Etruth:
(This message is mainly for unmarried people like myself,
who are trying to navigate the waters of singlehood and
still stay chaste).
“Eketi, you don’t get it. I’m actually offering to take away
your virginity for free. Men aren’t marrying virgins
anymore o. So I’m doing you a favour. Your husband will
thank me. You see my babe, she wasn’t a virgin when we
met. We men don’t have the energy for you women’s
disvirgining drama. See, if you die now without “doing”
it’s ants that’ll eat it in the grave o!”
I was 16 years old when this 28 year old man offered to
“help me” get rid of my hymen.
When I was ten years old, I thought I knew all about sex.
You see, that’s when my mother gave me a detailed sex
education; the difference between the penis and the
vagina and what happens when the two come together in
copulation. She was a biology teacher, so she also drew
diagrams.
As she talked, all I wanted was for the ground to open up
and swallow me. Embarrassed. Mortified. Discomfited.
But the woman no look my face; she just dey talk dey go.
Unlike some of my friends whose mothers told them
they’d get pregnant just by being touched by a man, I
didn’t have the benefit of such ignorance. Mum said that
as a Christian, my body is the temple of the Holy Spirt
and it’d be a wonderful thing for me to honour God with
my body. One way of doing so was not to have
premarital sex. She also said it’d be a “gift” for my
husband.
Along the line, I grew up and decided I wasn’t going to be
chaste because of what Mum said or for a man. I was
going to do it for me, and because I love Jesus. I would
wait till marriage.
When I was 13 and four of my mates got together and
decided to have sex as their birthday presents to
themselves. When they did, they began to act like they
were superior to me. But I paid them no mind.
When the world went crazy and being a virgin became
very unfashionable, to the point where some people
verbally abused me for being one, and tried to shame me
into having sex, I held on. “Sufferhead. The last Nigerian
virgn,” they'd say. “You don’t know what you’re missing!”
“If you start having sex early, you won’t have pains during
childbirth.” Through the lies, I held on.
Sex no get expiry date. Being chaste is nothing to be
ashamed of.
When I saw the havoc and the high cost of premarital sex
in many lives around me, I held on. When some people
would openly boast about their body counts and yet tell
me to shut up, that my virginity should be a private
matter, I held on.
Some even felt that by being a virgin, I was judging them
who weren’t—I still don’t see the logic nor understand
the connection sha. We dey waka different roads. How
my car come take jam ya car?
Today, I am 29 years old and I am still waiting.
Let me be honest: waiting is darn hard and I am neither
Superwoman nor a saint. In fact, it took me years to
learn that virginity is useless without sexual purity. I
found out the hard way, that watching porn, making out,
and doing every-every, without actual penetration only
made me an addict and a fraud. My walk to sexual purity
was a long and hard one. But through Christ, I made it.
There have been times when konji has nearly killed me.
Ayayai! Those times eh, I’ll be like pussycat, looking for
somebody to do gum-body with.
There are times when I tell myself, “Which kain suffer be
dis sef? Who dey send you work? All these running,
praying, playing PS4 and FIFA to distract yourself and
baffing cold water—will not help you. Find somborri and
do de sontin!”
I’ve had several arguments with Baba God—“Papa, did
you really mean pre-marital sex is a sin? Maybe these
people misinterpreted what you said—you know, lost in
translation kinda thing. Are you sure? Ehen? But what if I
do it only once—eezit still bad? Youdonmeanit! Ok nah.”
I’ve seen up close, the kind of intimate bond that sex can
bring in a marriage. I know that it's a beautiful thing.
That’s why I'm waiting for that special man, who will
match this special woman, move for move, thrust for
thrust. No uncertainties, no comparisons.
I am waiting for that man, who knows that this woman
has almost 30 years of bottled up passion to unleash and
is ready to receive it all. And when that time
come…..hehehehehhe….God help him!
And even if that special man never comes along, I'd still
wait.
I wait because I love Baba God and this temple of his
deserves honour.
#IHaveWaited
#ICanWaitStill
#WhatAboutYou

simplemach:
[s]This is just the beginning. No be Change hausa/Fulani and Yoluba say dem want...? Una neva see something. By the time the fulanis are tru with u;
A litre of fuel will be = 550
Power supply will be 1day ON, 3days OFF
1Dollar will be= 465Naira
One cup of Garri will be=90
School fees federal skuls= #180,000
And the NPF will have an official pricelist for bribe.
As for boko haram, that one might be made a branch of the Nigerian armed forces.
Meanwhile the FG is probing all past "PDP" govt officials.
Change they wanted, Change they have gotten[/s].

