Hello mamas, went for ANC today o, doctor checked me and said baby weight is 3.8kg and am just 37 weeks. Now he is saying based on my height he wants to TRY and see if I can have normal delivery but will be on standby for CS, now hubby does not think there is a point going thru painful labor and still ending up in CS and wants to opt for elective CS, me am just confused... HELP

Rukemi, ur gist is very interesting, thank God for evrything, i don dey use style collect d baton o, may God make all d rest of us have sweet stories, o how I wish i get a female doctor, the thought of a man putting hand therr dey make me shiver per second but i go just close eye and try not to think about it.... beauty January is closer than u know o, its in 2 weeks time so get resdy....
God will take care of the new born ....

Congrats rukemi, may God protect you and your prince.

Ok , thanks , mamas, I will watching it. Abeg, tell doctors not to strike o. God help us

opeoluwa2:

Madam,I'm excited ooh cos you re my exact classmate(lol) that shld be signs of labour.
I haven't noticed it on me ooh
But I'm believing God for safe delivery this month. Don't want that first days in january jaree.
It looks too farr.
Make sure ur hospital bag is ready ooh
@rukemi,may God grant u safe and painless delivery in Jesus Name

My dear husband is so anxious to see LO that he has put d bag in d car already. My EDDI is Jan 5 but scan keeps giving us Xmas day as delivery date. The menstrual like cramps come and go and are more in d night. What am praying against is this impending strike by doctors. God will help us

Rukemi the Lord will see you through. We r patiently waiting.
@ all, I am 37 weeks now and I have been having feelings like my period wants to come. Could it b signs of labor?

Present ma, na how to send my chicken over b ur next task. All mamas how una dey

Congrats Julie best. Princes my baby was breech at 31 week's but has turned now so relax u still have time.

Congrats Udoka and honey 86,
God will take care of the new princes.
Rukemi oya o, u r next n.a. after u drop I go begin dey forward match to hospital... the Lord will make it easy for us all.

Rukemi291: beauty I never knew about the ori o and i'm waiting for the birthday mate.

Joilin. Kai, March is so so so so far. Thank God i have just a few weeks. *rolling my eyeballs doing shakara and feeling like a senior*

U are welcome Dear Kemi. The result is not like magic na. You will continue doing it for sometime ni o.

Shakara gal, no forget say Udoka dey dere o, any way I dey ur back sha... as soon as u drop I go carry my bag go hospital.

beauty?:
Rukemi, Lol @mirror.
Byvan, someday i will get there.
Bigmom, tear with 3kg. Thats serious o. Infact, i want to stop imagining labour. I will take every step as it comes.

That's the best thing dear, I used to always imagine labor that I started telling hubby I wanted elective CS but now I have told God to let His will be done... as long as me and LO are fine no wahala. I don't think of labor anymore . The people that have gone thru it no get 7 heads....

Rukemi u predicament really is not funny @ all, if u were to travel abroad to deliver na so dem go rush u to come back? These rules should b bent once in a while, d annoying part sorry to say is that u guys are still to fund d ceremony even though the same tradition says d 'uncle' is to do d funding he should look for d money by all means na... Anyway just keep a watchful eye on ur LO d Lord is ur strength...
@ all I december mamas we will deliver safely by God's grace
Gen Buhari God will see Madam through just keep on encouraging her u are doing a good job

God is still alive He does not go on vacation, pls take it easy, its not easy but God will restore that which was lostand soon too... so so sorry

honey86: @obatide congratulations
@all, I started feeling nauseous and threw up a couple of times since last week, is this normal cos I'm 31 weeks gone. I also get tired quickly these days, I pray to God for strength o.

Dear I can undastand d tiredness, my LO kicks all night so I find it difficult to sleep and when I do my full bladder wakes me up, so in d end am so tired in d day... As for the throwing up its normal but let ur doc know about tho...
@ kaf cakes my actual EDD is first week in Jan but am hoping for a december baby so I feel u, but let's keep praying for God's time...
Cheers

Gen Buhari L think stitching d cervix and placing her on bed rest is dbest option, give her our regards,
Udoka Ingot d ellectric one for 11k its also tomme tippie, expressing milk will also let your hubby have d plwasure of feeding his baby, plus u can get ur rest while someone else feeds d baby.
Pretty trust i have 4 diff EDDs the scan guy says its based on my baby size and weight, but am trusting God for His perfect time whilst hoping d baby comes at 38 weeks
or max 40 weeks i dont want 42 weeks....

@ Kheti don't worry I feel u, I wake up in d morning and it look like am just 4 or 5 months opregnant by dinner time my tummy is looking like I am already 40 weeks,
Gen Buhari please just keep praying, ur wife will b fine thank God she is already seeking medical attention, as long as the Cervical Os is closed ur LO is doing ok, but ur wife has to really calm down so dat her BP can go down, we are with u in prayers

Happy anniversary dear... U will celebrate d next one with ur LO IJN... Congrats dear

Rukemi I dey o, how r u na?
Nice 14 u really need to calm down as anxiety is not gonna help, talk to anoda doctor if u don't feel convinced, but most of all take ur feet off the ground and try eat well lots of fruits and veggies, don't worry ur LO is here to stay, we all get paranoid in dis pregnancy, for me I worry my tummy is too big other days I worry d tummy is small, amongst others, but God dey and He will see us thru
@ all have a lovely sunday

sennykenny1: @ fnor, I'm Jan mama too, so u r not left out, hw is ur lo doing?

