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[quote author=dr_mike_adams]could be cheating or playing..but you dont leave a woman alone 4 2weeks or so...she could be lonely,,u know what they say about idle mind...i can get u proofs if ur interested,,[/qu

@mike-adams, she knew about dat long before we got married and i also spend two uninterrupted weeks with her every month.so i didnt totally left her lonely for two weeks intentionally, that is how and where i brings money that pays de bills.

lorretta u: ok
In that case.you have to make her understand that maybe ur absence isn't what should be of great concern to her.

On the other hand,the other details,u knw what to do to fix them.and take the authoritarian note out of your voice.your wife is your partner and companion.not an errant child beneath you.treat her the exact same way you want her to treat you.

That being said,I don't support her being preoccupied with her phone and not giving u ur needed attention.that's rude

have a nice day.wish ur marriage the best.

@ lorretta, she already knew the nature of my job year ago before i proposed marriage, and this password thing have never been noticed, her fone have always been accessible its even mine dat has a lock though she was given the codes since de reason for de lock wasn't because of her but for security reason base on my position at work managing some confidential document and all that.

lorretta u: Oh really?
U demand to see her phone? Even wrestle it from her?
You walk out of your home in Anger and spend the night outside and you're surprised she did same?
You walk her out of your home and expect her to do what? Not go?
u walked her out and she obeyed,HAPPILY!
If she can access your phone,I don't believe she'll password her phone.but no.I'm sure yours is passworded and u want her to leave hers open.

Swear on your life OP.that those your 2 week travels each month doesn't take u into other women's arms.I mean swear and die.
Mtchew.I'm sure this lady is already fed up by you attitude so what she's doing is to tell you she doesn't give a damn anymore
She most likely isn't cheating on you.

Like seriously.I think what she's doing is only a mimicry of what you do.maybe yours is even worse.
And your probably one of those men who think that a man being the leader in the home means he can get away with any attitude and expect total compliance from his wife.
No listen! You're the leader in your home.remember the Golden words


Leaders lead by example!
Don't leave your home in anger.Never spend d night outside cos u r angry.it's bad.
Leave ur phone open if u want hers open.during those your travels,can she reach u freely?

Consider what you're not doing right,correct yourself and your wife will love and respect you.

Ekwuchala m!

thanks for the detailed views, but my two weeks out of my home is spent offshore where the only companion u have is fishes and ur colleagues. am not cheating on my wife.

aduaba: I don't think your wife will just behave as such for no reason. I'm sure there's more to it than what you have said. Women react this way esp when they are tired of dealing with a cheating man.im very sure you dnt allow her to check out ur fon but you want to know whatever goes on on hers. Believe me she's not cheating on you she probably wants you feel she is ..search within yourself and you will know you are hurting this woman that's why she doesn't care anymore. Check yourself .

my dear far from ur thoughts, she have the passwords to my two phones and use them at will.

I AM YOUNG AND HAVE A GOOD JOB, JUST FEW MONTHS OLD IN MARRIAGE NO KIDS YET, MY JOB TAKES ME OFF MY HOME FOR TWO WEEKS.
ON THIS FAITHFUL THURSDAY 19TH SEPT 2013, I CAME BACK FROM MY NORMAL FOOTBALL TRAINING AND OBSERVED MY WIFE SERIOUSLY ENGROSSED WITH HER PHONE CHATTING,LEAVING ME WITH LESS ATTENTION, I GOT ANGRY AND DEMANDED TO SEE WHO IS MAKING HER IGNORE MY PRESENCE, BUT TO MY SURPRISE SHE BLUNTLY REFUSED, THOUGH I STRUGGLED OUT THE PHONE STILL COULDN'T ACCESS IT BECAUSE IT WAS CODED AND SHE REFUSED TO UNLOCK IT EVEN WITH ALL MY THREATS SO WE QUARRELED OVER IT WHICH LEAD TO CARRYING OF FACE AND ALL THAT.
THE NEXT DAY, OUT-OF ANGER I WENT TO MY FRIEND'S/COLLEAGUE'S (MALE) PLACE AND SPENT DE NIGHT AFTER THE BEER THINGS THOUGH THE FIRST TIME SINCE I GOT MARRIED,ONLY TO RETURN ON SATURDAY AND DISCOVERED SHE ALSO WENT OUT THAT SAME FRIDAY I LEFT AND DIDN'T RETURN, I CALLED HER FAMILY AND MY FAMILY SHE WAS NEVER THERE.
WHEN SHE RETURNED ON SUNDAY, I WALKED HER OUT AND SHE HAPPILY WALKED AWAY AND NEVER CALLED OR WENT TO EITHER OF DE FAMILIES HOUSE TILL I WENT BACK TO MY WORK PLACE THE NEXT DAY MONDAY.
3 DAYS LATER IN THE WEEK I WAS INFORMED BY A NEIGHBOR SHE RETURNED IMMEDIATELY I LEFT TO WORK,NOW AM DUE TO RETURN HOME FROM WORK IN FEW DAYS TIME.
my concerns are:
1. who was she chatting with that she refused to let me see?
2. why did she decides to sleep out and where?
3. could she be cheating on me?
WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE I NEED UR ADVISE.