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Metalgoong: Don't worry I didn't have any girlfriends talking in my ear or telling to leave him. And yes, we're both Nigerian. *dhtml: ![]() tpia@: tpia@: How about you do me a major favor and keep your mouth shut. I may not post on this site frequently but I have certainly observed the nasty manner that you reply to people. You are very vile and full of nothing but negativity. If you honestly have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING positive to contribute then please take your poison spewing ways elsewhere. I don't know the kind of hated or evil that is a part of your life and I don't care to know but I don't need any of it. Didn't your mother ever teach you that if you don't have anything good to say then you shouldn't say anything at all?? Did you even have an positive figure in your life to teach you that? If not, then now you know. I know I cannot stop your vile comments on this thread but I certainly won't sit around and tolerate it! Orton1_0: I will give him a call pretty soon. Either that or I'll ask him to meet up with me so we can talk face to face. And yes, I'm sure he feels the same. Lord_Reed: I'm not one to play mind tricks. That's not a part of who I am ![]() Mynd_44: Chineke! I said I wanted my boyfriend back, not that I was looking to replace him ![]() ![]() |
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Russialane: Oh I see. I don't think most guys here are like that. Some of them seem like they genuinely care at times ![]() |
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lola.luv: So I've noticed ![]() *dhtml: Why? ![]() |
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*dhtml: Please, no vex. I meant no harm with my post. I was just trying to gage the male perspective on this ![]() Mrs, Chima: I appreciate the support. Mynd_44: Thank you so much! I'm taking it all in. I'm just trying to see how I will go about it. I never really thought I'd the type to be on a forum baring my heart to people for advice ![]() Blackteeth: Yes, I did say that I know what to do. I just wanted the opinions and views of some men, that's all. I know which path to take, all I wanted was to know how to get there. It's not that I'm looking for everyone to solve my problem. My heart has already co-signed on solving the problem. Mending things was never an issue for me. It may not be a head cracking issue for you but it definitely is one for me and perhaps anyone else who may be in the same position. |
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MsDarkSkin: Thank you! You know I can't help but wonder what happened to all the guys on this section. Did they all go to church or something? ![]() Nonetheless, the information was helpful. I'm gonna go get my guy (after I have some lunch) lol!! |
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MsDarkSkin: I'm going to be very honest. Before I even created this thread, I had already made up my mind to talk to him. I do love him, so I never had any intentions on not working things out. That wasn't even an option in my mind. I believe that him and I have a strong heart together and can work it out, what I wanted to know was what is an appropriate amount of time before I approach him?? By the way, I'm not one of those people that sits around and waits for the guy to come around and try to fix things. If I see a problem, I will address it, learn from it, and move on ![]() Mynd_44: Chineke!! I don't want that kind of situation ![]() |
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Mynd_44: Can you please elaborate on that? |
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MsDarkSkin: Yes, we're both in the US but I wouldn't say we've adopted the "American mentality". We're still as Nigerian as can be but I can assure you that it had nothing to do with culture, money, or infidelity. I don't want to sound cliche but we are genuinely committed to each other. I don't think he'll run if I didn't talk to him but I'm not the pushy or clingy type of girls. I have brothers and guy friends and I know how they feel when a girl is clingy or pushy. Lol, and thank you. I will stay away from those people you mentioned. I've seen their posts and threads before so I've learned to not take them seriously. Oh and you weren't putting my business out there. Like I said, all the advice I can get is appreciated. Cuddlemii: Lol, I don't mind scratching anyone's back that's understandable. I know he's willing to mend the situation based on how our disagreement ended. There are certain things that he would have said that indicated if he wanted the relationship to come to an end. He didn't say any of those things so I know for sure that there is room for reconciliation. Well, I can't go into too much detail because I'm afraid it could jeopardize my identity but overall. But I will say this though, it wasn't one of those name calling/rude remarks kind of disagreements. We just a polite exchange of opinions on the relationship as a whole. Even when he was talking, I could tell that the conversation was hard from him. We don't fight or call each other names (aside from when we're just being playful with each other). Mrs, Chima: Its nothing trivial, I can assure you. Neither one of us quarrel over trivial things. We don't really have the time or patience for that. Well, he has patience for that kind of thing but trivial things aren't part of my personality. He usually deals with trivial things from other people, not me. |
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Where are all the guys on this section? ![]() By the way, thanks ladies |
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It's totally fine. I don't mind if the ladies reply as well. All I want is advice. All the advice I can get would be great! I know you said Nigerian guys aren't know for "giving space". I just didn't want a situation where it seemed like I was pushing things. If there's one thing that I know about guys in general, they don't want a girl that is pushy or clingy ![]() |
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Hello everyone! I'm Cipriana and I'm in need of assistance. I've asked close friends for advice and have asked my siblings but I think I need an answer from some guys directly before I decide on what I'm going to do ![]() My boyfriend and I recently took a break after a disagreement we had. I'm totally confused about what the next move should be. Even though we've taken a break we both still love each other very much. I care about him and want to make things work. And I know he cares as well. I guess what I'm trying to ask here is as Nigerian men, how much time do you think is appropriate for you and your girlfriend to stay apart before either of you decide to get together and work things out? Based on you own personal experiences, what would you say is an appropriate amount of time? I have already asked girls their opinion on this but what I really what to hear if a guy's perspective ![]() I have read comments on this section of the forum before so please please please, I'd appreciate it if there were no horse playing on this thread since this is something that is very dear to me. I'm not looking for any kind of trouble. All I want is answers. I just want things to be as they were before. And yes, I know they probably won't be exactly as they were because of this bump in the road but I'm just looking to get back the sense of harmony we had and see how we can make things better. So guys of the romance section can you please give me a bit of insight? If it were you, what would you say is a decent amount of time apart before you reconcile? I'm really begging you all at this point. I've got nowhere else to turn to with this ![]() |
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Sorry, I deleted this post and re-posted it in the romance section https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-841708.0.html |
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