She must be a grown up woman and she should take responsability as she wanted to sleep with u too. I dislike when some women just use the church just to give the impression they r 'good' when they are so fake and materialistic. So, as long as she did agree into his and nobody forced her to do anything I don't understand what obligation u have. U shouldn't have gone to see her family unless u had serious intentions with her. We live in 2012, when we women fight to have the same rights and opportunities with men in the work place and everywhere, so there's no excuse to pretend- she got what she deserved as long as she didn't want to date u when u were poor. She's not really worthy. Try and seek for a woman who will appreciate for what u are and not what u have eg money.

firstly love yourself, then see if you love him. respect for yourself should be on top of everything. look in the mirror and check if that's what you want from life. you can't say you are 15 and you are madly in love and your head is in the clouds, so i guess you are mature enough to see what's right and wrong. in the end, a man can drop his hat and will pick it how many times he wants and nobody will say smth just because he's a man, but you are the one who is gonna suffer. if he loves you so much, how come he treats his wife with respect, is still married to her and you are the 5th wheel of the carriage? try to think more about urself and impose other people to respect you by taking the right decisions in life. maybe true men with whom you could have had a nice relationship which would lead to something passed next to you but you were too blind to see it because of your 'married love'... i dont judge you, but as long as you alone will not realise it and want to change something, you will keep on being used by him. good luck

you date whom you want to be with, no matter colour. i really dont get why black women are jealous on white women regarding this matter. y cant u realise that u r the only ones who judge relationship through colour/race perspective? white women don't bother about if he's black/white/indian etc. do you think any man really thinks oh she's white - i'll date her or no, she's black i'll date her. is about who rocks your boat. i'm a white woman married with a black man and color does not make any difference in our relationship or families. you love someone, you love him/her and that's it. so please realise that you live in 2012 and there's more to enjoy about life that worry about interacial relationships! maybe you'll fall in love with a person of another color (if you allow urself to be free and listen to your heart without thinking oh how much money he has etc etc). work to be independent, be yourself and you will find the one.

you date whom you want to be with, no matter colour. i really dont get why black women are jealous on white women regarding this matter. y cant u realise that u r the only ones who judge relationship through colour/race perspective? white women don't bother about if he's black/white/indian etc. do you think any man really thinks oh she's white - i'll date her or no, she's black i'll date her. is about who rocks your boat. i'm a white woman married with a black man and color does not make any difference in our relationship or families. you love someone, you love him/her and that's it. so please realise that you live in 2012 and there's more to enjoy about life that worry about interacial relationships! maybe you'll fall in love with a person of another color (if you allow urself to be free and listen to your heart without thinking oh how much money he has etc etc). work to be independent, be yourself and you will find the one.

virgin on or not, depends if he loves her. i understand she lied - she made a mistake. is up to him if he can move forward and forget about it and continue the relationship or not. i guess the marriage is not about who is a virgin or not, but whom you see with in the future and who understands and supports you. virgin or not he couldn't loved her differently, is all about his pride. I agree she did a mistake by hiding the truth, but is betweent them two to continue the relationship or not. a woman is not an object and everyone has their past, as well as he has his. respect is mutual and that can't be changed by being virgin or not.

I understand you believe in God. If she does not like you there's no point waisting ur time. I guess invest ur time in smth more productive and try to go out and meet other girls. good luck