Okpe mumu!!! plzzz move on to something else!! The fact that u've been on her neck for the past 3 years must be weighing her down. Like say she want u she for don dey date u. No be forming she dey do after 3 years!!!!!

Change resolution for 2011!!!! Unbelievable!

kaysy:

time heals all wonds

LOL! You killed me!! got tears in my eyes!!!!

@Poster: If the guy is not listening to ur complaints abt such a delicate issue, you should take a break from any sexual activities until he's ready to do so. If he still isn't listening to u after that, u know what to do then.

no no way!!!!! God forbid!!! even if the woman wowo pass monkey she no go enter my house!!

No one can fully understand the way the human brain works. A person could cheat for reasons ranging from "it's would be fun" to "I no longer love my partner ".  So I don't think you'll ever find the response to your question.

But if you've been cheated on, you can choose to stay in the relationship or get rid of your partner.

4 Play:

Any woman that doesn't have hymen intact isn't worth taking to the altar!I don't mean surgically-enhanced virginity but real one.

Na so e be now eh?
I don't mean to insult you but that statement is just a proof of ignorance. please I'll strongly advice you to review it. Na wa o!!! pffff. some people just dey make me vex.

eldee:

Because we're looking for women that can stand the test of time and commitment

If you know you want a man that can trust you, then lock up your Jerusalem

Please let me breathe!!! Tell me you are standing the test of time and commitment right now! if not, why are expecting a woman to do the same!!!!

@ jennykadry

loool, Like your response girl! Men just keep on looking for ways to justify their nasty ways!!!

In the first place I wouldn't even date someone with a different religious belief than mine so falling in love with such a person is most likely impossible. I think there are lots of complications that accompany such relationships when they become really serious (this applies to those who really practice their religion). People may criticize me but love is not all it takes to make a relationship work. Things like religion, goals, ideology,, are other important factors that may determine the outcome of a relationship.

Sweet T:


No no no pumpkin, i'm a certified love-vendor. Impossible to be gay. Handsome definitely playa like myself, i can rock your world like it's 1999 baby !!

Beauty they say is subjective.

Rebellious:

Same way I'm thinking you're gay.

LOL

No 2 ways about it. Just tell the dude you don't feel like it (in a nice way) et voilà! Him being disappointed is another thing!

mide1234:

PETER, WHY You DEY LIE NOW.JST TEL US D TRUTH.ANY WAY MY OWN WAS WHEN I WAS FOUR.CAN You IMAGINE A LADY IN OUR COMPOUND, SHE WAS 24 THEN.SHE CALLED ME IN2 HER APARTMENT,SHE KISS ME AND SHE ALSO DO ME.

ROTFLMAO!!!!

I don't think there's such a thing as equality in relationships (pls don't bite my head off). Men and women have general characteristics that automatically make equality fly out the window when it comes to realtionships.

Men have that "I'm the man and it's my duty to protect you and at the same time conserve my ego" attitude. Women tend to be touchy when it comes to matters concerning the home, kids and finance.

Just as ppl have said, compromise and understanding are what shd be fought for in a relationship not equality(meaning partners shd value each other with respect). Equality is out of the picture when emotional factors are present. Believe me I'm all for women's rights but equality in relationships is just another term for power struggle which will eventually do more harm than good.

It depends on the ppl involved. Just like others have stated I think it'll be much more effective on ppl who've got some sort of acquaintance. The art and writting skills of the guy matters a lot. If you write it in a riddle-ish kind of way you may have a better chance of stirring the lady's interest but that doesn't mean you've won her heart.

OLODO of the century!

After all that has been said you had the guts to ask another STUPID question. One day God will punish you! I think you are an a** h**e. I'm praying for your sugar cane to permanently get bent so that you'll not even be able to impregnate a mature woman not to talk of a 13 yr old girl.

ppl like you make me want to stand for the death penalty! Idiot.

@ poster

Lol! God do ppl still use common sense?

wetin ppl no go do in the name of love! kai!

this is weird. I'm also an edo girl (mum's side). I was born and raised up there. I'm not trying to brag but I'm one of the nicest person you'll find around. Your experience has got nothing to do with the tribe but just the personnality. I'm sure there are men who'll say the same thing about women from other tribes (I know people who say the same thing about Ijebu and urhobo women).

I don't know why but it is sort of a common thing in this forum for people to generalise from just a single or no experience. You can't put everyone in the same basket cos there are always exceptions.

that's my take on the subject.

saucekid:

its called making a down payment

Lol! Please be easy on the guy (but I can see the fun in yabbing him). This is just another proof that stupidity comes in different forms.

If my boyfriend told me something like that I'll react be it a test or not. There are better ways of testing someone without being disrespectful.  what if it was the other way round and I told him "I'm a player"? guys you won't even wait to find out if the girl's joking or not.
I'd say in everything apply common sense and wisdom.

I've been following this thread for sometime now and I keep on coming back to it. Gosh! you guys are not even showing him a lil bit of mercy.

Imagine the poor dude coming to nairaland of all places for advice on something that common sense could have avoided. LOOOOOOOOL!

@ poster

I'm sorry for you. I personally think you are screwed ( I can't believe you said insemination was not done inside. OLODO!)

See your situation as an example to all the coconut heads out there who think they are too smart!

Nothing anybody can do or say now will help you. eh ya! kpele! God be with you!

I can't stop laughing! God ! you've got all sorts of people in this world. on a serious note, like some of you said, the proposal is just a tip of the iceberg. the man's thinking ain't just right.

kiss her in the pouring rain? Haba! it would piss me off if a guy wants to kiss me in the rain cos at that time I'd only be thinking of my hair. na only oyibo they like that kind thing.

lol

@ Jayon

Hahahahahahahahaha!

I don die oo!!! God have mercy. hahahahahaha. Grammar don die for this post.

u all are killing me with laughter!!! His confidence level shd be like -10 now. pele bibi.

really hard to say right now. Last week I was worth 55,000 naira in cash, this week 3500 but next week I shd be worth about 20,000 minimum.

My assets;

law books worth 20,000naira
clothes
shoes
gsm
1 pc

and oh before I forget, I'm 21 so I still have enough time to catch up with the big guys.

Yeah, I heard about the baby language. I'm pretty sure it was on Oprah. A woman came up stating she had discovered the baby language. It seemed to work on the babies presented on the show.

I'd advice you to quietly drop both of them if u can't forgive them. If you can, I'd still advice to give them an arm's length.

I'll go with seun on this one.