delzbaba:
this man need training governance is not bt fiat and executive order alone oh,,before house of assembly people show am lesson.

Assembly that are jittery having seen the result of the gubernatorial election.

Make dem do nonsense now, shebi February is close.

We shall uproot APC totally from the state.

Yeah?

That's the salvation message? That's the approach Jesus gave to the prostitute.

You'll just open mouth wa, like kanji dam.

dyera:
And the pastor will not see any need to talk sense into the head of the irresponsible young man who has impregnated three women and refused to marry any of them. What will matter to the pastor the most is the fat offering Davido will drop after coming to his church. Like no need to embarrass the young man by telling him the truth. SMH

Boss, thank you so much for taking time to explain, I'd love to get in touch with you. Can I have your mail sir?

Enigma1510:
Got one i have been using for 3years though…the seller has helped me repair the switch and the features are good and he has created more than 3 other ones that are crazy. People don forget generator sef.
He also have a whatsapp customer group where you can chat with other buyers..
Nobody go pay me for this and i don dey waste my time explaining too much..
Its only good for someone using a car for easy movement but i still put it in my laptop bag easily…Contact me sha…i paid 65k then though…I think its more expensive rn…

Which one, boss?

HolyMan12:
Buy the one that comes with transformer

Hello everyone.

I've been considering getting a laptop power bank. I need one that can charge my laptop for at least 3 times.

I need it badly and I can't afford to get a fake one.

This is the reason I'm humbly begging everyone that's already using one or has an idea to please enlighten me.

Some are saying getting battery is the best but I don't know much about it if I should go for it or a laptop power bank.

Since the news that Tstv was coming, many of us have been ambitious. We've longed wish to break free from the bond of dstv.

Over 2 years now, we've not seen or heard from them again. What is happening?

I browsed about them and found out that they're operating but the pay per View part isn't clear, they merged it with the data subscription part.

Is there someone that's using it? Please tell us how you recharge and if you watch EPL games.

Don't forget to tell us about the price too, and how effective it is. I've been considering buying one. Streaming football on one's phone is not a great option to going to football house.

You competed with your penis, an hammer, with a vagina, a penis receiver �.

Something must kill a man.

You should ask how much the school is paying the tracers, from there, you'll have a clue if the school values the teachers.

Image123:
Interesting, those ones are representatives of their pockets and ipod, not Christians. i am a Christian and i will take competence over religion at any time 't'. Many of them will apply to Dangote refinery whose head is a muslim, they will fly Emirates owned and piloted by muslims. But they want to be sentimental in choosing leaders.
How many so called pastor and reverend. bishop bosses are as wicked as Lucifer to their staffs? So many so called Christian/Pastor governors and proprietors owing salaries, and oppressing their subordinates.

Point is good head and government has very little to do with religion. i will rather have the sheikh of Dubai rule me than some smooth criminal carried on ipobic wings.

You're not a Christian, you're a wanna be.
With the events happening, you believe Christians are safe? Shettima that has been indicted several times to been a supporter of Boko haram, a group that's after the islaminsation of the country, yet you open your mouth to utter this nonsense.

If your family members were part of those killed in Ondo, maybe your brain would have reset to default.

plaindealer:
Sadly for the so called diplomat, he's not q Nigerian and he's not running for anything in Nigeria.

Siemens is already in Nigeria doing similar to what they did in Egypt and the German president that negotiated the deal and the Nigerian government did not go to Egypt to learn anything.


The clueless diplomat scored his own goal.

As if it's the first time Siemens would be in Nigeria or you're intentionally dumb that the present administration is fantastically corrupt and manipulative.

I empathise with you, inasmuch as you're for better and worse, it doesn't mean efforts shouldn't be put into getting things right.

You're a virtuous woman, you're working for a better life. However, you made the mistake of marrying someone with no future plan, neither does He feel He should change His status.

Regardless, you're married, you need your counselor or the fellow that joined you(maybe your pastor) to intervene. You can't continue this way. Life will be harder when kids come into the equation.

Another solution is to seek help in your church and if they're not helping, move to a big church like Winners Chapel and don't hesitate to open up to them on what you're battling. I mean their pastors.


While you're looking for solution to this, don't make the mistake of getting pregnant. You're working, if you can

She didn't tell you she's coming for you, she just hinted that she's moving to your lodge.

You tell her that you have a girlfriend, so she won't have any funny ideas cos it's a game to ladies.

First of all, you're a simp. I'm sorry for being blunt. Part of your story said that you have a girlfriend but you're apart, not staying together gives room for things such as this you're into.

You have to be bold to cut the relationship off and find someone around you.

Secondly, the urge for sex is a seasonal thing, your hormones are coming out, going for an hormonal shot will destabilise your body system, it's better you obey the booty call.

And if you're a religious person, then I'm sorry for you, cos you're about to enter a life you're not prepared for, marriage! That's their solution for sexual urge.

Try your best, truth be told, the higher your class, the better your chances of securing good jobs.

Another truth is that skills are what really sell nowadays, very few jobs are capable of paying one's bills totally and giving one the life one wants.

Finally, know God, if you do, you shall do exploits, for eyes have not seen nor ears heard what God has in stall for those with him.

Selah.

I used to enjoy MyTV way back but recently, the channels there are either boring or of different languages. I have managed to keep up the spirit telling myself that I gain better on MyTV than those watching Dstv but I can't keep up with it anymore, it's a poverty mindset.

Does anyone know a way to convert a MyTV strong decoder and dishes to a dstv one?

