Me I'm at the cross road of being a bar manager earning 20K/ month n a sale Rep. Earning 65k/ month.

Sound straight forward right?

Lemme break it.
Bar manager:- new hotel, possible of increasing salary n upgrading of positions also will see some cash at the end of the day..

Sales Rep.:- 1600/ day, 15k monthly, Possibly of running lost if cares not taking (tho both of them are pron to run into debt)

But considering the stress and also the fact that the bar manager position is available right away while the Sale Rep. Will be available next year is really confusing.

They sha want to join this man by fire,by thunder

Abeg, I fit relocate come there oo

I dey Ilorin presently, hope it comes with accommodation?

In BTW, I'm in your DM

TUANKU:
What is the problem? The problem is that both parents have an entitlement mentality. Reduce the pay from 400k to 200k and watch that nonsense entitlement mentality stop.

Bro... Learn how to talk without sounding "Off key". merely looking at Op write up, someone could've deduced s/he talking about elders s/he's relatively close to, now imagine you calling someelse parents such names, in the name of making your comments known.

Simple construction without sounding " off key" you can't.

I wouldn't have tell if you didn't have formal education tho.

Cos this manner is not way beyond at all.

Continuity....

Is she right or wrong on her decision?

And hope the age gap is not an issue couple the fact that they've started dating for the past 2 years which means she started dating him when she was 18 yrs?

:

Maj196:
Apart from Lagos, Abuja and maybe Kano, Rivers I don't think there's any place viable in Nigeria for employment unless it's a remote job. So maybe you should try and look for remote roles online that doesn't need physical presence.

Torh... Thank you so much.

Na every comment I don read, some of una dey encouraging why some tah...

Me don dey fear for diz my banny oo

Make I no run away one day...

She look normal to me n healthy tho,coz I b dey reason say SS na dem dey get dat big head n small arm with big belle dat kain thing n sores
But diz my bby na confirm full package.😅

But everything wey dey do ham don dey look lyk SS syndrome to me oo 😅

She dey always dey weak, small stress like this she don tired
She dey get headache small small
She dey always get chest pain
She don bleed once from nose for my eye wey fear catch me but she talk say na harmattan 😅 (me no believe oo)

Yet she dey tell me she no b SS oo though I b AA but Omo menh I no wan fall victim oo
make love no blind me abegi. I still small to carry wahala put for house. (No shades, pls)

Maj196:
My advice if you can move to a better state like Lagos because that place hmm

I don't even have anybody in Lagos that I can stay with currently, the only place I have chance is in Akure, n I don't think there is a differences btw them in terms of job availabilities.

Maj196:
Ilorin is a dead city in terms of job prospects. The only job you can get is in school, hotel, bank, sales

To say the truth, most of my recent interview callers are school principals with minger as low as 20-25K as salary. Ni B.Sc holder with second class upper oo.

I was just mesmerized with reality here like with all night classes n reading for the past 7 yrs, so it's 20K that I will now settle down with?

Allawee that we were even complained about then that was too small was even much more better than all these offers.

AngelSlay:
Check JobZoneNG on telegram.

Thank you buddy.

Please, out of curiosity, is there no job in this Ilorin?

Coz I have been job hunting since I finished my service year for the past 2 months now, but seems job is not coming forth.

Ti's really getting me worried.

Abi my location is not worth it ni

Inbtw, I'm in sango area axis.

Hello N'Landers
I just concluded my National youth service last month which I did in KWARA state, fear of unknown has started settling in and I don't want to go and be collecting card money from my mum, though I have knowledge in graphic design,Web marketing and the likes, but job is not coming forth as expected.
Another thing is, I want to base here, in which I chose Ilorin as my target , but I don't have any family in Ilorin though I do have a friend that can house me for the meantime, pls if you or your audience can help me secure a job in Agriculture line or anyone that can help me with a job to put food on my table I will be more appreciated.

In-between, I'm a male, 26 yrs old.
Thank you.🙏🏼"

Hello N'Landers
I just concluded my National youth service last month which I did in KWARA state, fear of unknown has started settling in and I don't want to go and be collecting card money from my mum, though I have knowledge in graphic design,Web marketing and the likes, but job is not coming forth as expected.
Another thing is, I want to base here, in which I chose Ilorin as my target , but I don't have any family in Ilorin though I do have a friend that can house me for the meantime, pls if you or your audience can help me secure a job in Agriculture line or anyone that can help me with a job to put food on my table I will be more appreciated.

In-between, I'm a male, 26 yrs old.
Thank you.🙏🏼"

Hello N'Landers
I just concluded my National youth service last month which I did in KWARA state, fear of unknown has started settling in and I don't want to go and be collecting card money from my mum, though I have knowledge in graphic design,Web marketing and the likes, but job is not coming forth as expected.
Another thing is, I want to base here, in which I chose Ilorin as my target , but I don't have any family in Ilorin though I do have a friend that can house me for the meantime, pls if you or your audience can help me secure a job in Agriculture line or anyone that can help me with a job to put food on my table I will be more appreciated.

