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Certification And Training Adverts / Oracle Sql Dumbs Pleazzzzzz by egbejoseph(m): 3:51pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Hi ppl, pls can anyone help with a link for oracle SQL dumbs. I have one for cisco but Oracle is disabled on it. Thanks. |
Technology Market / Oracle Sql Dumbs Pleazzzzzz by egbejoseph(m): 3:28pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Hi ppl, pls can anyone help me with a link 4 oracle sql dumbs.my link for cisco doesnt work for oracle.Thanks |
Technology Market / Oracle Sql Dumbs Pleazzzzzz by egbejoseph(m): 3:25pm On Jun 23, 2009 |
Hi ppl, pls can anyone help me with a link 4 oracle sql dumbs.my link for cisco doesnt work for oracle.Thanks |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Bedmate by egbejoseph(m): 9:19pm On Oct 28, 2008 |
bed mate in NL, u should be out of ur mind!! |
Romance / Re: I Need To Cheat On My Man by egbejoseph(m): 9:03pm On Oct 28, 2008 |
its totally senseless trying to cheat on him cos of pompousity. I agree with those who say he is insecure but more importantly guys do this at times not to be committed and simultaneously in such relationship. You have to talk this straight up with him and if it still persists, babe run! wwwdotegbesoccer..com |
Romance / Re: Why Are Girls Like This? by egbejoseph(m): 8:55pm On Oct 28, 2008 |
Ujujoan: its so unfortunate you get happy when guys are duped. this thought of yours will fail you. All girls=most girls |
Romance / Kissing Techniques by egbejoseph(m): 12:11pm On Oct 24, 2008 |
Hi people, Before you poke in your lips into her/his salacious mouth, be sure to read this: Basic Kissing Tips Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss. Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience. Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction. Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. http://www.egbesoccer.blogspt.com/ |
Romance / Why Are Girls Like This? by egbejoseph(m): 12:40pm On Oct 16, 2008 |
This is a summary of my last relationship. please read it carefully. ur comments will be appreciated. I started dating her at a time when she broke up with her boy friend. The reason 4 heir break up was infidelity on the part of the guy.As far as I was concerned, the guy was out and out of her life for good. Please dnt get me wrong, I never tried to blackmail him, I just tried to make her have a conviction that the guy was no longer part of her. Initially I believed she didn’t need this guy bt as time elapsed I gat to realize she acted otherwise. The guy has always been persistent about her so he tried to see her but I expected her to not put up with it. At an instance I got to know she had to sleep in the guy’s house overnight! I couldn’t believe it. How could she have put herself in such a compromising mode? both to herself and our relationship? I asked if anything happened bt she told me nothing did. Not even a touch from him. I find that hard 2 believe. Do u think so? She later tld me the reason she had to go 2 his house was that “there was fire on the mountain”. She said the guy told her she has a message from a ‘prophet’. The prophet said he shld tell the girl she was part of his life and nothing can change that- not even a quarrel. So they had to go and see the ‘prophet’ that evening.why not during the day? I never believed this. he even went further telling her an event which happened some time when they were together. The girl wrote on his bible then ‘I will never break ur hrt’ after a quarrel. The ‘prophet’ said she had to fulfill that. She said she was afraid of what he was saying so she had 2 consider him thereby leaving me. My inference Why should girls be so fickle minded?- so unstable in their reasoning. One time they kiss u and say ‘ I love you’ while you really mean saying the same thing to them; another time its history for just flimsy excuses. Why should she be dating a guy out of fear 4 what the ‘prophet’ said? It means for her whole life she is bound to this guy even if he cheats on her again! I am single now and I know am not daunted by this experience. My true love is out there who will love me the way I am. I believe she is not the one 4 me bt the circumstances of the break up was full of flaws. Why is it that MOST girls are like this? www.egbesoccer..com |
TV/Movies / Re: Which Movie Character Would You Play? by egbejoseph(m): 6:23pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
will smith in every film he has acted. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Jt's Future At Risk! by egbejoseph(m): 3:45pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
