If you play with fire, you're gonna get burned! You know that you've done no wrong to him so hold onto your dignity, leave him & hold your head high. For him, what goes around comes around.

@ big nero

To me you sound like the one who is racist! Why must one race be superior to the other

You've even got Gaelic in there I'm impressed!!!

Hey, it's great to hear that there are men out there that can see past things like this but I'm not sure if she's a lesbian that she will "give it up" for you. Prostitution, she can give that up because she chose to do that, but I don't think people CHOOSE to be gay / straight or bi-sexual. Just think about it long & hard. At the end of the day, the choice can only be made by you. I wish you luck in coming to a decision.

What's up with this rubbish!!!? Pants are just pieces of clothing!

If you are comfortable with that age gap & you can communicate with each other & love & respect each other, then there's nothing wrong there. As long as he makes you happy don't worry about what anyone else thinks. I don't think age matters in a relationship two people connect. If you want to spend the rest of your life loving this guy go for it & I wish you two a long & happy life together

Are there no princes left out there at all

She should speak to her partner about how she feels about it. A friend of mine is in a similar situation but the guy is already in prison!!! He has said that when he gets out, he's going to stop it completely but it means that he will have to stay away from certain people. I feel for your friend because if he doesn't give it up, eventually it will catch up with him & bite him on the ass! He needs to stop before it's too late. All of his designer clothes etc. will be no good to him in prison.

Definitely NOT!!!

I've never been on one of those buses, but I can imagine the scene!

@ $ammy

I think not!!!!

I don't think it's possible to love the 2 guys the same!!!

@ Leilah

Not all women!

@ kate_angel

I LOVE IT!!!!! Every one of them is true

I agree with PTBNaija. How can you even consider marrying this girl if you suspect that she's seeing someone else too What kind of girl does that to a man that she wants to spend the rest of her life with Something's not right here . . . . . . .

What about all the married men that make passes at girls This is not one sided.

Yep, I'll do it! We're actually planning on moving in together at the moment!

@ chy

Just ask your girl. Don't say it in a confrontational or accusing way. I think it's best that you're just honest with her & let her know how you feel. I have male friends & I wouldn't think twice about answering their calls in my boyfriends presence. If there was a female calling him late at night, I'd ask him what's up with that & who it is. I'd just let him know how it makes me feel.

@ flakylady

I'm so happy to hear it from the other side! It's brilliant to hear it's all going so well. Good luck for a happy life together

@ spoilt

I couldn't have said it better myself! Thank god there are open minded people left in the world!

@ karl ken

It is so easy for men to leave a relationship even after producing a child, whether married or not! I'd rather not be with a man so small minded anyway!!! Do you know how difficult it is raising a child alone You have no idea. I'm so proud of myself and all of the other single parents, men & women who are raising their kids alone, due to circumstances beyond their control!

@ dany25

Well said!!! I have a child from a previous relationship & the guy left me just before I gave birth. That wasn't my choice so don't I deserve to be happy with someone else? I'm just glad I've found someone wonderful

Of course I could if I love the man. I have a child from a previous relationship & my boyfriend has a child from a previous relationship. Already his ex is trying to cause trouble but I'm not giving in to her. My boyfriend & I have spoken about marriage so I can't see the problem. It also depends on how you bring up your children, whether they have respect or not.

Hey thanks for all the replies. Well he is fine, but that wasn't his crime.

I have to agree with queen b on this one! If you don't want to get pregnant, there are ways to prevent it.

In my opinion, yes! I don't think I've met a Nigerian yet that hasn't done or isn't into fraud of one sort or another. It makes life more difficult in the long run and I'm speaking from experience here. Anyway, that's my opinion, which I'm entitled to