I used to enjoy MyTV way back but recently, the channels there are either boring or of different languages. I have managed to keep up the spirit telling myself that I gain better on MyTV than those watching Dstv but I can't keep up with it anymore, it's a poverty mindset.

Does anyone know a way to convert a MyTV strong decoder and dishes to a dstv one?

princeeze1:
Don’t you think if the Bvn is flagged, he may never be able to access banking services again unless he resolves it? Sometimes, bad things fester because we let go too easily, pls do not say things to discourage op, he should go the length.

I will, thank you so much

baconline:
This court order thing is over rated,u can get it within an hour, heard someone got it in about that time on a fraud case. Even if u get it, the guy will not leave a kobo in that account

The money is already frozen in His account, I made sure of that. He can't access it

emmanuelbrown26:

Pls no dulling, get the court order u dun become boss and make x5 of what u scammed u.
By the time u get the order, all his transactions would be frozen by then, he will come back begging u that's when u will charge him heavily
By the way, I don't know why afonjas like local runs

I met the bastard on Telegram, I don't stay in Southwest sef

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

You have a good heart, there's nothing wrong with everything you've said, leave those saying rubbish about desperation and wealth.

You said He is principled, where do His principles come from? I understand that you've not met His family, so you may not know about His dad or His siblings, but does He look like someone that's religious? You get where I'm going? Everyone has a moral compass that is hinged to a wall, what is His wall?

Have you met His friends or He's discussed about them before? Are they married? If not, I doubt He wants to marry anytime soon.

Because He's 32 doesn't mean He's ready to settle down.

Crystyano:



Can you help me to stop some bastards on Nairaland accusing me of lying about my brother and my situation??

I asked for help but I wasn't expecting the useless allegations?



Let's help each other.......

How do we help each other?

Rtk5:
Every bashing or insult is accepted because of the gravity of my actions.

I went to shop the other day and just at the entrance I saw a wrapped gift fall off a woman's bag while she entered her car to drive off, I picked it then rushed to give her, she thanked me and we exchanged numbers.

We got chatting that same day and she told me she is married with 3 kids which was obvious right from when I saw her. She even sent me some of their family pix and boom i discovered that her husband was someone whom we grew together in the same street those years but we were never friends because of age diffrrence as he was like My senior with 10-12 years age difference. Our chat with her got so intensed that we agreed to hangout together but we needed a secret place due to our marital status, so the only place we could go for was a hotel.

Yesterday Sunday we went there and before i knew it we had sex. Since yesterday till this till now my conscience has been disturbing me, infact I couldn't sleep throughout the night till now. I've done what is evil.

How do I get this guilt off me?

There are two phases to this.

1) You have a missing part that got resuscitated when you met her or you are attracted to her because of something. I think you're sapiosexual since you said your chat was interesting, meaning she awed You. Solution to this? Sit down and analyse what is missing, if it's the attraction to your wife, find ways to wake it up, watch videos on strengthening love on YouTube, put in the action.

2) You have to distract your mind right now, you can't confess to anyone. Not your wife, not Her husband, not your pastor. If you must, probably take a trip to another state, check out their fun places like waterfall etc. Telling anyone will lead to bad events for both of you. You will lose your marriage, she will lose hers, you will lose respect in the society.

Zico777:



I experienced such too on Telegram over a year ago.
Sent mails to the Scammer's bank and cbn.
At the end of the day his bank said he has changed location & that the number he gave the is no longer reachable.

Question is, can I still pursue the case via court order after a year?

I am not even sure if the montula is still on the surface of earth cos I cursed him.

You can.

Zico777:


The court order is a long process which will take several months.

Guy it's a lie, it only takes 7 working days!

Thank you

DubaiLandLord1:
Do not wait for Karma, do the right thing by going through the court.

Deal with him through the court, no need of even contacting him or begging him again.

I

Thank you, I most certainly will.

SportsHD:
I don't think there's something like boosting Upwork account.

There is, awarding jobs to someone, jobs of higher figures get the account higher in rank.

michlins:
Go through court order even if it takes forever. He will come back and beg you when his BVN is flagged.

If you're waiting for karma, you're on a long road

Thank you man, I'll definitely pursue the court order today

Hello nairalanders,

I write to seek help on the best way to retrieve my money. About 6 months ago I met a guy online with the name Ajibade Ibrahim Ademola. He claimed He could help people out with their freelancing jobs, so I gave him 47k to boost my Upwork profile. The niga ran with my money, boasting that there's nothing I can do to him.

I went to my bank and they advised that I write to His bank which I did. They then gave me two options to either get His consent for reversal or a court order. The court order is a long process which will take several months.

I have notified him to give His consent but He wouldn't respond. He has blocked me on on platforms.

This is His phone number:
08167245746.

What you do people think is the best way forward?

Stargurl20:
I've always experience heavy flow ever since I started menstruating until the 4th days. However this month, I realized that my flow isn't as heavy as usual and there was only a trace of blood on the 3rd day which is very unusual.

I've Googled it online and I found out that little exercises I'm doing at home recently plus stress could be the reason and I'm so worried, because I'm still a very young lady.

Health practitioners in the house, pls, I need your opinions on this.

Have you given birth before?
Did you change your diet too?

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

You asked her the right question for what she wants. Her answer and her action are contradicting and this is giving you an headache.

Actions speak louder than words, you may have to consider love from her as a materialistic one in other to move on.

In summary, give her a space, she's Confused just as you are. Don't be tempted to monitor her or her friends to know who she's choosing. If she's for you, she'll come back but for now, tell her you need space.

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I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.