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Business / Agencies That Advertise For Mouka Foam and PZ by farewell: 4:12pm On Sep 16, 2011
does anybody know the ad agencies that does ads for mouka foam and pz ?
Family / How Is Your Family Family Bath Time ? by farewell: 12:37pm On Sep 10, 2009
Nairalanders, Is it right to bath with your kids ?

what bathing soap or gel do you use and why do you buy that particular soap ?

Why do we even have to bath with soap after all?

Is there a unique soap in the market? Is it proper to use same soap the parents bath with for the kids ?
Family / Nanny Or Baby Sitters Needed! by farewell: 10:59am On Sep 01, 2009
I need a nanny or a baby sitter who live around isolo / Jakande estate.
Family / How Do You Make An Ex Leave You? by farewell: 3:34pm On Aug 18, 2009
Please people there is this guy that had an ex he was not really into which made him cut her off. but lately, the girl has been pestering this guy who now has another girl. he has talked to her to no but she would not budge. This is threatening the guy's new relationship because the ex leverages on the guy's relative to sleep over in his house then pressurizing him to have sex with her as she also a friend of his sister.

The question is how can he tell her off and make her stay off without moving out of the apartment?
Family / Re: What To Do To A A Husband That Purnishes His Immediate Family by farewell: 10:26am On Aug 06, 2009
Thank you all. You have all been helpful but my question is how does she cope with 2 kids ?
Is there alimony practice in Nigeria as this guy likes to shy away from his responsibility. Even in the house its been the woman catering for most of the kids needs which has not been easy anyway while the man enjoy his money with his relatives that frlicks the house.
Family / Finances In Marriage by farewell: 11:57am On Aug 05, 2009
how do you handle a husband that is not responsibl financially for his children and wife .Even though he is very rich and comfortable and has his three relatives living in the house that he spoils with money every now and then ./?
Family / What To Do To A A Husband That Purnishes His Immediate Family by farewell: 11:42am On Aug 05, 2009
Peolple what do you do when your hubby has humiliated you and stopped appreciating you that you now hate him and there are kids involved. He has even allowed his younger brother beat you up while he was tthere.

Now the wife feels like hurting him.
Family / Re: Troubled Marriage Which Way ? by farewell: 11:57am On Jul 20, 2009
To shed more light on this topic .

The hubby wants the wife to take the beatings of his brother in good faith and still not say a word in the house. He wants the wife to continue cooking for the brother while the brother does not lift a finge around the house.

The hubby wants the brother to interfere and be in the know on everythingf going on between the couple which the wife frowns upon.So he is torn i between and feels he has come a long way with his brother. So because the brother and the wife are not in good terms the hubby decides to take the brother side.

Even after the wife was beaten by the bro in law . the hubbby was begging the wife not to tell anybody.So she went ahead to tell relatives since he would not do anything about it. which he did not like.

I hope that answers the question.
Family / Other Marriages by farewell: 2:34pm On Jul 15, 2009
what do you think about young single guys getting married to a mother of 3 ?Can you?
Family / Troubled Marriage Which Way ? by farewell: 1:30pm On Jul 15, 2009
In need of help .

what do u do when you have a hubby you feel does not love and appreciate you?

This is the ordel of a woman with kids that the hubby is soooooo tied to his relative's aprons
He has his brother and nephew staying in the house without the consent of the woman yet she never complained up until the younger brother beat her up. The boy later came to apologize and the wife forgave him but told the hubby that the boy has to move out of the house which the husband refused.
Every week at least 2 friends of his from their village too pumps in .So basically there is not privacy at all and he will be in the living room with them till late at night before he enters the bedroom or even sleep with his brothers in the living room as the house is just two bedroom apartment.
Anytime the wife refuses to cook for the brothers he withholds her feeding allowance for weeks and would not even feed his 4 & 2 YEARS children. IT means no money for the wife for weeks or months until he needs sex.
My shock is that his is supposedly a xtian brother from the south west.
Then the brother cooks for the husband and they will move the bed to the living room and sleep together (Husband, brother (27) and Nephew (15).
Once when the hubby told the younger bro to do some work around the house. The bro fought him and almost broke the husbands head so he does not frown again at what the younger bro does . he gets away with everything EVEN BEATING THE WIFE UP .
Is it true wives cant tell in –laws to leave the house in Yoruba land? The wife even suggested renting an apartment for the boys else where but the hubby does not have the liver to do it.
Now the wife stays in her room with he r kids cos she cant even get o hold the remote control in living room cos it like its glued to the bro in –laws hand.
The hubby always tell her to calm down that its for a while and its gone on for 5 years .
The brother in law controls everything even hold the keys to the new house that the husband is building.
The brother now sleeps with the hubby while the wife sleeps with her kids separately.
Nigerians help!
Tried bringing pastors in and counselors but the hubby runs from any body that tried to talk sense into him .
The wife even tried going away from home once for a day but nobody looked for her ad the kids instead the brother went to the marketand started cooking the elder sister too left her husband 's house to come and wash he hubby's clothes.
The wife is gainfully employed.
Family / Re: How to Deal With a Wife That Nags a Lot by farewell: 12:43pm On May 12, 2009
For the partners of people who nag, some of the responsibility for improving the lines of communication falls on them as well.

"Start out by doing what your spouse is asking to you to do -- that might nip it in the bud. "Another alternative would be for the person who is getting nagged to avoid getting angry or nasty, which doesn't work well.

Instead, have a heart-to-heart about what it feels like to be constantly hounded about something, but in a loving way, instead of a defending way."
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Family / Re: Wife Battering By In -laws by farewell: 10:14am On May 12, 2009
Thanks all !

What does the wife do since the hubby is not being a man . He does not have the liver the send the boy packing and they say you can't arrest in -laws in ONDO.

The hubby is so tied to his brothers aprons.
Family / Wife Battering By In -laws by farewell: 4:18pm On May 11, 2009
Please help! This is from a lady friend married for 10 yrs with 3 kids .

What do you do if your husband’s younger brother insults and beat you up in your own house at the slightest thing?
At first he started with abuses and later progresses to punches.
The most annoying thing is that the husband who is supposed to support the wife is so scared of the brother he only begs you in the room and tells you to keep mute about the whole issue.
The mother in law apologizes on the boy’s behalf but the boy himself is not sober and there is every tendency it is going to happen again.
Big question! How do you get this person out of your house?

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