Medical experts and England's top football brass are starting to have serious doubts over captain John Terry's England future, according to reports, Stopper John Terry's uncompromising style has led to fears that he'll struggle to fulfil his duties as recently appointed permanent England captain. The Daily Mail reports that England and Chelsea medical staff have alerted the FA to their concern that the 27-year-old's injury woes are only going to get worse as he moves into the veteran stage of his career. The Blues defender is out of Wednesday's trip to Belarus, having already missed the weekend win over Kazakhstan. Last season, Terry's all-or-nothing attitude helped him to collect a variety of injuries. He was seen in a fetching protective mask after a cheekbone fracture, before going on to suffer a metatarsal break, a hamstring problem and an elbow complaint. Now, he has a back problem that continues to resist treatment, ruling him out of the double-header of World Cup Qualifying action. An expert was quotes as saying: "The body can cope with only so much trauma." Indeed, Terry has missed over a quarter of England's games over the past three seasons and his Blues appearances are also on the decline and the rigours of top flight football continue to wear down his body. In-demand West Ham defender Mathew Upson has tried to warn Terry, saying: "John puts his body on the line every week. "The older you get, the more you start to get these problems and it's a case of getting good advice, good treatment, and making sure your body's strong enough to compete. "You don't want a chronic problem after years of pounding away." Terry would be wise to heed the warnings with Rio Ferdinand performing well as interim captain under Fabio Capello. The question is, is Terry a good enough player to 'take it easy' and still be a fearsome defender? Liam Black, Goal.com www.egbesoccer..com |
Romance / Love Poems For your Loved Ones by egbejoseph(m): 3:40pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
A Special World A special world for you and me A special bond one cannot see It wraps us up in its cocoon And holds us fiercely in its womb. Its fingers spread like fine spun gold Gently nestling us to the fold Like silken thread it holds us fast Bonds like this are meant to last. And though at times a thread may break A new one forms in its wake To bind us closer and keep us strong In a special world, where we belong. - Sheelagh Lennon - An Entrapment My love, I have tried with all my being to grasp a form comparable to thine own, but nothing seems worthy; I know now why Shakespeare could not compare his love to a summer’s day. It would be a crime to denounce the beauty of such a creature as thee, to simply cast away the precision God had placed in forging you. Each facet of your being whether it physical or spiritual is an ensnarement from which there is no release. But I do not wish release. I wish to stay entrapped forever. With you for all eternity. Our hearts, always as one. - Anthony Kolos - www.egbesoccer..com |
Romance / Re: A Lady Should Marry The Guy Who Love her Or The Guy She Love by egbejoseph(m): 3:31pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
I would be more comfortable saying a lady should marrry someone who loves her more than she loves him. At least that could keep the whole thing moving and hopefully their love could be at par. Cheers. www.egbesoccer..com |
Sports / Kanu:we Need To be Cautious by egbejoseph(m): 3:20pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
Nigeria's star striker, Nwankwo Kanu, has warned his team-mates that the task that awaits them in the third phase of World Cup qualifying will be a step up in quality. The Nigerian team recorded a 100% record in the second round of their 2010 World Cup/Nations Cup qualifying campaign, and were the only African team to accomplish this feat. They also conceded only one goal in qualifying , and that was an own goal by Everton defender Joseph Yobo (who has a knack for scoring against his 'Keeper these days). In an interview with kickoffnigeria.com, the Portsmouth striker stated that the next round would be more strenuous than this round that has just finished. "The next round is where it is going to get more difficult for us," Kanu told the website. "If we think some games were difficult this time, they will be even more difficult in the next round." He also urged his team mates to avoid letting the brief success in the last round get to their heads, as it would all amount to nothing if they fail to impress in the coming months. "I would like to commend the players, and the NFA for doing well in the last round. But everything we did before, we will have to do double if we want to qualify for the World Cup. "It is very important for us to go to the World Cup and we all have to work hard as players and as managers." he added "Everybody has to do their part. We have to take every game seriously, as if it is the World Cup final because we cannot afford to make any mistakes this time" www.egbesoccer..com |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Fans: Identify Yourselves Here (Old) by egbejoseph(m): 3:00pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
Hello people, Chelsea 4 ever! we are the best and when we play the whole of England is at ease.Cheers! www.egbesoccer..com |
Romance / Dealing With Separation Or Divorce by egbejoseph(m): 2:04pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
