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Today I want to talk about a subject I find very interesting. Its a subject I think relates to every man out there. The subject of: WORTHINESS. I was having a chat with a student recently who was suffering from a problem. The problem was, he wanted to have an incredibly HOT girlfriend. We're talking supermodel quality here. And you know what? He's not alone! EVERY guy and his brother wants to have a drop-dead gorgeous girl to come home to. But here's the problem, Most guys don't think they can GET a girl like that. So the settle. They go for girls they KNOW they can get. Girls that don't make them happy. And why does this happen? Because most men don't feel they DESERVE to have a really hot girlfriend - even if its what they want! To many guys, incredibly beautiful women seem like something "special." It seems like the only way to attract them is to be incredibly good looking yourself, or incredibly rich. But here's the thing, THAT'S SIMPLY NOT TRUE. I see guys with supermodel quality women all the time who are ugly, fat, stupid, poor, and what-not. But do you know what separates these chumps from the average guy? There's no voice in their heads that tells them they CAN'T get these women! They just GO FOR IT. Consequences be damned. And you know what? Beautiful women are still women. What works on an average girl will work on an above-average girl. You just have to be WILLING to do it. You have to BELIEVE you can get her. And here's the REALLY cool thing, Because most guys don't think they can get a hot chick, they don't even try! So the really beautiful women hardly EVER get approached! Therefor, if you know the Art Of Approaching, and you walk up to an incredibly beautiful girl, guess what? IT'S GOING TO BE EASY!!! She's going to look forward to talking to you. She's going to be interested in what you have to say. She won't reject you. Because she doesn't get approached by men who know what they're doing, and the men who DO approach her are usually LOSERS. So as you can see, the deck is stacked in YOUR favor. But you HAVE to know how to approach her the right way. If you're serious about getting a super-hot girlfriend and living a Hugh Hefner-esque lifestyle, you simply MUST get your own copy of the ART OF APPROACHING. By visiting www.artofapproaching.com |
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Have you ever heard that old familiar lament: "Nice Guys Finish Last, Jerks Get Laid?" At first glance, it would seem that is true. There are a lot of Jerks out there who are able to attract tons and tons of women. And there are a lot of Nice Guys who struggle with getting girls, and feel frustrated. After all, who wants to have to be a jerk in order to get women? Here's the thing, YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A JERK TO GET WOMEN! You just have to change a few things you tend to be "nice" about. For instance: 1. Social Restrictions We tend to believe that there are "acceptable" and "unacceptable" things to do around women. And while this is true to some extent, Nice Guys are often wrong about the limits of what is acceptable. Like being sexual around women. Many Nice Guys believe this is "inappropriate behavior." But that's wrong! Being sexual around a woman is a very powerful way of communicating your interest in her. Little things like flirting and joking about sex can go a long way into making you a potential lover instead of just a potential "friend." 2. Inability To Act Too often, "Nice Guys" wait around for the girl to make the first move to initiate romance. This is a DEADLY mistake! Women take their cues from the men they're with. If you want to escalate into a physical relationship, you have to be the one to make the first move. This can be scary. It's possible to get rejected. But if you don't do it, you won't succeed! Actions speak louder than words, and if you allow yourself to act and go in for a kiss, or not be afraid to touch her, then you communicate all the right things, Things like aggressiveness, confidence, and sexuality -- all things women find irresistibly attractive! 3. Diarrhea Of The Mouth Way too many Nice Guys like to talk about boring stuff. They do nothing to captivate the girl. Their stories don't inspire romance or attraction. In short: Nice Guys are neutered! The real trick with women is to be playful! Have fun with them! Crack jokes. Tease them. Have a good time. Show her a little bit of attention instead of focusing on yourself -- but don't take yourself for granted either! If you just talk, and talk, and talk without knowing what you're saying, you're going to bore the girl you're with. And girls who are bored with you will not be attracted to you. If you look at the three points above, you can see that the Jerks who get all the women do these things. BUT, Nice guys can do them too, and not have to act like a complete horses ass to do them! You can still be the Nice Guy you've always been, but just change three simple tactics and see a drastic improvement in your success with women. Guys follow my advice, |
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there is absolutely nothing wrong in a girl taking a guy out for a date. after all what is dat all about.?if it comes 4rm the girl that she wants to take a guy out , the guy should boldly accept and shun what others may feel or say. afterall it is give and take. |