ozy4christ:
its nt all abt notice,its abt articulation,sensibility and reasonable.its nt having brain its d problem bt proper making use of it

ozy4christ:
nwoke,its nt all abt romance k,sometimes ur comments explain hw ur brain works.

ozy4christ:
whats this one saying?

maupe:

You are blind

rusher14:
We know who is going to draw up a list of why portfolios were not well distributed.

Watch out!!

Lordave:
This is where I do not agree with a whole lot of Igbos.

Igbos are not being marginalised! We're just affected by the political incorrectness hindering the colossal injustice called Nigeria. If you wail in this extent what do you expect those from Delta, Akwa Ibom and Rivers states to do for not having produced a president since 1960 despite producing about 45% of the country's main resources?

[color=000099#]How will the Igbos producing a president benefit them?
The other regions that have being producing presidents, how did the presidents impact them positively?[/color]

You want us to produce a president we can't hold accountable cos he's impunity and being shielded by the Nigerian Constitution?

Have a rethink my friend, a country of own where we can choose to canonise an underperforming official or stone him out of office is a trillion times better than a 9 consecutive times Nigeria presidents of the Igbo extraction each serving their second terms.

Ajibel:
The match would be live on supersport

paulasca4real:
we have genuine and affordable lands in asaba core area as low as 2m etc.

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HURRY TODAY AND SECURE PROPERTIES FOR YOUR FUTURE.

omenka:
I say Theodore Orji has got nothing on that guy Suswam!! Arguably the biggest criminal in Nigeria.

That man rode roughshod on Benue for 8 agonising years.

This amount they are talking about isn't up to 1/10 of what this man stole from BIRS alone.

Eight years and the only recognisable things he did in the state was to build the biggest and most expensive hotel in Makurdi (for himself) which he eventually SOLD to the state government with him as governor!!!

The second recognisable thing is his wife's gymnasium, Healthyways, the biggest and best in the state. Next is the new Government house- absolutely useless to the common man.

The man is worse than Theodore Orji!

Krystalzkris:
who e help Una too dey hype all dis tnx...

Johnnoah1st:
IF U WANT PUBLICITY why nairaland?, u dont knw NTA or something? av seen many people over 30 and still a virgin and morover u havent even confirm it maybe she i just one of the fake virgins. mtcheew.

Johnnoah1st:
DONT FORCE UR FRUSTRATION ON THE GUY, he didnt made u a dicck sampler, give credit to someone dat value her dignity.

swtdrms:

Na you be my Oga my only vexation with u b sey u dey fall my hands. If i were to be asked my honest opinion, it'll be that you come back to the folds of the progressives cuz u were doing double work in supporting these PDP fools. Gaskiyya they ain't helping you, they are really making this Job of wailing harder on you by the day. I can't imagine the level of work i'll have to do in proving that white is actually black, that'll b a damn lots of job, but proving that white is actually white is more than easy.

If its true as postulated by some people that you are getting some monetary benefits from your wailing, then in my sincere opinion also, i'll rather advice that you keep on wailing cuz times are hard, and even at that kudos to you with your high mental, analogical reasoning and analysis in defending PDP ain't small job which you are really doing well.

And if i may ask? Do we really need TonyeBarcanista in APC? If all the intelligent guys are in APC, then opposition will be completely dead, so Tonye is actually needed to be in PDP to ensure that our argumentation isn't boring but interesting. I could remember the last time you were on sabatical, nobody to have intelligent argument with, it was damn boring....

Keep it up bros but find a balance between conscience and whatever benefit u may be getting (if you actually receive any)

eyesofgod:


You must be one of those 'my leader, my honourable' gang member. You think without the individual efforts of the unsung masses the society wouldn't have collapsed long before now.
It is when the masses get overwhelmed by abject neglect from the govt that they cry out. But of course, 'briefcase carrier' like you will rather see the masses collapse under the weight of civic responsibility than call a govt to order.

