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It actually depends on your choice of location, just budget at least 200-250k for accommodation in any of the above listed average areas like kubwa, Lugbe, Karu |
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My alma mater. Really missed the beautiful environment. Greetings to all OAU alumni 6 Likes |
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Swtbabyvee: You might think I'm a married woman but I'm not If you think sleeping with someone else's husband as a single lady is cool and not a big deal. My sister may the peace of God be with you that's my words for you. You're entitled to your opinion and free to live your life the way that pleases you Peace... 1 Like |
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pocohantas: I think some men can love their wives dearly and still cheat. Most men cheat as a result of lack of self-control and total commitment. They see very beautiful young girls, well dressed and with banging body shape the next thing is to lust after her, in their heads the young lady is so sexy and will automatically good in bed than their wives. My observation and opinion why most married men chase single and young ladies. I agree with you that on few instances these married men might love and later decide to turn the side chic to a wife. But as a woman with good conscience, how will you be willing to ruin someone else's happiness and home for your own selfish interest by dating or agreeing to marry someone else's husband. My focus is on we young ladies and not the so called married men even though in most cases it's the married men that always chase after single girls and won't let them be but as a lady with fear of God and dignity, who is also contented with what she has should not give in, you can be firm and let your no be always no whenever any married man ask you out despite the financial gain and those heaven and earth they usually promise. To me it's by choice to date married men and not by force. If all young and single ladies will not agree to be a side chick, these men will have no choice than to stay with their wives, be committed and faithful to their marriage vows. Unfortunately dating married men is what some single ladies prefer these days. God help us 2 Likes |
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pocohantas: It's still as a result of selfish interest (financial gain, status and more) for agreeing to date them in the first place Would those ladies/women you mentioned up there agree to marry these already married old men if they're not wealthy? Well, my sister we are different and have different priorities in life, values and belief system. That's why I hardly judge people People should do whatever seems right , appropriate to them and also make them feel good. God is watching, He will reward and judge us all either here on earth or in heaven accordingly. 1 Like |
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Meteng: Hmm,,, that's life for you I believe life is not fair to an extent, that's why we see such situation 1 Like |
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As far as I'm concerned ladies have no excuse whatsoever to sleep with married men. Because the only thing they want from you is your body, they don't even love you not to talk of wanted to leave their wives for you. You are just a sex machine. I think it's only lazy ass ladies with no self worth that sleeps around especially with married men for financial gain. Thou some wealthy married men might want to entice and influence you with their money just to sleep with you speaking from experience but no amount of money can quantify your dignity and moral uprightness as a lady because after the sex and the money what else? Nothing I guess. You can make such money yourself if you are hard working, focus and ambitious in life. The most important virtue ladies should try and imbibe is contentedness, be ok and satisfied with the little you have and can get from people around you without you have to sleep around or sell your body for money. 15 Likes |
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Styl-Plus....Those guys are just too good. This their track is my favorite "Run Away 1 Like |
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Well, for me I can if I'm earning more to support him after the marriage. Honestly 30k can't really sustain two people with our present economic situation. I think we all desire at least an average or a comfort life. But I must be sure he's someone that's hard working and ambitious, I believe in short time he will get a better job or business that will earn him better money to take care of his family and take his due responsibility as a man. 5 Likes |
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Say *some ladies Honestly it pains me when you guys always generalize Nigerian girls are all about money, money &money. Though it might be majority but not all na. dizon: 1 Like |
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From my tribe.. Yoruba Though tribe shouldn't be a barrier but personally I always find it hard to love any man not from Yoruba speaking part of the country especially Igbo. Maybe because of the language and cultural differences. 1 Like |
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RIP in advance Nonsense. |
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You make good sense with your comment. onatisi: 1 Like |
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Yes oo, you are very correct ImaIma1: |
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Exactly my thought. Never judge anyone who's thinking of committing suicide or who actually did it because we're created differently, some people are naturally not strong emotionally. Just pray God should not allow you to experience something that will put you in such state of mind. This is what I have experienced before and I must confess it wasn't a sweet experience at all. it was God that actually saved me. My life and this world no longer mean anything to me then but Thank God for the last thought He use to rescued me. The thought of not wanted to hurt my family who truly loves and cares for me especially my mum, doing such might cut her life short or put her in everlasting sorrow because I know I'm her source of joy. I was like let me just live for these people if not for myself. My advice to anyone who is depressed now or any time you find yourself in a situation of having suicidal thought, just pray God should help you overcome such feelings and also think deeply why such decision is not the best, I belief you will realize there is at least one important reason for choosing life over death. Lastly, talk to someone about your feelings, it helps a lot. 2 Likes |
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Is marriage all about money and material possessions? Anyway, it's her life and her decision, we are different and have different perspective about life sha. OhiOfIhima: |
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I had similar experience last year around Central Area. It was God that saved me that day. |
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Lagos should please transfer just one of them to Abuja oo. Na only Garden full everywhere here. 3 Likes |
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Kindly read the whole chapter of Deu.22 especially verse 9-12. I don't know why some Christians make emphasis on this particular verse and ignore other things considered as abomination in the whole chapter. For example, verse 9 says “You shall not plant your vineyard with two kinds of seed, lest the whole crop be forfeited [under this ban], the seed which you have sown and the yield of the vineyard forfeited to the sanctuary ,” are we not planting 2 or even more kinds of crop/seed on the same farm land? And for 1Timothy 2v9 that chapter of the Bible is only talking about modesty in our dressing and not condemnation. May God give us better understanding and interpretation of His word. HenryInno1: 1 Like |
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Why did I get married 1 Like |
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[quote author=Techlisa post=72208998]Ladies of these qualities are everywhere but they are not noticed because they are not loud or slaying. Then you hear stuff like, she is a good woman. But not really my type ![]() Very correct |
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