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Crime / Re: Ekiti Man Drugs His Girlfriend, Films Her Being Raped By Friends, Uploads Video by CumOnHer: 6:00pm On Apr 28, 2022 |
Farfalla:It's creepy when Nigerian women talk about misogyny. |
Crime / Re: Ekiti Man Drugs His Girlfriend, Films Her Being Raped By Friends, Uploads Video by CumOnHer: 12:34am On Apr 28, 2022 |
Farfalla:Dear Falla, you don't have to hold back, I was only helping highlight your mindset towards men generally. Therefore, there'd be no need to reduce the proportion to 85% from the initial 100%. |
Crime / Re: Ekiti Man Drugs His Girlfriend, Films Her Being Raped By Friends, Uploads Video by CumOnHer: 11:34pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Farfalla:Based on your abstract thinking, it'd rather be illogical to project it on men on this forum. Pretty sure you'd put on an armour when your gender is typically described ( you know what I meant) 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Ekiti Man Drugs His Girlfriend, Films Her Being Raped By Friends, Uploads Video by CumOnHer: 10:59pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Farfalla:What has happened to you?. You've stooped so low. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:29pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I think I have the right to ask a rhetorical question, don't I? And if need be to emphasize your cherry picking, we need to ask the question, why more than 2,000 men would be a victim of war missiles while some are hidden under the cover of the same men just because " they are women" |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:21pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
NoToPile:Simple o? Smh! If you are given a monetary favour ( which you hardly earn) or given a free pass on a long queue or the women shouting "Aluta" to the National Assembly for the inclusion on female gender rights just because " you are a woman". When it ALL favours you, then "you are a woman" |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:57pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
PrimadonnaO:Is there a contextual difference when a mother tells her child " you're a girl"? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:51pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
PrimadonnaO:Much of the sentiments I can deduce from most of the replies so far is the fact that "you are a woman" can be emotionalized which mostly tend to twist the narratives and lower the bar but same sentiments would raise the bar and maintain the standard in all circumstances for " you are a man" . It's an unfair world, isn't it? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:31am On Mar 19, 2022 |
RightToReject:You are a little one dimensional and largely failed at Emotional intelligence too. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 9:04am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I can't remember I was |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:51am On Mar 19, 2022 |
thorpido:Using an example of inegalitarian man appears patronising. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:46am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I thought we're discussing a topic |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:21am On Mar 19, 2022 |
eyinjuege:You are indifferent. It is rather more reasonable to be indifferent than pander to unnecessary bandwagoning. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 8:13am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I would have you to be entirely honest. Is it uncommon for a woman to tell another woman that " you are a woman" and therefore "you can't do this, you can only do that". I have often heard women say to each other" I am a woman as you are, this is the way to go as a woman" Very importantly, I have asked but haven't gotten a response to my earlier question. Almost every mother tells their girl child " you are a girl". How different is it from "you are a woman"?. Did you get offended when your mum told you that? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:50am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Tallesty1:Some men are trying to patronize women on this thread but it's all good tho. Have you considered that a broke man in the midst of a group of broke women would not get angry at being denied some wad of cash much as he would be when denied a 100k in the midst of a group of broke men. I wouldn't be angry when I am being reminded that I am a man in the midst of women but would scatter the table when you denied me what's meant for me in the midst of my fellow men. A clearer example is when a coat that is meant for a man, during cold season is passed on to a woman for warmth. During a cold season, when a boy or a man is told that "you're a man", give the coats to the women. No eyebrows is raised. The men suffer the cold to the chest just because they are men while the women hangs the coat around the chest just because they are women. A man in the midst of women is already at a disadvantage, meanwhile in the midst of his fellow men, it is the survival of the fittest. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 7:26am On Mar 19, 2022 |
RightToReject:I found your choice of " inegalitarian" as an inappropriate description. Let's broaden the argument a bit. If you substitute the " inegalitarian man" for a "woman" and make the conversation a " woman to woman" conversation, would the outcome/reaction have been the same? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 12:06am On Mar 19, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:Your analogies are not agreeable. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 12:05am On Mar 19, 2022 |
Palema007:You don't. Your ego is recessive, men egos are dominant. know this and know peace. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:56pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Palema007:Women don't have a big ego. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:53pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
cococandy:Your mum would most likely have said to you " you're a girl" did you feel offended? Every mother would have told their girl child" You're a girl". Was it ill- intentioned? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:50pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:NO |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:48pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
thorpido:I asked same question because he said "you're a woman" could either be complimentary or derision. If "You're a man" and " You're a child" are not derision, then why " you're a woman". I am almost sure every mother at a point, would have told their girl child " You're a girl".. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:42pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
cococandy:This is purely your own twisted interpretation and honestly, I feel sick to my stomach reading this. When the society asked a boy child or an male adult to stop acting or thinking like a woman, please, please & please, hold the society that sets such a standard responsible, Not the men that are groomed to be men. Naturally, women tend to seek love, caring, financial security and protection under the umbrella of a man. Do not put the blame on the men, put it on the women. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:32pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
RightToReject:I can understand the complimentary part but the derision part is lost on me. If you told a child " You're a child", it is complimentary, derision or could be both? How could " you're a woman" have two sides of a coin? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
pocohantas:You are a bag of troubles. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 11:14pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
WoundedLamb:Do you mean "you are a woman" places certain limitations on them? Care to give examples. You bringing in gender obligations. Such that a woman has what and what not she is obligated to?.. I think it will only gets more complicated and distasteful when women begin to tell us what & what not they are obligated to. To make things much easier for everyone, women must accept the fact that they are women. |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:55pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
hucknall:I love this. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:52pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
cococandy:Ok, I'm trying my hardest to get women's logic here. To an average Woman, "You're a woman" have different meanings in different levels of conversation. (Whereas "You're a man" means the same for all conversation). I suppose the true nature of a woman varies with changing circumstances. A man would always remain true to himself in both times of war, peace and finances. I talk for every man because we have proven to be better logical in every situations. Why must it varies among the women?. Your being a woman in times of war is different from your being a woman in finances. You are being a weaker vessel in war times but the best finance manager when it comes to money management. Which was why I earlier asked if we needed any set rules to know when to appropriately situate the female gender.. Men would probably be needing some rules in the nearest future on when to tell a gender " You are a woman" 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:31pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
pocohantas:Lol.. Woman, you're funny.. I have seen you argue with men on this site and men actually did give you identity here. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:28pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
NoToPile:"You are a woman, I can't sit down and talk with a woman". It's not offensive, he is only setting his priorities. A woman would encounter you in a bus and say " You're a man, I can't sit beside a man".. That's her preference, her priority. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 10:23pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
DonroxyII:Please explain better.. Presentation like " You're a man, mop the floor? or " you're a man, buy beef when you coming back from work".. In my office, sometimes these women want to take an advantage of the fact that, " they are women" as against when the odds do not favor them. Isn't that selective greed? |
Family / Re: Why Does This Statement Gets Women Angry? by CumOnHer: 9:59pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Arsenate:If I gaslighted you, I guilty trip you, right?. I stand corrected. If I said " You are a woman" , how does it translate to gaslighting?.. I can only gaslight you if I make you feel you aren't a woman enough. Unless the statement means that I make them feel inferior. Does saying" You're a woman" makes them feel inferior?.. I don't think so, I don't believe so. |
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