CHIOGO DON"T MIND THE HATERS> THEY HAVE ALL FAILED TO ANSWER A SIMPLE QUESTION?

I"VE ALWAYS LIVED IN NAIJA AND OUR MEN DO IT A LOT BECAUSE THEY THINK THAT IS THE WAY TO BE A MAN>
IT IS ABSOLUTELY WRONG BUT IT IS PREVAILENT IN OUR SOCIETY< IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN OUR WAY OF LIFE>
ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT CARRYING BAGS ALONE? WHAT THEN WOULD YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT WORKING MOTHERS IN NAIJA WHO GO TO WORK JUST LIKE THE HUSBAND< THEY BOTH RETURN AT THE SAME TIME BUT WHILE ONE SITS BY THE TV THE OTHER IS ON HER FEET IN THE KITCHEN OR WITH THE KIDS>COOKING< DOING HOUSE CHORES< PREPARING HER FAMILY FOR THE NEXT DAY WITH ABSOLUTELY NO HELP FROM HER "TIRED" HUSBAND>

THE NEXT MORNING SHE"S UP FIRST SO SHE CAN BATHE THE KIDS AND THEN REPEAT THE ROUTINE DUTIES>>>> FUNNY THING IS THAT AT THE END OF THE MONTH ITS NOT JUST THE MAN THAT PAYS THE BILL<<< THE SUPER WOMAN HAS TO PULL IN HER RESOURCES AS WELL><< SHE NEVER GETS PAID FOR THE EXTRA WORK AND THE HUSBAND DOESN"T PAY THE BILLS ALONE>>

THIS IS WHAT IS OBTAINABLE IN MOST HOMES IN LAGOS TODAY AND IT GETS WORSE THAN THAT>>>

BOTTOM LINE IS THAT IF YOU HAVE A MAN LIKE THAT< THEN DON"T BUY MORE THAN YOU CAN CARRY IF HE"S NOT GONNA HELP>

i can't believe men of today , what is the matter with you?
if your wife does not satisfy you, set her free.

you are married and lonely , so what, who bloody cares, i sympathise with the fool who woud
submit herself to be used by you.

at the end of the day, no really matured person would end up with you from this link.
bros pls try to stick to your wife and dont even try to bore us with your lonely tunes

mynat you're such a joke, and see how well you got busted,

you can't even stay true to people who do not know you,

pls foolishly get out of here. you have been a waste of time

web junior, please accept my profound sympathy for the loss and the pain you feel right now.
i am a lawyer and the law is all about right and wrong.
if there is a wrong, the law makes it right.
believe me our high courts in lagos are doing great right now, if you get a very good lawyer, you would be through with the case in a year or two.

but first i would like you to know that the courts work with evidence and not facts.
all you have said are facts, they would not get you justice cause the other side is going to come up with their own facts and believe me, it would also sound true and convincing, in the long run, it is your evidence or witnesses that would make the difference.

it would be more painful if you go to court and lose the case because of inability to provide evidence to support your case.

my advise -
1. you should stop talking and act fast. the hopital may also be guilty of the criminal act of manslaughter and not just negligence.
2. talk exensively with a medical practitioner who has not been involved in this case. he would help you with the relevant evidence you need.
3. talk to a lawyer. you may proceed to the office of the public defender or to any reputable law firm, they can take up your matter pro bono i.e free of charge.
4. the remedy you would get in court is monetary. people may say you are doing it for the money, but i'll say do it anyway, it doesn't really matter. things like this should be stopped and it starts right here, right now.

best of luck my brother and please above all, stay alive for your mum, pray hard. the ultimate thing in life is to know God. he alone will give you peace of mind.

free legal advise here -
the issue at hand is not how he got to be admitted into the university with that grade, you do not even know the course he studied or when he graduated cause i can tell you that once upon a time, a p7 was sufficient to gain admission for certain courses ,

back to the issue at hand, the guy should first try to get another job and while doing that should contact a lawyer to help him sue the bank for damages for breach of contract. the court cannot force an employee on an unwilling employer, neither can it change an employer's criteria for employment.

what the court can do is to grant -
1. damages for loss of gainlful employment due to brach of contract
2. damages for breach of contract
3. cost of the litigation

i hope he has all the documents required to prove his claims.

