even if I get a 6mnths visa before getting pregnant, it won't cover for me and if I go for a renewal, I'll have to state then that am pregnant. What r d chances d VO will grant a preggo visa?

Vicjustice: The account has evidence of Money Lodgement, and that is a big problem, he will be refused again as long as the account falls short of the requirement.
Read more here:
https://www.nairaland.com/967110/main-reasons-many-refused-visas

Tx for d link, its very informative.

wola44:

Kindly reapply with Good supporting document to back up excess money pay into the account.

Tx a ton!

D excess money in d acct was sent by his sis for a project he's helping her with. He has d necessary document to show he's doing a project for her.

Vicjustice:
It would be unreasonable to suggest the best way forward based on your interpretation of the refusal notice, so, in order to receive appropriate advice, i'd suggest that (if possible) it is better to provide the refusal letter (censoring the information that you consider personal or sensitive)

The Decision
U said on ur app form dt u av bn in full time employment as an admin mgr since May earnin a total of 150k p/mnth.In additn ds statemnt shws deposits in excess of ur income.Durin Oct 2.2m ws deposited into ur acct & d documents u submitted dnt shw d source of these funds...etc.

Ur right of appeal is limited to d grounds referred to in section84(1)(c) of d nationality,immigratn and asylum act 2002.
Tx

royalsweetness:

Type out exactly what was written in the refusal letter you received, and wherever your name or personal details are mentioned in the letter, replace it with xyz so that everybody would not know your name.

Tx sis

Vicjustice:
It would be unreasonable to suggest the best way forward based on your interpretation of the refusal notice, so, in order to receive appropriate advice, i'd suggest that (if possible) it is better to provide the refusal letter (censoring the information that you consider personal or sensitive)

Tx for d response, but pls how do I do that?

Hi, my brother was denied visa on d premise that his finances are more than d salary he claimed (d statement of acct). Now he wants to re-apply with supporting documents to back up d excess money in his account. The prob is some ppl told him to appeal while some said appeal will take 3mnths that he should apply afresh instead.
Pls which is d right way.
Fyi, he's going visiting, just going for his 3wks leave (our sis there is a citizen with a good job...cn this b to his advantage too?)

baralatie:
do u believe in prophecies!

Yea, depending on d person prophesying

4tunebest: Ok. My decision to tell him or not would depend on if I chose to continue with the relationship or quit. It seems 'am getting on some nerves here. Peace out

Oh no! Not at all sis, I just don't want this thread to be look at religiously.
It was a colleague of mine that confided in me on friday that her pastor said such of her fiance. She have little or no faith in prophecies so she had no reason to believe this either.
Her court wedding is scheduled to hold next week so talk of quitting on d basis of prophecy is out of it.
She only wants to know if telling her fiance about ds prophecy will keep him in check if truly he's got such mind or push him out that afterall ur pastor said so.
Tnx

4tunebest:

Are we assuming that she isn't quitting the relationship?

We are not assuming anything yet....if a prophet tell u something negative about ur better half, will u tell him or just keep it to urself

4tunebest: Then I would say the person is lucky to have been warned aforetime IF and only IF the prophecy is indeed true. It would be wise to quit that relationship. However, you shouldnt make your decision to quit based solely on what your pastor told you. You have to get the conviction yourself 'cos it is your life and not your pastor's life.You can go to God yourself for Him to speak to you and He may even show you deeper things that Your pastor didnt see. Make your decision based on your own personal conviction to avoid future regrets

The question here is not believing or not what d pastor said. The question is should she tell d fiance about ds or keep it to herself.

If a pastor tell u that few years after ur marriage, ur husband will have a second wife, will u tell ur fiance (future husband) ? Or just keep it to yourself?

Chillisauce: Very soon phema and Abali will pM themselves and the chat continue..

*i siddon dey observe *

LOL.com, ds got me rotfl

Abali1: @Cancerlib,
I can see you reading this thread. Hope things are still ok, with the two (your sis and fiance).
I have a feeling the guy is not all that bad, no matter what is said here.

Honestly I don't know what's running through her head. I sent her a link so she read all the comments. She picked up a fresh fight with the guy. He said he only changed those ladies names cos he doesn't want her to see that they are still calling him. That most of them are only for chatting sake and he delete chats/call logs out of respect for her. He said he has cut them off and they'll b tired when he doesn't call them back. She said he's a liar et al and told him she's taking a walk can't stand him.
So he said before he was guilty but presently he's guilty of no sin and he said he can swear and all that. He said he's tired of defending himself cos it seems she wnt be trusting him again, she's made up her mind to quit, so she shd call both parents and tell them her decision since she's d one quitting not him (acting all macho IMO).
Meanwhile he called her bestie and narratted everythn, how he cheated but has quitted et al, that my sis has insisted she's leaving but she's d only one he truly love,was just playing around blah blah, the friend said he was almost crying on phone. The friend calld my sis and I believe their discussion has weakened her resolve.
For now, I really can't tell what's on her mind.

ferhyntorlah: Poster, can you send the link of this topic to her so she can read others' opinions?

Sure, done that already. Tx

I really appreciate all the responses, thnx for taking out time to reply.

ifegy: By the way, when you say they fought over this issue, were there any blows thrown? Because that's another issue right there. And the fighting is not going to be less after they get married; rather, it'll be worse, because he clearly has no plans of leaving those girls behind. No need to tell you the ugly outcomes of domestic violence. Listen, marriage is for leaving and cleaving to the ONE, not the many. If he's not ready to do that, maybe he's just not ready, and maybe he's not the one.

No exchange of blows and all that, I meant intense exchange of harsh words but later he calmed and begged her.

Hi fellow nairalander,
Pls I need sincere and unbiased advice on this.
My sis got engaged some months ago to a very lovable guy. Disaster struck when few months after d introduction ceremony he changed the password to his fones. They were really opened to each other b4, but suddenly he chngd his passwords. When my sis asked he brushed her off saying its guys thingy, that he and his pals talk raw on chat and wouldn't want her to see such, that he's only protecting her so she won't be hurt. She accepted and they moved on fine.
Just some weeks ago she just tried a password and the phone unlocked! There she saw he has been philandering with so many girls and the brutal part the girls doesn't know he's engaged. She told him and they fought over it, one of his sis intervened and they settled. The guy said it was nothing serious just fun.
After they've settled, d girls never stopped calling, she pointed this out to him. Instead of rectifying this, he changed the names so she won't suspect a thing.
This is the only major bad habit this guy have, he's a nice and caring guy, someone ull never suspect could cheat and whatever he buys he buy in her name (her first name and his surname) to the last pin in his house, this shows he means well and want a future with her.
Now he's always clearing chats and call log.
Their wedding is in 4mnths time, my sis is torn.
Pls any advice will be appreciated.