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Different women have different expectations about what they want from a man and a relationship. For example, a young woman may not know what she wants in a relationship simply because she isn't experienced enough to know what's important to her yet. A more mature woman, one who's been in a lot of different relationships, may know exactly what she's looking for in a relationship. But there's one thing all types of women know about before they get into a relationship, They know what they're ATTRACTED to! See, the female mind processes things in this manner: 1. Is there something attracting me to this man? 2. Will this man be a good fit for me in the long term? Usually, number 1 will kick in almost immediately within the first few minutes of meeting a man. They'll start evaluating the man's attraction quotient. Number two won't kick in until number one has been met. This means that if you can get a woman really turned on, or even in bed, then she'll immediately start evaluating you based on your potential for a long term relationship. Women who try and do this backwards, by getting into a relationship and hoping the attraction will grow, usually end up disappointed. When it comes to what women are actually looking for in a relationship, you can expect these factors to come into play: 1. How well does the man treat her? 2. What is the level of attraction occurring? 3. How good is he in bed? 4. How strong is the emotional connection? 5. How good of a provider is he? Let's quickly go through these five female relationship factors, The first factor can be misleading. All women want to be treated well, but they don't necessarily want to be treated like goddesses to be fawned over. (Sure, that's okay from time to time, but too much of a good thing is a bad thing, ) Women want to feel like the man they are with is loving and strong. So if you treat them in a way where they know you care, know they are safe, but know you won't take their bullcrap, they will feel well treated. The next factor has to do with what we discussed earlier. If they are still feeling sexual attraction towards you, then this factor is met. But if things have fizzled, this could be a deal breaker. Most women aren't used to having men who are good in bed. So if you can please her between the sheets, then chances are she'll see you as a "keeper." If there is a strong emotional connection, a woman will want to be around you. She will feel connected to you and want to please you. This is a very important factor in any relationship. Women who don't have a strong emotional connection to the men they are in a relationship with will tend to cheat on them, because they aren't being fulfilled emotionally. Finally, a man who is a good provider will make a woman feel safe and cared for. Many women will gravitate towards men who can pay their bills, even if all the other relationship factors are absent. But this doesn't mean that type of relationship is a happy or stable one (for either party). Showing a woman you're a good provider is probably the least important factor in a strong relationship, but it is still a factor. But the first step you need to be aware of before you can even begin to THINK about relationships, is the initial ATTRACTION phase. And that phase starts with how you MEET her. I personally believe that any man has the potential to attract any woman. If they know what to do. |
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up blues for life. make we carry go no shaking. we strong kakaraka like bagco super sack.proudly proud to be a blues fans. all hail chelsea 4 ever |
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mine is 13th feb any match? |
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With the economy the way it is, I figure some guys out there might be having a hard time shelling out enough cash to get women to go out with them. After all, dinner, a movie, a full tank of gas, and maybe a few drinks at the bar could add up pretty quickly! So how is a guy supposed to go out on a date for less than $40? Well, first thing's first, if you're going out with a girl the very first time, try and keep things light. Have her meet you at a coffee shop. Here, you two can talk and get to know each other, and the most you'll have to spend is on two cups of coffee or tea. If you're seeing a girl for the second time, try and get her to meet you at your place, and then walk to a nice bar or restaurant that serves drinks nearby. Be sure to meet up around 8 or 9, sometime after people usually eat dinner! And just buy some drinks. This way, you don't have to pay for a meal. Have something in mind for after the date - maybe a walk around the neighborhood, or a movie back at your place, or another bar close-by to go to and hang out at. Don't be afraid to get creative on your dates either! You can take her someplace relatively cheap - like the zoo, or the aquarium, or a museum. You could even take her to an arcade and treat her to a night of gaming! Another good idea would be to buy a book about your city or town, read up on the history, and take her on a driving tour of the area, telling her interesting stories about where you live. (Trust me, this is a great way to park someplace nice and secluded and start making out!) The fact is, just because the economy is bad, doesn't mean you have to stop dating. |
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As Roma defeat against chelsea does not mean anything neither did it mean chelsea falls. every team has its ups and down.meanwhile chelsea is still the top of the group mind u. |
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HERE ARE SOME SHOCKING FACTS ABOUT WOMEN AND DATING (And Why This May Be The Most Important Letter You've Ever Read!) 1. Women Don't Place As Much Importance On Looks As Men Do. Women make judgements based more on their emotions than men do. If you know how to properly appeal to a woman's emotions, it doesn't matter WHAT you look like or how old you are! 2. Women Will Not Laugh At You Or Reject You Just Because You Approach Them. Most guys don't know the right way to meet women, so they tend to get rejected a lot, and think all women will reject them outright. But if you know the secrets to approaching women, you'll be surprized to find that women actually LIKE IT when men walk up and start talking to them! 3. Most Guys Get Stuck In The "Friend" Category Because They Meet Women The WRONG WAY. In order to not get rejected, many men will hide their true intentions and pretend they want to be "just friends." Then, once they become friends with the girl, they will reveal their true feelings - but by this time, the girl already sees him as a friend! The trick to avoid this is to build sexual tension early, but in a non-threatening way. Dear Friend: |
