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Education / Re: UNILORIN Before And Now (photos) by Cortana2: 9:50am On Dec 29, 2016 |
dassylegend: Envy? |
Education / Re: UNILORIN Before And Now (photos) by Cortana2: 9:17am On Dec 29, 2016 |
dassylegend: Overrated |
Politics / Re: Buhari Moves To Compensate Tinubu With Ministerial Position From Lagos, Others by Cortana2: 1:06pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
NFFGG: Who asked for your take on this? Are you Fareed Zakaria. |
Politics / Re: Robert Smith Sponsoring Chibok Girls That Were Released by Cortana2: 9:25am On Dec 28, 2016 |
huthmanadam: Does this man have anything to do with Will Smith's film The Pursuit of Happyness? |
Travel / Re: Aircraft Parked Along Oshodi-Anthony Expressway In Lagos. See Photos by Cortana2: 12:03am On Dec 27, 2016 |
Mutuwa: How do we even know the op isn't out to advertise the "Work in milk company" thingy? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Man Dies In Fatal Accident On Christmas Day, Hours After Wedding by Cortana2: 7:17pm On Dec 26, 2016 |
perfectwazobia1: You think this is bad news? Wait until you hit 2017. Things will only get worse - because of sin. I hope you appreciate my saying it the way it is. |
Religion / Re: Why Don’t Jehovah’s Witnesses Celebrate Christmas? by Cortana2: 1:27pm On Dec 25, 2016 |
Browsenigeria: It is in this area only that the two great rivals JW and DL agree, albeit slightly. |
Politics / Re: Which Nigerian State Can Surpass Lagos In Terms Of Development In The Future? by Cortana2: 8:12pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
omofunaab: And don't you think we should thank Asiwaju for that? 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Can’t Count Number Of Men That Slept With Me, 17-yr Impregnated Student (pics) by Cortana2: 9:18pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
NickleTheory: Looking at her dressing, shape and stance. I think she's in her early twenties or even a teenager as being reported. Some people look old but are actually young. |
Politics / Re: Ahmed Indimi In A Private Jet With Other Nigerian Bilionaire Children (Pic) by Cortana2: 5:37pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
PrettyCrystal: If you think they're lucky then you really don't understand life. |
Family / Re: Judge Orders Husband To Have Sex With His Wife (pics) by Cortana2: 5:10pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
AlexCk: I'm sure there were no 'pre-wedding' pics in their days. 1 Like |
Investment / Re: "Leave MMM Alone" - Sergey Mavrodi, MMM Founder Tells Bloggers, Journalists by Cortana2: 7:52am On Dec 19, 2016 |
BornStunner1: While men don't write like this. I'm 89% sure this write-up is from a Nigerian. |
Investment / Re: The Truth About MMM (Video By Adeola Fayehun) by Cortana2: 8:21pm On Dec 18, 2016 |
lumzybo: WE TOLD YOU |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Help- How Do You Answer This Interview Question? by Cortana2: 7:27am On Dec 14, 2016 |
Xtianart: How it's this an interview question? |
Business / Re: Tanzania, Dangote Sign Agreement On Gas Supply by Cortana2: 7:32am On Dec 13, 2016 |
mistabiola: Some of us Nigerians now go by that name 'foreign investor'. That's good. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Got The Police Job, Now I'm More Confused by Cortana2: 7:38am On Dec 08, 2016 |
kissGuys: I'd advise you go into business. It may be rough at first, but you'll definitely make good progress. If you however decide to join the NPF, getting out may become a difficult thing to do. |
Religion / Re: Is MMM A Sin? by Cortana2: 9:37am On Dec 07, 2016 |
RatedStar: Answer these questions first. 1. Why did Russia ban MMM? 2. That 30% you people get on your 'investment', where does it come from really? 3. What other investment do you know in the world that pays a whooping 30% just after 3 months? 4. Do you know what a ponzi scheme is? 5. When this thing finally fall through, do you know you the investors will be partly responsible for whatever happens to those who promoted this illegality. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Is MMM A Sin? by Cortana2: 5:53am On Dec 07, 2016 |
RatedStar: You're being selfish. Not all participants are going to smile eventually. Some are going to commit suicide after the ponzi scheme falls through; it will one day, and you won't be guitless when it finally does. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Parents Who Regret Having Children by Cortana2: 5:37am On Dec 07, 2016 |
EZEIGBO1OFIMO: I understand also that women who refuse to breastfeed their kids are more likely to develop breast cancer. This whole matter is so similar to the case of the Dead Sea which receives but never gives out. |