@ byvan, Congrantulations am so happy for u, abeg forget about d pain, seeing ur baby should make u happy.

@ sweet ayi, dnt be jelous ooo, afterall u will ve ur baby very soon.

My dear am fine o, and LO is doing great kicking all over and am enjoying it cos it makes me know all is well.... just wishing october and november will run quickly, my original EDD is 1st week in Jan but last scan says late Dec, well na God get d final say,.... hope u and lo are also fine.... cheers
@all, abeg i dont have as much vaginak discharge as all d preg books i dey read say i shouldnhave at 28wks, hope there is no problem cos pple say one should b having sooo much discharge but i just have little

beauty?:
I have not been given any anti malaria o. Am 24wks +. Is that alright?

Dear request for it o, iwent for ANC at 25 weeks and complained to d doctor dat i had not been given, he shouted and was mad at d nurses, they kept apologising, am due for anoda antimalari next week, u need to take it at east 2ce during pregnancy, doctors normally give fansidar...

baybiemee: Thank u so much dear, mine was at FMC, now am heavy with my second, due in January, still contemplating going there still. But I won't let that nurse come near me again if I decide to go there.

Yay finally I have a January mate.....though I was d only Jan mama

Yeah Humming bird relax, u have a loving hubby who has promised to stand by u and wonderful sistas here on dis thread to support just as u've been there for us... So what more can u ask for?
Just get enuf rest and don't b scared to ask for help from trusted family and friends whenever u need it...
Cheers

Byvan ur story is really touching thank God u and LO are ok.... As for these nurses one needs to say a special prayer in advance for d kind of nurses that will b with u on ur day of delivery, the ones dat would encourage and not discourage and d ones that would b helpful and understanding... They act as if they r not women or have not gone thru d travails of childbirth... God dey sha
Humming bird how r u today, abeg just relax and take one day @ a time... No b angry @ ur hubby so he won't feel bad... The Lord is ur strength...

@byvan... 5kg... That's large men, congrats dear God will restore ur strength and protect u and lil one
I am also a January mama and d wait is really killing me... Can't wait for december so I can start counting down
As for d kicks my dear sometimes I dey worry but my mom says as long as there is movement, turning, hiccup et al u are fine its when u don't feel ANYTHING at all that's when wahala dey, above all there is a limit to what we can do so we leave d rest in God's hand and pray that He finish d good work He started, its not easy o there r lots and lots of things we worrt about but God dey and it is well...

Tbaby4real: Hello beautiful mamas....... I am so happy today cos I have so many reasons to praise God. Today is our wedding anniversary and we have best gift ever.... We did our ultra sound today and was told we are expecting twins . Seriously I don't know what to say cos dh always pray for twins and here we have them in my womb. God you are worthy to be praise all time..... You are indeed my God.

Woooooooow, really d best anniversary gift... congrats gal.... the Lord that started this will finish it, u will hold ur double blessing in ur arms in due time... cheers and happy anniversary

udoka2: @fnor
thanks dear, its not painful at all. i will mention it to my doc this friday.
But does it mean my baby will come early?? , l cant wait to have this baby at 38weeks

Well I cant say, the braxton hicks is just a way ofnur cervix prepping for labor, like its doing its own exercise i dont think it determines if ur LO will come early o, but lets hope for d best... my own EDD is January 5 but am hoping for late december... but Gods time is d best...Cheers

udoka2: @ALL

noticed lately that my stomach is tightening often nothing more than that; and it goes away almost immediately. suspecting Braxton Hicks contractions...but is it not too early at 31weeks+?

Dear its Braxton Hicks o so fear not, some preggies xperience it as early as 28 weeks sef, just relax, butnlet ur doc kno w if it bcomes painful, the Lord is our strength...

@kaynee God is really wonderful... Congrats gal, u will carry to term IJN and deliver safely, wait till ur 8th week before u go for scan so dat they get ur LOs heartbeat... Just eat well and get a lot of rest... Congrats once again gal

@ beauty... Thank God I am not d only anxious one, I also had catarrh thru out yday with headache, just rested thruout and slept a lot, I feel a lot better abd stronger dis morning, so try and get some rest..

Thank God I am not d only January mother, my 40 weeks will elapse by 1st week in ;anuary but am sooooooo anxious to hold my baby, dat sometimes I wish LO will come by 38 weeks, but am trusting God to make all things beautiful in His time, d anxiety is there but am holding on and counting down,
Wishing all a blissful week ahead

queen_labisi: Just gave birth to a baby boy after being induced, jist 4 lata, I'm xhausted

Congrats girl, pls get all bd rest u need, may God protect u and ur LO

sennykenny1: Congraulations Mayblossom, may God guide u and ur baby. To d mothers expecting dis month, I wish u safe delivery.


Still counting @ 27 weeks. God see me tru

Pheww FINALLY I have a preggy mate I was thinking am d only late Dec/early Jan mom in d house now I have a partner *dancing Alanta* may God see us all through
@ mayblossom, congrats dear God will protect u and ur new born