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what certificate requirement is needed for the job man? can someone outside wuse apply for the job. and what does the term ccgs stand for. |
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if human being repesses their emotional feelings and tend to act as if sex, love, hatred and anger does not exist, they will end up been neurotic cos if we are related we must meet. so keep meetin \ loving. |
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This Is How You Seduce A Women] Seducing women can take practice if you don't know what you are doing. No girl likes the feeling of someone leading her on only to find out that they weren't man enough to get to the finish line. One of the most common things that guys hear about seducing a woman is buying a woman gifts and/or making her laugh. Doing this can actually harm your chances of seducing her rather than helping it. The one thing that you need to know when you seduce women is that there needs to be sexual tension. "Tension" is actually replaced by the commonly used "chemistry" since sexual "chemistry" is something that is harder to relate to. We all know what tension is and have felt it before. If someone laughs or is smothered with gifts, the tension disappears. With that said, here are some tips on how to seduce a woman. 1. Get Her Alone In A Quiet Place This should be a given. If you are somewhere with a tag-along buddy, politely ask them to leave, then hand the twenty dollar compensation later. If you're in a place where she is easily distracted, than it makes it very difficult to seduce her. The less noise there is, the more tension there will be between you two. 2. Anticipation Now that it's just you two, you need to build the anticipation. You know exactly why you two are alone and she knows it too. The question is when is it going to happen and if it even will? Be a good flirter. This doesn't mean that you need to start dropping jokes on her like a comedian. It just means that you should be playful with her, acting as if she is a girl that already likes you. 3. Kiss Her This is probably the most important step when seducing. You don't want to end up being in the friend's category or stall too long. In order to take things to a romantic and sexual level, you should be able to land the kiss on her. As you guys are flirting and being playful with one another, just wait for the right moment. Be patient. The time will come. When both of guys share a moment where there are a lot of emotions floating around the room (e.g. laughed at a same joke together or shared a deep meaningful experience that both of you guys can relate), look at her and don't say anything. Go in and gently kiss her on the lips. 4. Touch Her As you are slowly kissing her, remember to not use your tongue immediately as this can be a huge turn off. Kiss her in different areas from her lips, to cheeks, to her neck. The neck is one of the most sensitive parts of the body and will turn her on even more when you gently breathe on it. As you kiss her, touch different areas of her body as if it was a beautiful sculpture. Don't go for the X-rated parts until way later. This will build up enough anticipation to drive her crazy. From here, you should have no probably getting what you want. For more tips on approaching, dating, and how to seduce a woman, visit http://www.girlseducer.com/ |
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it is very clear that men are the instructed ones to love not women.so if a woman finds a man she loves she should not say it to the mans hearing.Rather she should use whatever means she could use on the man for the man to say it instead of her saying it. |
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how una dey my people, i don hear una yannins tey tey, any way make i see talk as me see am. Me i sabi sey na wen person don chop belle full na im dey make noiseooo Abi u no know say na play play na im dem take dey see free fork And my mamma tell me say small tin nor be like devil.na im be at all at all na im bad pass[keremu keremu] abeeg if u no know say kaki no b leather make u try use am sow cloth make ur eye clear |
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it quite a pity that each time an inncident of robbery is reported our so called policemen are no where to be found not until after two hours of inncident report before their arrival. this inncident took place 400ms away from a police station so if i am not mistaken it should have taking the police nothing more than 10ms to have responded. so what is the matter with our so called police for God sake. if it is extorting money from hustling okadas /motorist they know how to respond quickly.i mean it is unspeakable. We pray God should help us all. |
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I think the time has come for rationalization in all aspect of governance. why i my saying this? the truth is this, if barrack obama has been living in america, paying taxes, contributing to the general well being of economy and has been a law abiding, sentiment should be kept aside and let meritocracy play its part. the peoples chioce should outstand in this case.that is how i feel. |
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what has a cult group got to do with the menabce our leaders are causing in our nation? does anything good come out of cultist?rather they tend to fulfil and protect thier selfish inetrest just as the said PATRICIA ETTEH. For me a cultist prof. has nothing good to offer so he should stop bluffing and go under. |
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