Family / Re: Parents Who Regret Having Children by Cortana2: 5:31am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Onegai: A lot of those 'sowers' aren't Christians. The real ones are doing their thing quietly - never drawing attention to themselves. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Parents Who Regret Having Children by Cortana2: 8:16pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Onegai: Anyone from a good home will hardly ever object to the merits of having children. Anyone from a religious background will hardly ever object to the blessedness of obeying the divine injunction to populate the earth. Anyone with love in his/her heart will hardly object to the joy and privilege of holding a life formed right there in the womb. Except for health reasons and so on, I see it as selfishness for anyone to decide he/she doesn't want any children. My opinion, please. 2 Likes |
Family / Parents Who Regret Having Children by Cortana2: 2:53pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
French author Corinne Maier has two children but can't wait for the youngest to leave home, saying they have left her "exhausted and bankrupt". Her attack on "idealising parenthood" struck a chord with many mothers and fathers around the world. Here are some of their comments - followed by the responses from others who completely disagreed. REGRETS It's good to know I'm not the only one who has felt empty being a mom. While I love my two children very much, I feel today I should never have had them. Not only are they expensive, but to raise children comes at a cost to career advancement unless women wait until they are over 35. There are so many reasons to feel joy in being a mom, but I feel exhausted and unfulfilled. Alex, San Antonio. I've never been someone who's good with kids... and I'm still not. My child is six now and I still find it hard to relate to him and his friends. A whole lot of the time, I just don't like being a mother, and I generally don't fit well into this role. I feel like an outcast among all the school mums who are so actively involved. Anonymous, Cologne. It is difficult to say I regret having children because I love them. But, on balance, if I could turn back the clock and tell myself what it is like, I'm not sure I'd bother having any. It's only "wonderful" a very small proportion of the time. Without them I'd have money, freedom and far less worry. Mary, Edinburgh. Having been brought up in a broken home, I had always dreamed of a large family. I have been blessed with a wonderful husband and three (I'm stuck for the right adjective) children. But never before has the expression "be careful what you wish for" been so poignant. As I write this my daughter is hanging around my neck. I can't even go to the bathroom without hearing screaming and fighting and the word "mamma" screeching through my "loving" home. Christmas is coming and instead of feeling excitement, I feel like getting on a plane with my husband and going anywhere at all with a one-way ticket. Just to get to know him again. We're too exhausted to even laugh these days. And as I'm writing this I'm feeling guilty because I should be grateful. I should be adding some grateful phrase like "it's hard but worth it". But I can't. Because I don't know if it is. Andrea, Italy. I'm now 50 and broke. Thankfully just financially because I kept my sanity and life intact despite the children. Motherhood definitely isn't for everyone and just because we have the equipment doesn't mean to say we have the disposition. I gave everything I could, did everything I needed to but was it a "joy"? No. If I had my time again I would never have children. Joy, Bath. Bringing up the modern-day child has left my husband and I exhausted - and it does not stop at childhood, they are still a worry at the age of 24 and 26. We tried so hard to make them independent but we failed. They live away from us but we are still at the end of a line, on call 24 hours a day! I love them both of course but if I turned back the clock I would not have children. Jennifer, Hertfordshire. MIXED FEELINGS I adore parenthood, warts and all. However, strange to say it is not something I wish for my children. The world is a very different place and is changing in a way that you can have a great life without the sanctity of marriage and family unit. You can be happy and fulfilled without too much commitment to looking after others. A pet and lots of friends, a good job will about do it for the next Western generation. Jean, Troon. I have two boys and I love them to no end until the tiredness catches up and the daily noise doesn't seem to stop. I used to be patient and had a functioning brain. That seems to have disappeared. It's all about schedules, naps, food, clothing, tidying, playgrounds, the right upbringing, the right toys, what to say and what not to say, trying not to take things personally. When it's tough I would like the no-kid-life, but when you get a hug or a kiss or they do something great for the first time I wouldn't