Opposite attracts they say. If two partners are exactly the same, the relationship will be boring. on the other hand, that is not to say there cannot be individual differences that can be resolved, it is the approach that matters. Afterall, relationship is for the matured

@ poster. whatever the cause of the fight might be, violence should not be tolerated in any relationship. This is because such matter will translate into domestic violence in marriage. My advice is one of you should learn to be patient for the other and resolve your differences peacefully. Romance Gists is dedicated to treating issues like this and you can check out more information there

the hotness or not of a woman can only be determined by the woman. Anyway, beauty is in the eye of the beholder as what appeals to one may not to the other but for real, i like Nigerian ladies that do not overdo make ups. They are pretty!!

The reason most people lie about their age is mostly fear of rejection about the other partner as being too old for marriage. Even if you do not lie about your age, you still may not find the right spouse for yourself. Relationship is about good manners, right attitude towards life's challenges and issues and solving problems in a mature manner without being disturbed about it. You are not old until you choose not to learn, grow and make positive impact in people's life

i do not accept that opinion that marriage is not compulsory for women. We are created as opposites to complement each other in addition to the fact that we can give birth to younger ones for continuity of life. Therefore, it is as important as other aspects of life for every man and woman to find the right perfect partner .

if someone is cheating on u and u get to know. do not fight. u know why??

He will ask u for ur proof. Do what i will advice U here. it is called tactical withdrawal but before U take this step, ask the cheat i.e whoever is cheating on U direct questions as regards the relationship status with the third party.

Guage his/her reactions and responses to questions. Is he/she avoiding ur answers or asking questions back or even shouting at you? Look for
what his/her friends say about the third party's involvement.

Then u can make ur wise judgement and take a bold step before u are given the shocker of ur life. that was the step i took sometime ago and my predictions were damn accurate b4 i later bursted the relationship. Romance gists has more info that will help U in matters like this

wao! this is surprising

1. she calls you occassionally to know if u are fine

2. she goes extra mile to get things done for you

3. she does not take corrections personal or feel offended about it

i reccommend that you read "How to Keep Your Long Term Marriage Alive Even If You Think It's Too Late" at romance- gists for more dating secrets

Love is a reciprocal thing. have you told her that you love her. If U have and she does not respond, 1. she may probably not share the same feelings that u do and if she does then 2. it could be a sign tht she wants to quit . take time to study her

Hygeine is a personal issue. What will you do if the lady initially has good oral and dental care but things change along the way, lets say after u are married to her, will you divorce her for that reason? think about it

To make a date and relationship work out, you need to understand the peinciples of communication. if what your date likes to see you wear is not

what you are wearing and she begins to appreciate it on other guys, wont you be jealous? Communication is a great issue that has made many

regret losing their relationshhip. Experience is the best teaher but do not learn from ur own as this could be painful

and if you do not want that to happen to you, i advice you read about " How to Keep Your Long Term Marriage Alive Even If You Think It's Too Late "

at romance-gists.

HOW CHEAP IS WAT U CALL "CHEAP" COMPARED TO OTHER COUNTRIES' TARIFF?

i agree with ibime. bakare should stay at sng. his function at that level cannot be underestimated.

FOOD FOR TOT: HOW WERE THEY COUNTED WHILE OTHERS WERE PANICKING? WHO GAVE THE NUMBERS AS 50?

as long as anyone has standards and goals, u re boud to be envied. lack of focus, laziness, lies and backbiting have all being common traits in people that has resulted in envy

men who beats their wives do not love them at all. no reason is good enuf for the act. women ar emotional and act on impulse but quickly realise their mistakes over time. men should learn to realize this

as a man, take your stands and make her see reasons y u do not want the maid. i beleieve she will be convinced as long as u will prefer another maid

TO KEEP ROMANCE IN A RELATIONSHIP, DO NOT BE SELFISH WITH WHAT YOU HAVE, AVOID NAGGING OR REPEATED COMPLAINTS, APPRECITAE THE OTHER PARTY, SAY THANK YOU FOR SEEMINGLY LITTLE KINDNESS, SAY "I LOVE U" AND TO NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF EACH OTHER. U CAN VISIT ROMANCE GISTS FOR MORE USEFUL INFORMATION LIKE THIS

help should be defined and the motives behind it should be clear. some will ask 4 help to get close to someone else and get his secrets and once that person know wat the other party is doin, he will begin to pretend and take advantege of the so-called help finder

do you guys mean that all ladies who put their marital status are not really single. I think you should see things objectively.

Well let me tell Paha that a man will only cheat on his wife because he never really loved her initiall. It is the lust he head before marrying his wife that will push him to another woman. So i need to advice all young men there to ask one question and answer it by themselves. To what extent do you love your woman? Can you allow your woman to cheat on you. To get updates on dating and romance and have a "forever together" experience, why not visit romance gists for helpful tips. That is my own view of it all

eye sabi wetin good. Omotola has set the pace since inception of her acts in nollywood. She is natural and beautiful. Anyone that thinks she does not deserves the award should come up with another suggestion. Ok. Keep it up Baby !!

@ Sweetypie | before calling someone a fiancee, there must have been a level of commitment on both parts. people these days are involved in a boy/girl friendship and assume it to be a maritall relationship. The result of this assumption is usually agonizing. Did this guy really promise to marrry u? are ur parents involved? do u think he loves you enough to marry you. I will advice u to find out ur answers to this questions before any surprises come up so that u are best prepared for it. YOU CAN READ THE BLOG POST ON HOW TO TELL IF A MAN LOVES U so as to answer some of ur questions.

walk up to the person and tell him or her real reasons why you want to call it quits (break up). It is up to the person to accept it or not. Do not be too harsh. It is going to be painful at that moment but since you are convinced, just go ahead. This will save both parties of pains in the future thinking u never married each other.

To me, a ring might come later. When i proposed to my girl, i had no ring ready but observed she had been waiting for my proposal. Therefore did not delay any longer. If the love is mutual between the two of you, then the ring as a symbol of proposal is just a formality.

there is absolutely no need for acting it for someone to lose interest in u. wat u should do is to walk to the person and be plain about the friendship that u are quiting, It will be hurting at that moment but the two of you will live to tank each other in the future when u have found compatible mates of yours. It is that simple as i have had such experience before.

illegal ATM withdrawal has been very rampant these days and it is up to each one to beware. Never disclose ur ATM card PIN NUMBER to anyone or use ATM machines at Non-banking designated areas. These tips will help a lot.

i think i once traveled late into the night sometime ago just to see her. Then, I was yet to ask her out and that act of just seeing her then was really crazy for me.

the guy should be man enough to ask a lady to marry her but some guys are so shy especially the first time lovers. If a lady asks a guy to marry her, she will be taken as being cheap or forcing herself on a man. it is not an idea i will ever support. You can give him a sign an encourage him to ask but do not go ahead.