@Bobbiemae Really?
Pity the poor guy since he has to go through such wipping like a stubborn goat. I'm sure he must be having a hell of time.

That was so touchy, I know u will find someone better. I can assure you that the guy is not good enough for you. Believe me, anybody who will leave you for no good reason isn't worth ur pride. You may have learnt the hard way but it's all part of life. It's only a mistake if it repeats itself. However, do not rush into another relationship nor stay broken hearted but pray as you are doing and you will soon find your real soul mate.
On a last lap, it's not about Nigerian men or African men, it's not a cultural thing also, it's an individual thing so don't take it out on nigeria men.
Bless u.

I know can and will. Infact I am looking for such persons. I believe such people understand love a lot better. They know that u are not in it for their beauty but for real. I will also consider what sort of phsical challenge we are talking about. I should be able to talk to the person on a worse case scenario.

Hey, this is one hell of a topic to discuss.
first, he should consider the cost of any action he wants to take. It will be nice if he can trick her to naija and abandon her in naija but what about the kids? If they all come to naija with the kids and he decides to abandon her here, what will be the fate of his kids? The law certainly does not favour him there but if he is sure of the welfare of his kids here, he should trick her to naija and abandon her here.
He must do something otherwise she would kill him when she has found a suitable partner and she perceive him as standing on her way. The most dangerous thing is: being married to an adulterous woman.
Ya guy better be wise before that moda fucker sends him to early grave.

Man enjoy it while it last, that's the way it goes.

Hi MEDA, check the topic 'will you marry me' if that is ok by you then hola me at egedeamos@yahoo.com

U 're too vague. Are u male or female?
Wat do u want or u mean u can settle 4 just anything?

It's ok to marry a non graduate but u have to check the mentality of the guy in question.
Peace.

The truth is; both parties do fault. It will be wrong to say man or woman coz it's a mind thing. Believe me .
Will be back soon.

Hi there, I mean u Mamaput. Happy birthday.
Don't lie, I did that and it causes me big wahala.

Have a great, great, great, day and many happy returns.

The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that  and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.

@ tundefajim, Man u got it all. There's a reasonable difference between the two but one will need to be a lot more broad minded to comprehend the difference. For emphasis sake: I would like to say that while lust is selfish, sensual and carnal, love is selfless and spiritual. it takes only a matured mind to love in true sense. Narrowing down to the love between man and woman, you would understand that it takes only a matured mind to love. we have all been in situation where we thought we were in love with a girl/boy only for the love to grow wings in a short while. true love never end. You may not end up marrying the person but somewhere in your heart you are sure that you truly love that person.
Lust comes with all the passion and your watch your adrenaline level go sky high yet, it always because, True love is always inspite, This is not to say that love is madness but check out God who loved/loves us inspite our dirty acts and short comings. More often than not, you people who are in relationship for convenience and what the other party has to offer, you will have to ask yourself; AM I TRULY IN LOVE? How far can you go for love? Sad enough, we have been coerced into thinking that love has to with passion alone, let me add that passion is short lived. we have all been with very beautiful girls whom you may not understand how you got tired of such babes, meanwhile at the beginning it was like this will be it forever. that describes lust at it peak. It nose dives soon as the selfish interest is satisfied especially when it isn't obvious that there are more prospect in the kitty.
My take always will be love. Get wise.

I dont understand why u guys think that people met on the internet are all fake. I guess u are just speaking for yourselves. here in Naija, people meet on the net and get married and also live happily ever after, at least I know a few couple. It all depends on who u are meeting. First u must understand that meeting the person is just the first thing, ur accessment of the person depends on you. Why would u start dating someone seriously without checking out what u are going into? Internet guys are not entirely poor. I access internet from my office and I have a good job so I couldn't be poor neither am I a low life.
just check out your option before you start anything.

@ Damollar. Man I hear you but u need to understand the situation. I do not think that saying 'will u marry me' is a dumb ass question otherwise you will have to put what u mean in proper context. I think I am lot more straight and sincere than most folk. lots of guys and babes out there do not know how to move on with their lives after a broken relationship. On a serious not, I am not short for words/ideas about wooing babes, I want to see who's daring and willing this time around. This is not to massage my ego but just to be sure we both want it as well. I will keep you posted when I get my babe and I must add I don't really care where and how I get here. If it's at nairaland good, otherwise anywhere will do.
I am keeping my head up man.

But I just made the move, what else should a brother do? I just want to be sure that the babe knows exactly what she wants and that is one quality that trips me about any babe. Forget about being cheap, you think I amcheap by saying out loud what I want, I am only focused and straight, no fronting.

Yeah Yolanda. I'm just keeping it real. U 've to be sure what u want or u never get it.

Hi have u read my post 'will u marry me'. I am gainfully employed but I reside in PH. If u can come to Ph, then give me a link to ur contact.
I am waiting for you.

Wat's ur yard stick for measuring love?
Love has never been 50/50. I dare add; love has never met it's equal, maybe it's a curse I am yet to figure it out.

I am a 34yr old Nairalander good looking guy. I just broke up with my fiancee and I really need a serious minded babe for a wife (I am not kidding).
The right babe must hold at least a HND, B.Sc in any decipline, must be between 26-34yrs old. Must be a christian and ambitious. Could be working or an applicant. (Students are not eligible). Good looks are not very necessary but the right babe must be charismatic and have a loving  heart.  Unserious minded babes need not respond.
If you are intersted, give me a link to your contact.  Or better still, contact me @ (egedeamos@yahoo.com) .
I am looking forward to loving you.

Ugwumba, thanx man! tell that brother @ lion wetin to cut that crab. who's fooling who. He should start getting ready to be changing diepers. I am sure he's trying to impress some sistas in the house. 50/50 house chores no way men! supprised a full blooded brother would tow that line. lion wetin. are u sure u are capable of paying ur bills? or u' re looking for a sista to help u out.
Get real, I am out.

Hi Kaego, I am also new, got in here today and I like to say a big welcome to my fellow newcomer.
I believe we are going to have a good time here

I am suprised that nobody has mentioned asking the guy where he worships or is everyone in the house an infidel? I just came to the house today and please don't make me run.
Anyway, I believe those questions would come naturally except if you are planning to make it an interview section in which case you will loose the guy soon. My advice to my sista; please take it one thing at a time.
Peace.