best of luck and act timeously

would you like to post that on a new thread?
basic ruth - if u treat your woman right she wouldn't leave you for anything

it's either of three things -

1. he doesn't trust the babe

2. he has heard certain things about her

3. he has been deceived by hi ex- and is probably takingg steps to ensure it never happens again

for whatever, reason, it is abusive. it is simply not a healthy way to keep a relationship

don't mind that person who said its bad to break upwith guys, so in the alternative you wait for the guys to break up with u if they ever will abi?

what i don't understand is if you are dating the three - but i guess u are, since u can't break up if u aint dating.

i would have advised you to pick the one you love but since he knows of the other two, i guess you should ditch them all, nicely and start afresh. and next time don't get tangled like that, the human heart is pretty delicate so be careful who you listen to

first i'ld ask myself these questions -

would he die for me?

what happens after i'm gone?

what happens to the other people that love me so much?

what is the first rule of survival?

and what the hell has love got to do with suicide?

today, my answer is NO WAY! I CAN BUT I WONT

thanks in a million toniaslim, this one is for you - on both cheeks

alright!

just make a u-turn , cause this is the end of the road

last babe standing

and what makes youu think he can't do that?

well, because today values are lower, temptations higher and a lot of men do not seem to want to fight the temptations. they are simply thrilled by them. sometimes, they even go out of their ways to seek them out - and what you seek, thou shall definitely find.

another reason is that men want to eat their cake and have it by enjoying the best of two worlds!

i worship at RCCG and i couldn't agree more that the 'guilty' ones are not the real members/workers of the church. they are the floaters and in my parish, their aim is to be noticed by what they wear. you should see the things they wear, i had wondered why they had been tolerted for sooooo loong!

the church is what it is -  A CHURCH. it is a place of worship and reverrence to God. these affected set of people would not wear such clothings to their offices or other places if it is not allowed, why abuse the privileges we have in the church?

i support the ban 100%. i love wearing trousers, but trousers in the redeemed church would never be the order of the day! tu comperre?

go where?

who says

i had the same problem about the time you were having yours. my supposedly quite mother in law complained about the food and quietly tried to take over my houe help by changing the rules in the house.
the only solution is if she leaves. that was when i had peace. the worst thing was that i was doing al the cooking and nursing straight from the time i gave birth, it was hell. only God saw me through cause there were times i wanted her to have it straight,
next time, it's definitely not going to be her. my mother still works anyway.
so in summary, the solution is patience until she leaves

"Everybody to his or her phone. That is the only way

to avoid wrecking your home especially in these days

of women's infidelity.

If you like shout Crucify him crucify him"

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i suppose you meant 'men and not women's infidelity'. what percentage of married women are really unfaithful to their spouses compared to the men folk?

anyway this issue is basically one of trust or lack of it. it all depends on what yor spouse does or doesn't do but it shouldn't become an obsession and it is definately not a right of either party. it is a simple privilege, you may have it and you may not. that is the way life and relationships go

'naughty knotty'! you and i know that an old flame would not solve the problem. you both should sort things out, afterall you had enough love to say'i do' and the old flame who was not good enough for the alter should not be an alternative to the best woman you married!

i want to say a prayer for my sister in law who is presently down with cancer. the hospital just gave up on her, she is just too young to die.
i ask for a miracle - that her health be restored!

ouch ola, that is not so true. what happened to a man being responsible for his actions, why blame somebody else , moreover, i believe a man should be on top of things at the home front. it takes two to make a mess of a marriage! the same way it takes two to make it a bliss. you got it right when you said a player would never stop playing unless he suffers injury- meaning, a player would play, no matter how good or bad the wife is, he is 'a player'!
. thubs up to you Analytical and to all those who would stay faithful to the wives of their vows , its absolutely the right thing to do.

i've talked to a lot of men, single and married and i discovered that those who are not already cheating on their wives, aspire to do so as soon as the opportunity presents itself.

i've been searching for that man who would not cheat on his wife, i haven't found one. have you?

well there wasn't much to like about it especially if you served in a state where being recognised as a corper automatically meant you will be ripped of by any means possible.
i am a size 5 but i got a size six boot, it felt like i was wearing a canoe and as for the jacket, even the tailor i took it to could not savage it. at the end of my service, i gave out my entire kit to prisoners.
my luggage got lighter and i didn't haave eto think of whre to keep the God-Forsaken items

hello somebody, i'm a new member and i was really thrilled when i came across your thread.
i have always wanted to travel to the U.K but my problem is not knowing the opportunities i have.
as a lawyer i would not like to do odd jobs, pls advise on posssible jobs and required qualification.
i am only eligible to practise law in nigeria