In-between, I'm a male, 26 yrs old.
Thank you.🙏🏼"

Hello N'Landers
I just concluded my National youth service last month which I did in KWARA state, fear of unknown has started settling in and I don't want to go and be collecting card money from my mum, though I have knowledge in graphic design,Web marketing and the likes, but job is not coming forth as expected.
Another thing is, I want to base here, in which I chose Ilorin as my target , but I don't have any family in Ilorin though I do have a friend that can house me for the meantime, pls if you or your audience can help me secure a job in Agriculture line or anyone that can help me with a job to put food on my table I will be more appreciated.

In-between, I'm a male, 26 yrs old.
Thank you.🙏🏼"

olawumi171:
Pls did u apply to a university and got admission letter before applying for scholarships??

Am I supposed apply for university before applying for the said scholarship?

I don't understand?

Hello NL
I don't know maybe this is worthy of rely on, I'm applying for a scholarship in this McCall MacBain school, whereby I have already drop my resume, statement of result and all that, but I'm being skeptical about it when it turns to my transcript cause they request for it.

I want to ask whether it's worth giving it a try or I should just abandon the project or maybe likely someone will enlighten me more during your own process.
Thanks.

Hello House...

My situation is actually a funny one.
I met my lady virgin which we maintain till we eventually make vow on alter last month.
King, I don't know how to say this but I will eventually say it as it's.
I can't penetrate my woman, king, it as if she doesn't have a place to penetrate, we've tried possible best, use lubricant and all sort but the pain is actually unbearable for her.
I don't know what to do
Help me push it to gain more audience for ppl to come to my aid.
I love my wife and I can't do without her. Pls.


copied.

Good day Nlanders,
Will make this as short as possible.
I'm a youth Corp member posted to one of the SW States in Nigeria, not quite long, I had a biz idea which is "Charcoal biz", I have done some certain findings about it, also, I have raised up to 160K as a capital but it seems I have not done enough in my own view.
Pls any opinions, suggestions and recommendations on this, will be appreciated.

Good day Nlanders,
Will make this as short as possible.
I'm a youth Corp member posted to one of the SW States in Nigeria, not quite long, I had a biz idea which is "Charcoal biz", I have done some certain findings about it, also, I have raised up to 160K as a capital but it seems I have not done enough in my own view.
Pls any opinions, suggestions and recommendations on this, will be appreciated.
@Mods, please I need more audience on this..
pls can you post for me.
Thanks.

Hello tueh tueh...
Testing mic 🎤

Holla to you all gees in the house..

another banger.

One of my friends came to me yesterday, as we were gisting, he kept mute and all of a sudden he just asked me "Bro, wetin fit dey make girl dey cry wen making out with her?"

I acted as if I didn't hear coz it was out of context we were discussing about life you throw woman matter enter but it seems he was disturbed about the matter bcoz of his persistence, I have to asked why did he say that, he said " My gf no dey enjoy s*x at all, on penetrating naso so cry she go dey cry n na d girl wey I b dey plan to marry o" I bursted into laugh coz the lady in question is not a v¡rgin so why will she be crying or in pain during intimacy.

Tho I have advice him to tell his gf to go for check up probably gynecology specialist will do better.

But why I brought this up here is the issue that he needs more enlighten on ( by his consent tho) coz " If you marry today, you marry for ever" deep down in me I know this is a big issue when talking about future references but I don't want to break my friend heart as he's into this girl so much "Make Dem no use me as topic later"

what can be the cause?
what if it become big issue in the nearest future?

Revolution2022:
Illuminatti them.

wetin kozan illuminati with this case now??

Some ppl n bungalow na something, nothing dey d upstairs.

The way they speak sometimes can tell you 60-70% about someone.l

Hello Nlanders,

I have a brother who has Nigeria passport and Mali passport and he wants to travel to Kuwait.

The question now is, which one has higher chances in securing Kuwait visa faster?

This shouldn’t be an arguable discussion to be candid.
FG work that you will have your precious time at your “disposal” is more preferable to private work that will sniff your life out of you if care is not taken.

I had a boss one time ago, she will resume work around 10:0am n left 12:00pm every day and her salary was gigantic, which I knew she can’t do like that if she’s working in a private parastatal.

hammed71:
he went toNiger state, not the country

Brother you Dey mind some ppl.

Some ppl are so gullible in discernment eh!

Common sense suppose give headlights sometimes even if OP do mistakes.

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Good day Nlanders,

Is it possible to receive only ghost ( speaking in tongue language, healing and all aspects of spiritual gift) without being baptized?

Addiction is one thing, accountability is another thing entirely.
It might not be that bad if he know how to account for all his gain n loss n weigh it after all since he has venture into this pundit biz he can’t say he has never won.
All those Ola of lagos and Mr Bayo and the rest I know they also carry olosho and they are pundits.
I would say this is more than physical problem but that of maintaining your ground in the spiritual realm.
If anyone knows what they call power of delay you would agreed with me that, what this man is passing through is more than what we are discussing here.
Go for total cleansing, it’s then money can be with you for long.

silverkings:


Thunder fire you

😂