One of the most painful events you can go through in your life is the loss of a partner--whether it be from death or from divorce. The effects of the stress of these life changing events are well documented and there are many variations of life stressor lists and what these stressors do to us. At the top of most lists is death of spouse/partner and this particular list that we found includes divorce and separation as the #2 and #3 stressors. So coming through a divorce or separation with ease and with as little pain as possible is usually a pretty difficult thing to do. Here are a few things that we've found to ease the pain after a break up or divorce and help you to get on with your life, 1. While it's very important to think of your separation or divorce as a death (which it certainly is), it's also important not to stay stuck there. If you find that you are telling the same people the same story over and over or if you are going to restaurants where the two of you went or watching the shows that the two of you watched or listen to the music that the two of you listened to, we suggest that you stop. Each time that you do those things, you are opening yourself to reliving the pain of the past. While it's important to remember good memories or even the bad ones to remind you why you left if you were the one who left, choose to not stay in the past. 2. Mourn actively. You might try to make some completions around this relationship. It's often helpful to burn old letters or other things that remind you of your relationship to symbolically let it transform into another form. You might return items of your partner or retrieve your items. Ask yourself this question--What completions do I need to feel more complete? 3. Look at your relationship from the vantage point of the present moment and not from what you hoped could have been. See your situation from realistic eyes instead of those filled with guilt or regrets. If you have something to feel guilty about, decide if you want to apologize to the other person. It may be just as effective to write a letter of apology to your previous partner and then burn it ceremonially. If you have regrets, you may want to write those regrets in a letter and burn it. Don't hang onto old feelings in the past because you will only re-create them with someone new. 4. Begin to look at what you want your life to be like now that you are no longer in this relationship. Begin to look forward and not backward. Know that having painful feelings is normal after a break up or divorce and doing some mourning of the relationship is good. But it's also important and even vital to your health and well-being to do some active things to put closure on that relationship, learn from it and move into your life without that person--which can actually be even more wonderful--believe it or not. http://www.egbesoccer..com/ |
Romance / Love Making Tips For Long-term Relationships by egbejoseph(m): 1:35pm On Oct 14, 2008 |
If you've been in a long-term intimate relationship, it’s likely that you’ve been making love together for many years. You may even wonder why you even need to read an article about lovemaking but keep reading for some surprises that may just help you re-energize your love connection. You’ve possibly forgotten a few things over the years and there could be some new things you’d like to try out. Consider these love making tips… 1. Make time for romance and love in your relationship. It’s too easy to give love making a low priority as the lists of life stack up. Couples like this may intend to get to it when things calms down, but it just doesn’t happen. You have to create time in your life for what’s important to you. And, if intimate time together is important, make time for it. Perhaps spontaneity just won’t work for you, instead block out time for a “love date” and make sure nothing gets in the way of that date. 2. Honestly communicate with your partner and yourself if you don’t feel like making love. Sometimes it’s not as simple as it sounds to do this. Whether real or imagined, physical ailments can get in the way of intimacy. Sometimes you may feel too tired or just not in the mood for love making. Whatever the case, be honest in letting your partner know what’s going on and then set up a time when you know you’ll feel better or have more time to connect. If you are experiencing disconnection from your partner, don’t make excuses like “I have a headache.” Face the issue honestly with your partner and you will undoubtedly feel improvement. 3. Let go all concerns—whether it’s the kids, work, or other things—and focus on each other. Clear all extraneous worries, fears, or other thoughts from your mind when lovemaking. If this isn’t possible, tell your partner what’s going on and then go make time for clarity. Take a walk or other activity that will allow for this. You may need to work with your partner on an issue or problem that is distracting you. Deal with that first, then shift your focus to the love you share. Creating more passion in your love making can happen for you and these are just a few ideas to try. Opening up to new ways and skills will allow your relationship to deepen. www.egbesoccer..com |
Romance / Must Read For Toasters! by egbejoseph(m): 11:35pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
