[color=#000099][/color]reading the 1st paragraph alone I knew how it was going to play out, you messed up going to beg her n involving your friends and folks. Deed has been done, cut your loss and lick your wound and move on fast. Never you accept her back no matter what plays out.

Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.

[color=#006600][/color] shit happens sometimes. Can relate. Just be strong.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

A good case of manhood living on even after death. Madam Patience Jona, report here.

Who saw his teeth flying out?
Next tym he will watch his jokes.
Next slap should be coming frim the UK.

soldxuma:
This is a pseudo account!

Admin, please help move to FP


Hello Everyone.
I have been met with an unprecedented issue.

Background:
I have an older brother who in the last 5 years has been coming home with one infant after the other. I have witnessed him bring like 4 - 6 different children home and claiming that they are his children. I do not believe that is sterile and cannot have his own kids; so I very well know that, for all intents and purposes, those kids could be his own. However, I would like to point out that of all of our parents children, we have similarities/features that will always stand out even among the great grand children.

Not a single one of these kids have any features that is familiar or similar in any way, shape or form. THEY LOOK VERY DIFFERENT.

He will come back with these kids (usually ranging from a few weeks old to about 3 months old) and when we ask where their mothers are, he will say they travelled to Niger or somewhere and their mothers were fine with him travelling with the infants without them. He disappears for a while and comes back without the kids. (I have no idea what happens to those kids. He has kept one with his ex for a while now and that one has grown to be another child that looks nothing like us).

The last one that got to me was in December of 2020, he came back home and gave a child to one lady that we know. We woke up to the 'good news' that she suddenly put to bed. I know pregnant women go for ante natal care, neighbors would see you pregnant etc. None of these had been the case. Now the child has been seriously sick and they have been in the hospital for the past 1 month.

The Reason For This Post
1. Please what is the right authority that I have to bring this to for proper and effective investigation.
2 How do I report this anonymously to the right authority and to make sure that this stops and the parents of these children are traced.

Looking forward to hearing from you and getting the necessary help.

Thank you.


Admin, sorry if this is not the right place for the post.

police is your friend.

The presenter of the African awards is now one of the nominees, "cry me a river"

please is there another Greenfield estate at Ago I don't know about? cos the one I know of does not have 24/7 light,so where is this one you are talking about?stop misleading people with false descriptions.

How much?

olumyde:
Before creating this topic, I tried to search nairaland to see if there's something like this but I couldn't find. The closest I saw were advices on how to go about things when your parents object to your marital decision.

I am currently at a crossroad in my marital decision. My mother does not want me to marry my fiance because of her mother's behaviour.

This is not a unique issue and I know many people have faced something like that in the past.

I know all the advices but what I want to know experience of people who have gone ahead despite their parents' disapproval.

If you have gotten married without your parents' consent, what was your experience? Can you kindly share, so everyone can learn?

well in reaction to this,my xperience is this,my dad is late n my mum was initially against my marriage due to pressure frm my siblings who were against it,but eventually gave me a greenlite.d best of wat i wld advise is God's position on d union?Have u prayed and seeked His council on it?wat if ur parents r against ur union based on selfish interest?d bottom line is God's directive and every oda tin wld fall in line.

since all d small boyz wey suppose blow knockout don enta yahoo plus na him say make e cum kukuma blow d tin,now na him hand e don blow,no xperience.

1.5m?

how much?

How much pls?

Amen!

Watching in 3D

Obviously she must ave being doin it on a two way witout lube

Pls it depends on who is d king in reference here, is it Mufasa or Scar?cos i b'eve we all watched n know d lion king story

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The girl in question has been found,this is an old news,did nt appen yes'day,dis incident appened in ABJ

The girl in question has been found,this is an old news,did nt appen yes'day

Price?

Is dis a gsd?

Awesome Lord,great healer, mighty One!

It's so pathetic to think that lives were just wasted as a result of the carelessness and impatience of the driver.Passed this accident scene less than 20mins after it happened, was gruesome, these pics are not doing justice to the true scenerio.God have mercy on the lost souls!

God,please have mercy on your children!

pinshur of ur wife hymen or idonbilivit

Lord u are awesome!Glory to your name.