give it up for the world. Anja, Maastricht. In Norway getting children is even more the single most important aspect of one's life than in other European countries. Getting married is anyway more or less seen as a temporary state but family and children stay. My husband and I had a wonderful relationship with nice, fulfilling sex and a lot of common interests. Now we are parents, we are stressed all the time, fatter than before and have very little time for each other. We are too drenched to please each other in most aspects any more. We do love our two boys very much and are happy when they are. But we have in a way disappeared. Mette, Akerhus. NO REGRETS Having children is the best thing that ever happened to me. It is also hard work. I don't know where anyone would get the idea that being a parent is an easy job that results in instant happiness. Being happy under any circumstances is something you have to work for over the long term. Brian, Ohio. I cannot imagine being childless. As an introvert, they kept me engaged with the world through their teachers, coaches and other parents. I remember telling my mother that we were waiting until we could afford to have a child. She said, "if you wait until you can afford one, you will never have any." We have children and grand-children because they reintroduce to the wonders of nature and they have a unique perspective that delights us. Karen, Virginia. With the right partner parenthood is pure bliss. We have five and wish we had more. Yes children are work but we have had time to do many other things by trading off responsibilities between us. I find that parenthood is like everything else - it can be seen as a problem or a challenge towards growth. We have grown so much and learned so much by being with our children. Gloria, Sola. Having a child has made me into a more socially and environmentally engaged person. I wrote my son a book, which I sent to an agent, and a few years later I find myself a children's writer with several books under my belt. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have done that if I hadn't had him. We've even done a bit of world travelling - I took him to Australia when he was three. He was the best travelling companion, he helped me meet a lot of people. He brought me out of myself. And he teaches me stuff about space and black holes and the natural world (his heroes are David Attenborough and Stephen Hawking!) I'm more interested in science now. I'm more interested in everything in fact. Sam, Worthing. I raised two children in Japan. Yes, it cost a lot in terms of money and time, but I was nevertheless able to maintain a reasonably successful academic career. Children just made me more organised. In intangible ways, my children have given back at least as much as they were given, and continue to do so in their adult lives. They both have careers in medicine, and contribute huge amounts to the well-being of society. Rather than being "little consumers", they are instead "great contributors," Bob, Tokyo. I'm proud to be a mum - having a child and looking after them is a pleasure and my kids are now in the university and more independent. I can't wait for them to have their own so I can look after them. Putting the effort in to educating kids and showing them right from wrong is emotionally rewarding. They will grow up strong and appreciate the effort. Ghada, Enfield. My children gave me a reason to live and to fight when I lost my husband and was myself going to die of cancer. I now live with my grandchildren, one of them quite handicapped with autism, and that boy is the motor for my new start in life. Thanks to him I started a successful music school, he is my main student, and working with him daily as I teach him to play the violin is the most fulfilling experience I could ever have. It is a sad day for the future of our society when mothers cease to believe in and value motherhood. Without children, there is no future in this world. Jacoline, Geneva 2 Likes
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Events / Re: Makeup-Free Bride Weds In Deeper Life Church by Cortana2: 6:36am On Dec 05, 2016 |
Treasuredlove: And you'll go through all that stress for a gown that lasts only a few hours? |
Crime / Re: How My Aunty Lost About 200k To Scammers by Cortana2: 2:58pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
fijiano202: Very true, but I wonder if juju could also be at work here. Or it could just be a pure case of greed. This sort of thing happened to my brother years ago. The scammers collected all his plumbing equipment. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: You Go For A Job Interview And They Ask You This by Cortana2: 8:43pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Emmaesty: 40k? This is not one of those jobs. 1 Like 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / You Go For A Job Interview And They Ask You This by Cortana2: 6:22pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
