My Dear,you do not cure Leprosy by asking the same agent that inflicted it on ur spouse to visit you.If you truelly want this marriage to work,you must take it to God in prayer, I dont know what you are looking for but,the diseases outside are enough to piece through any condom.

Ask yourself also,what sort of home both of you are building, in the final analysis,the woman owns the home and by nature we are home keepers and not radicals.Ask yourself what sort of kids you are going to raise and what values you are given to them,that is if there are kids.

I am not a strong advocate of divorce but rather than this,please,both of you should go your separate ways, I pray that God heals you home in jesus mighty name,Amen.

my heart goes to the family of the deceased , mothers' we all have roles in the upbringing of our kids,sometimes,we need to speak rather than force our opinions,counsel to make them see the folly in their actions, this is one hard lesson.!!!!