Dindondin:
Is this how how the whole if Asaba look like?
Last Bullet:
This propaganda has failed on arrival!

funmijoyb:
no wonder why people leave d eastern region on daily basis

Riodiao:
[s]Nigeria a country where is ok to steal if your from the North, but if you steal and from the south its corruption. Abacha stole over 100billion dollars yet buhari said he is not corrupt but madueke has a scandal of $20billion she's corrupt . The likes of Gwarzo, al Mustapha stole over $800million dollar yet today they are free men. Atiku is wanted in the USA for the haliburton bribery scandal and corruption but today he is free man , no attempt of arrest has been made on him.madueke has been arrested but saraki is a free man. If your a son or daughter of niger delta this is a wake up call . Now its madueke, Very soon these people will come to your bed and kill you in your sleep. Keep cheering for apc and this government. abacha's govt was characterised with high scale of looting and crruption yet abdusalami came on board and never one day probed abachas administration.our own brother GEJ came on board and for the sake of unity,prosperity and the fear of been from a minority refused to probe previous administration.GEj came on board and uncovered wide spread stealling, irregularities on how the north has milked nigeria for over 40years. Gej decide to empower the south, allowing them to steal and loot to enrich and empower the regoin so tge future of our unborn children will be secured yet we join this people who want to own it all,rule forever to call GEJ names, taunt Gej.just like Fayose said GEJ gave it all like JESUS yet we chastize him,abuse him.today because of Gej we can boast of multi millionaires in the private sector from the south. Today the south can boast of over 300 professors, something that was unimmaginable in the military era. The people in the south are to ignorant and short sighted , over the months iv painstainkingly read on wikipedia about the cause of major Gen Orkar coup, the aburi accord.To all militants in the niger delta, now its the time to show you were fighting in the interest of your people. We are not a coward tribe, we fight for our right and freedom not even britain could conquer us. Enough is enough. If madueke goes down for corruption then IBB,danjuma,abacha,atiku etc must all go to jail too for corruption. Buhari can take the position on nigeria president but he can never take our freedom![/s]

DONSMITH123:


don't worry. I knew the position that suit you my brother.

I will give you minister for Women affair and for my guy Barcanista.....no comments o...

daveP:
Abi. Constituting 87% of the business class and wealthiest, increasing daily by coercing innocents. From the top to education sector. The rot's not small. May God hiya our prayer

neocortex:


[s]Sorry to bust your bubble, Buhari can't write a letter
let alone an article by himself. Everybody except the zombies know that.
It is all the handiwork of Garba/Adesina[/s].

goodlifehyd:

Some wailers would be hoping this quotes were from their god with PHD but ran the nation like a pry 3 kid.

daveP:
I wish occultic fellas stop leading our country. Only then peace would reign. I wish alot but this tops it all.

Amack:
I'm tired of Nigeria. Today probe tomorrow no case to answer.[s] The name Nigeria is a fraud. I hate to hear any thing about ritual, homo molestation and un progressive country called Nigeria. Sincerely speaking I voted for baba but the body odour can't fixed this country as I pray. I then now realise baba na borrower. Baba claimed na him make light and refineries dey work today, my questions are how many power plant did Jonathan commission.2 who repair our refineries. then I came to conclusion that all this are saboteurs. They sabotage all Jonathan effort to make this country a better place for me and you. northerners and buhari are not going to implement Jonathan confab report in our constitution. Did you remember what Danjuma said after 2015 general Election that Jonathan Averted another war. Showing that they are prepared for war and there main target is that oil wall nothing more. celebrating 55 yrs of hatred and disunity. God punish one Nigeria. Thank God I'm not a Nigeria. Biafra my home sweet home[/s].
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M4gunners:
If you can tell urself the truth, God will not bless a Country that shares the blood of her innocent citizens.

blueto:
hmm. but there are 'peaceful' things that God abhors also. E.g sex.

sex is peaceful and it is in 'any language', but yet God still detest it