You've almost nailed a job and then the interviewer placed on your table a white paper containing the following... Legend has it that the inventor of the game called chess was told to name his own reward. His reply was along this lines. Imagine a chess board. Suppose one grain of corn is placed on the first square. 2 grains on the second 4 grains on the third, 8 grains on the fourth, and so on until you get to the 64th square. I would like as many grains of corn as the chess board now carries. We were given just 5 minutes to do this... 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 6 Things You Must Remove From Your Cv Very Important by Cortana2: 7:46am On Nov 22, 2016 |
I don't agree with the hobby part. I think it's a case of different strokes for different folks. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Police Needs Your Help For Exact Location Where Young Boy Was Burnt To Death by Cortana2: 8:46am On Nov 17, 2016 |
ghocol9: Have you watched The Conjuring Pt. 2? |
Politics / BBC World Service To Launch Igbo, Yoruba And Nigerian Pidgin Service by Cortana2: 8:18am On Nov 16, 2016 |
The BBC World Service will launch 11 new language services as part of its biggest expansion "since the 1940s", the corporation has announced. The expansion is a result of the funding boost announced by the UK government last year. The new languages will be Afaan Oromo, Amharic, Gujarati, Igbo, Korean, Marathi, Pidgin, Punjabi, Telugu, Tigrinya, and Yoruba. The first new services are expected to launch in 2017. "This is a historic day for the BBC, as we announce the biggest expansion of the World Service since the 1940s," said BBC director general Tony Hall. "The BBC World Service is a jewel in the crown - for the BBC and for Britain. "As we move towards our centenary, my vision is of a confident, outward-looking BBC which brings the best of our independent, impartial journalism and world-class entertainment to half a billion people around the world. Today is a key step towards that aim." The plans include the expansion of digital services to offer more mobile and video content and a greater social media presence. Where are they spoken? The African languages Afaan Oromo - Widely spoken in Ethiopia and in some parts of Kenya, Somalia and Egypt. Amharic - Ethiopia's other main tongue and the official language of its government and Orthodox church. Tigrinya - The main working language of Eritrea, along with Arabic. Also spoken in parts of Ethiopia. Igbo - An official Nigerian language. Also spoken in Equatorial Guinea. Yoruba - Spoken in south-western Nigeria and some other parts of West Africa, especially Benin and Togo. Nigerian Pidgin - A creole version of English spoken across West Africa but particularly in the Niger Delta. On Wednesday the BBC launches a full digital service in Thai, following the success of a Facebook-only "pop-up" service launched in 2014. Other expansion plans include: extended news bulletins in Russian, with regionalised versions for surrounding countries enhanced television services across Africa, including more then 30 new TV programmes for partner broadcasters across sub-Saharan Africa new regional programming from BBC Arabic short-wave and medium-wave radio programmes aimed at audiences in the Korean peninsula, plus online and social media content investment in World Service English, with new programmes, more original journalism, and a broader agenda Fran Unsworth, the BBC's World Service director, said: "Through war, revolution and global change, people around the world have relied on the World Service for independent, trusted, impartial news. "As an independent broadcaster, we remain as relevant as ever in the 21st Century, when in many places there is not more free expression, but less. "Today's announcement is about transforming the World Service by investing for the future. http://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-37990220
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Health / Re: I Lost My Friend To Chronic Kidney Disease, His Last Whatsapp Chat With Me by Cortana2: 5:51pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
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Health / Re: I Lost My Friend To Chronic Kidney Disease, His Last Whatsapp Chat With Me by Cortana2: 1:08pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Mimienudles: Did he tell you he repented? If everyone 'rests' in peace, who are those that'll rest in pieces? |
Education / Re: Nairaland Mathematics Clinic by Cortana2: 9:55am On Nov 10, 2016 |
busuyem: The one at T will be form a right angle with the radius but the one at A will not. Remember the theorem says: A tangent to a circle is perpendicular to the radius drawn to its point. |
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