This will be useful if you guys are proposing[i]: Do Talk to Her Parents We've come a long way from when women were property who needed their father's permission, yet, there is still something nice and respectful about asking for the parents' blessing. Do Pick a Personal Spot Think about your favorite romantic places -- choose a meaningful spot to pop the question. It could be as simple as in your living room, or as complicated as whisking her away for a weekend in Paris. Just don't ask her in a supermarket aisle! Do Be Creative Incorporate your personality, favorite things, foods etc. into the proposal. Make it memorable rather than a cookie cutter proposal. Do Drop to One Knee It's not 1950, but there is something so charming and romantic about a man on one knee asking the love of his life to marry him. Even if you're not a traditional guy, it will add to the seriousness and lovingness of the proposal. Do Tell Her Why You Want to Marry Her Don't just utter those 4 little words, tell her why she's the one for you, what marriage means to you, and what your hopes for the future are. You might say something like "My life has never and could never be the same after I met you. You've made me more joyful, more stable, and more inspired. I can't picture the rest of my life without you by my side. Will you do me the honor of marrying me?" Do Share the News Take a moment to reflect on your engagement, but bring along a cell phone or calling card for sharing the good news. Don't: Don't Make it Public If script-writers are to be believed, every wedding proposal takes place in front of a thousand people. But unless she's said she wants a splashy proposal, make it intimate and personal thing. Most brides would prefer to have that magical moment be just the two of you – after all, you've got the rest of your lives to tell other people about your marriage but you've only got one engagement moment. Don't Hide the Engagement Ring in Food I hate to say it, (as I'm sure there are some readers who were planning to do just this) but hiding the engagement ring in food is a tired idea. It's been in a thousand movies and TV shows, and you won't win any points for creativity. Even worse, you may end your romantic proposal with a trip to the emergency room or the dentist. Don't Propose at a Sports Game Games are loud and chaotic events. Even if she is the biggest sports fan you ever knew, the arena doesn't allow you to have any of the reflection and focus that making such a momentous decision deserves. Don't Do it in Front of Her Family While your families will merge with your wedding, it is not their decision to do so. Proposals in front of family have an added level of stress that you don't need. Take this moment to be just the two of you; don't worry, you can call everyone immediately afterwards. Don't Make it Too Complicated While it's good to be creative with your proposal, it is important to keep the focus on what's important: the proposal itself. If you are worrying about whether or not the limousine will get to the balloon ride in time, you're worrying about the wrong thing. Don't Propose Too Early in the Relationship When you're in the first flush of love, it's hard not to do impetuous and foolish things. Yet waiting until your relationship is stable will only strengthen your marriage. Make sure you really know each other, and what each other wants from a marriage before you commit to it for the rest of your lives. Don't Expect Her to Say Yes Immediately You're asking someone to spend the rest of their life with you – an extremely important decision. Just because you've asked, doesn't mean she is ready to say yes. If your sweetheart says maybe, take it in stride and give her some time to consider the proposal. After all, you wouldn’t want this amazing person to marry every Tom, Dick and Harry who asked her, would you? |
Romance / Resolving Conflicts In Your Relationship by egbejoseph(m): 11:18pm On Oct 13, 2008 |
Resolving Conflict Conflict is inevitable. How we handle it is what makes the difference. When the structure of a love relationship breaks down, while fault may not necessarily be evenly distributed, both partners must ultimately accept equal responsibility. You are in this together. It takes two for a healthy love relationship to work and it takes two to perpetuate an unhealthy love relationship. Seek not to place blame. What difference will that make? You both know the truth about what happened. Who cares whose fault it is? "I do!" she screamed, "You just can't imagine what a jerk he is!" He quickly and angrily countered with, "I wouldn't be such a jerk if you wouldn't nag at me all the time!" Blah! Blah! Blah! Who cares whose fault it is? If you love each other, focus on solving the problem! What happened, happened. That's all! It's not healthy to make things up about why something happened or who did what to whom. Again. . . who cares? The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding that benefits both love partners. Resolving conflict brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise. Specific conversations, designed to "talk things out" will assist you on your path of self-discovery and they are a useful tool for resolving conflict. It brings about a higher awareness of your love partner's wants and needs. Constructive conversations help to avoid repeating the patterns of behavior that incite the controversy that problems create in the first place. It takes two, working together to explore workable solutions that ease the tension that occurs when problems arise in a relationship. A determination to resolve conflict by conversation offers a chance for healing and promotes the opportunity to become closer to the one you love. Men and women are different, or have you noticed? Cherish the differences. Learn to accept and be with or accept the things you cannot change about each other. Acceptance tills the soil that allows for individuality to grow. www.egbesoccer..com |
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